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New employee is a fake, where to go from here?

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londonnotlangdon · 28/04/2022 06:56

It's a large organisation and I just had to send off her paperwork, passport, things like that

She was given the job after her second interview last week.

However, she has emailed me these documents (fine), and her birth certificate says born in September 2002?

That makes her 19?

This is a problem because, for example, her CV says she was an Executive Assistant to a Director in 2018? When she would've been in school?!

I've asked HR, who haven't replied properly, I've asked them to call. But someone replied to my email of concern with 'so you don't want this new me ever of staff? Why not?'

What can actually be done about this?

OP posts:
sonicred · 30/04/2022 16:27

Would you want to employ a liar and a fraud?

Apparently 40% of people admit to lying on their CV & more people will do it but not admit to it. I certainly embellished my excel skills for one job.

sonicred · 30/04/2022 16:27

Would you want to employ a liar and a fraud?

Apparently 40% of people admit to lying on their CV & more people will do it but not admit to it. I certainly embellished my excel skills for one job.

sonicred · 30/04/2022 16:28

no idea why that came out twice

mybiggestfan · 30/04/2022 17:52

You could always check out her birth on free BMD.

Twilight7777 · 30/04/2022 18:11

CowboyFromHell · 30/04/2022 08:29

If only the Mumsnet site update had included a mechanism that only allowed people to post on a thread after they’d clicked on ‘see all OP posts’ and actually read then!

Oh god yes it’s so frustrating isn’t it?!

lap90 · 30/04/2022 22:40

It's odd that you asked her to provide her birth certificate to start?

RantyAunty · 01/05/2022 04:29

I've seen several posters on here saying they don't apply unless they meet all of the qualifications in the ad. When you do that, you're overqualified. You want a role where you can grow.

As one Forbes article put it, “Men are confident about their ability at 60%, but women don’t feel confident until they’ve checked off each item on the list.” The advice: women need to have more faith in themselves.

EdgeOfSeventeenAndThreeQuarter · 01/05/2022 07:26

It’s definitely a woman thing. I was taught in my first year at uni to never go for a job I was qualified for because I’d be bored witless within weeks. I agree 100% and am in this position right now… however when I apply for “more” and reach interview they seem perplexed when I explain this theory - even though I try to say in the nicest possible way “I’m a software expert, sure I’ve not used “this” package before, but it’ll take me about an hour to pick it up”.

Ddot · 01/05/2022 07:58

Nice try🤣 girlfriend

BarbaraofSeville · 01/05/2022 08:13

lap90 · 30/04/2022 22:40

It's odd that you asked her to provide her birth certificate to start?

Why? Employers are required to check ID using multiple sources and a birth certificate is on the list of suitable documents. Plus at 19, she's more likely to still live with her parents, or live in shared accommodation so could well not have things like bills in her own name to use.

EBearhug · 01/05/2022 09:16

As one Forbes article put it, “Men are confident about their ability at 60%, but women don’t feel confident until they’ve checked off each item on the list.” The advice: women need to have more faith in themselves.

This is true, but also women are often judged more about their abilities than men are, for the same qualifications/experience.

Disco2022 · 01/05/2022 09:31

I recently had to get my pgce certificate reprinted from the University as I lost mine, and it came with 2018 on it. I qualified in 2008! I didn't actually notice until HR questioned it! It could be something like that?

Disco2022 · 01/05/2022 09:33

Oh sorry I see that it is on multiple docs!

Disco2022 · 01/05/2022 09:33

Oh sorry I see that it is on multiple docs!

burnoutbabe · 01/05/2022 09:54

AlistairCamel · 29/04/2022 18:59

How interesting that she’s withdrawn. I wonder if she saw this thread.

i was going to say that I worked with someone in an unrelated role who basically became a freelance journalist at 13. She sold in loads of articles to music publications, didn’t tell them her age - she just did it. They then started asking her to go along to interview bands. She spent quite a while post school working doing other things until she pursued her passion. She’s now on national radio.

But that's the sort of thing that is realistic. Caitlin Moran did similar. Or doing YouTube or selling on Etsy.

Pa to a senior person in large company is not realistic.

TheOldRazzleDazzle · 01/05/2022 10:53

@EdgeOfSeventeenAndThreeQuarter - That doesn’t surprise me and I’ve had similar - knocked back for jobs where I’ve had 90% of the requirements. Always being contacted by recruiters for jobs that are precisely equivalent to mine, much less often for a step or two up. Unlike male colleagues with less experience who often interview for / land roles with many new and additional responsibilities. I think people are keener to take a punt on men, as well as seeing women as doing X job, whereas men are building a career.

I wonder if it’s like pay negotiations. We’re told that women don’t negotiate hard enough. My experience is that there is a lot of truth in that, but it’s also true that some people aren’t keen on women who negotiate. A highly-paid job came up in a different team in a previous organisation and it seemed a colleague of mine could either go for it (leaving her manager with a headache as she was the lynchpin of the team) of it use it as leverage for a raise in her clearly equivalent role. Her manager was obviously worried, but said he didn’t really think she’d do it as ‘she wasn’t like that’.

She left the company altogether for something better paid.

Palaver1 · 01/05/2022 13:59

You seem to have a feeling somethings off.
Make sure you are clear what you want from HR.
It would be unfair for someone to be handed a job under false pretence.

Usernamerequired · 12/07/2022 02:51

National Insurance Number can give away age. It is possible to check this and report to Tax office as if using someone else’s NINO it is fraud

Bloodybridget · 12/07/2022 03:04

Zombie thread!

Skodacool · 12/07/2022 07:53

londonnotlangdon · 28/04/2022 07:06

Her very first CV entry is something along the lines of junior assistant. The job started in 2015 and ended some years later - The job title then changed on her CV, same company, and she says she was quickly promoted there when she filled in for a colleague in an emergency and then got the job

She was 13 in 2015. Get her in and question her.

MrsLargeEmbodied · 12/07/2022 08:00

she retracted her application

Izzy24 · 12/07/2022 08:23

TulipsGarden · 28/04/2022 07:02

If HR aren't concerned there's not much you can do. You've raised your concern. Have they taken in her references? (I bet they haven't.)

If she doesn't have the experience it will become apparent when she starts working. If she's actually good though, I suppose it doesn't really matter?

If it does turn out to be dishonesty rather than an error of some kind I should think that definitely matters in an employee!

JorisBonson · 12/07/2022 09:43

Jesus, RTFT.

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 12/07/2022 13:13

I love a zombie thread with a conclusion! Enjoyed reading they, wonder what she is doing now and why she withdrew

2bazookas · 12/07/2022 14:05

Fake ID, stolen documents, report to police.

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