The more she talks the more I see a very accurate depiction of a young woman in a toxic relationship with a very unwell addict who’s behaviour turned aggressive when he perceived he to be stopping him from getting his next hit
As for her verbally abusing him, calling him a has been, calling him names, totally normal behaviour. Not wanting to report/make public the extent of their/his problem, Totally normal.
I think the vast majority of the public’s misunderstanding about AH come from having very little idea of what people deep in addictions can be like. She’s certainly no angel but the outpouring of hatred for her is very worrying. He is 100% an abuser. Couldn’t be anything else.
All of this, basically. But added to that, the many messages in which he talks revoltingly about women, especially Amber obviously but also Vanessa Paradis, and the fact that he seems to be hell bent on destroying her, put me pretty firmly on her 'side'.
I think he was extremely abusive while on drugs/alcohol, and I think he has to know that he was in fact abusive towards her just because the evidence is there pretty uncontravertably. Especially the incident on the plane, where text messages from his then assistant strongly corroborate that (and which his team have objected to every time they're mentioned - I understand it's 'hearsay' but those messages were sent to Amber and it seems a little unfair that they can't be included in evidence).
I think with Australia, there's little reason to doubt how insane his behaviour was - you only have to look at the messages written in his own blood to see this was a man who was unhinged at the time. I don't find it hard to believe he did what she's alleging. She never wanted to make the sexual assault public. The cuts on her arms are mentioned by people present in the recording afterwards. It also doesn't strike me as unusual that she wouldn't seek medical treatment or would hide things.
I think she may have exaggerated the level of the assaults at times - or to put it another way, she may have been scared and traumatised and is reporting it as she experienced it. She doesn't have to have dramatically visible injuries for it to be true that he was hitting, pushing, strangling her etc. And she does have photos that clearly show injuries.
I also think any analysis of the situation that doesn't take into account the large age difference and the fact that he was far wealthier and in a more powerful position, surrounded by his staff and security and deep into his addictions, not to mention the way he's on record speaking both to and about her ("shut it, fat ass", "don't pretend to be authoritative with me, you're nobody's mum", nobody will be interested once her tits start to sag, etc), is completely missing the most fundamental thing about this. He had the power, he had the upper hand and he had no compunction about completely degrading her. He's still doing it. You don't have to like her or think she's a great person/ 'perfect victim' to see that fact. He's the abuser in this scenario.