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Ukraine invasion discussion thread part 11

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ScatteredMama82 · 09/03/2022 15:43

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RedToothBrush · 10/03/2022 12:50

@holliem91

At this point I don't see which would be worse... Putin winning or loosing?

Can someone help me out here?

Him winning could just be the start of it all but him loosing could mean he feels he has nothing left to loose, add the sanctions on top of that and his words were "there can not be a world without Russia".

Winning is the more likely scenario. Sanctions will continue indefinitely, probably at least until he is 6ft under and then we'd see what happened. He may or may not decide to move forward. It would be difficult for him to do so, but not beyond the realms of possibility, especially if he seeks to pick off Moldova. More likely he'd be a disruptive force where possible, in much the same way Russia has been in recent years with covert operations but will the dial turned up. It really depends on how long economic screws are turned though and HOW he goes about winning. We could have WWIII or we could have a freezing Cold War (in both a metaphorical and literal sense).

Losing. If its getting to that stage I suspect something would happen. Being seen as a poor leader would spark something amongst a bunch of mafiaso henchmen. There will be a split between those who think they have everything to lose if Putin goes and those who think that they have something to gain if Putin goes. There are rumbling that the FSB certainly aren't happy (lots of leaks) and there are rumblings that some in the military aren't happy either. The fact that he made key decisions with many out of the room, won't be taken well I suspect. I do think that some will go to the bitter end with him, but some won't. And thats where I think we have to pin hopes tbh, if it goes that way. So either a go out with a bang and take everyone with you or be taken out, potentially resulting in even civil war within Russia (which wouldn't be good either).

And then there is a whole myriad of options in between that before the conflict in Ukraine ends. I think a lot depends on how long it drags out for or whether Chemical Weapons / Nukes come into it.

I actually might hazard to say here, that having made such a CATASTROPHIC error in the way that he's gone into Ukraine, one thing that might come into play is whether he gets angry or starts thinking. If he moves out of anger he could be aggressive and reckless. If he starts to think, hang on, I miscalculated this I can't repeat the same mistake then he might pause enough to consider taking on particularly big gambles (such as a Nuke).

I note the US are trying not to wind him up atm. If they can get him perhaps rationalising better work better for everyone. So yeah the cool heads approach, may have some validity - its whether he interprets that as weakness though.

Honestly there are a LOT of variables here still. I think I will say this a bit; we can't see an exit ramp right now, but one may appear perhaps when we don't expect it to. We need to be open to exit ramps and be looking to create them, whilst also mindful of the fact he will not want to lose face or be seen to be the one backing down. In his own mind he is being reasonable and its others who are unreasonable. His 'madness' or 'lack of rationality' is based on false assumptions or massively different world views. We need to understand and follow those through in terms of what he's thinking and where he will take things.

He is NOT getting good advice and he doesn't have the best technology or intelligence.

I think the real danger is a major miscalculation by either the West or Russia. Not 'madness'

Jisforjelly · 10/03/2022 12:54

@RedToothBrush so do you think nukes are likely to be used either way then? I may have interpreted your post wrong but that’s kind of what it sounds like.

1dayatatime · 10/03/2022 12:57

@MagicFox

Similarly in the summer of 1914 nobody really thought there would be war or even if there was one then the senior politicians thought it would be over by Christmas against the advice of their cooler headed military experts:

news.sky.com/story/amp/world-war-one-and-the-short-war-illusion-10394372

The parallels are scary.

nonono1 · 10/03/2022 12:57

Because Britain declared war on Germany when they invaded Poland. Had Britain not done so, it might well have been possible to keep out of the War.

Probably one of the most naive comments I've ever read on here!

ScrollingLeaves · 10/03/2022 12:58

colouringindoors

BeckyWithTheGoodHair010101

Lavrov is saying that the maternity hospital had been taken over by Azov on 7th March and had no patients.
Whilst I would like to think he is a lying bastard - are we being played with Ukrainian propaganda also?

Did you not see the pregnant woman being brought out on a stretcher?

BeckyWithTheGoodHair010101 · 10/03/2022 13:00

@ScrollingLeaves

colouringindoors

BeckyWithTheGoodHair010101

Lavrov is saying that the maternity hospital had been taken over by Azov on 7th March and had no patients.
Whilst I would like to think he is a lying bastard - are we being played with Ukrainian propaganda also?

Did you not see the pregnant woman being brought out on a stretcher?

Did you read all my posts?
nonono1 · 10/03/2022 13:00

Ukrainians with passports will be able to apply for UK visas entirely online from Tuesday, Priti Patel has said.

This is excellent news (better late than never).

Tuba437 · 10/03/2022 13:08

[quote Jisforjelly]@Tuba437

To me it doesn't seem at present that both Nato and Russia have a clear line of them not wanting us to get involved and us having no intentions of getting involve

Do you mean does here instead of doesn’t?[/quote]
Yes I did, sorry :)

1dayatatime · 10/03/2022 13:12

@holliem91

"At this point I don't see which would be worse... Putin winning or loosing?

Can someone help me out here?

Him winning could just be the start of it all but him loosing could mean he feels he has nothing left to loose, add the sanctions on top of that and his words were "there can not be a world without Russia".

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You are right in that which is worse?

If he wins ?
Firstly what even is winning? Perhaps he could defeat the Ukrainian military and capture Kyiv but he doesn't have the troop numbers to occupy the country against what will be continued insurgence backed with weapons from the West.
If he did "win" then after his mauling don't think he would be keen to have a go at the next "country" but it would make the West look weak and encourage others such as China in Taiwan to do the same.

If he loses?
Putin would be most likely ousted from power and is extremely unlikely to have a comfortable retirement in his dacha writing his memoirs. Tyrants when ousted are usually either killed by the next tyrant as a perceived threat or to blame for the catastrophe. Or they get prosecuted by a new democracy for war crimes / to blame for the catastrophe and then executed. This doesn't seem play well for rational actions from him.

As an alternative the West could threaten to cut loose support for Ukraine if they don't agree to a peace treaty but this would be going completely against strong popular opinion in the West in favour of Ukraine and also lead to nuclear proliferation as countries see this as the only "threat" that will prevent intervention / attacks by the US or Russia.

time4anothername · 10/03/2022 13:14

www.reuters.com/world/europe/russia-acknowledges-conscripts-were-part-ukraine-operation-some-taken-prisoner-2022-03-09/

Putin is trying to shed himself of any blame of death of young conscripts and pick out fall guys in the army.

1dayatatime · 10/03/2022 13:15

@nonono1

Assisting vulnerable refugees with transport from Poland to the UK would be a helpful next step. Rather than them either being left to Poland or face the hardship of making the journey themselves.

OhRosalind · 10/03/2022 13:18

@TiddyTidTwo

They voted to block funds to countries that don't follow the rule of law, even during wartime. Not sure what the issue with that is? I don't know anything about the wider context here

it's during the current crisis I don't understand. Poland have taken over a million refugees from Ukraine and surely this makes for good reading for Putin?

It’s a long-running case but the timing of this specific vote is in response to a recent decision by the European Court of Justice. In the case of Poland it’s due to reforms threatening judicial independence - basically, persecuting and harassing judges if their decisions go against the executive. First the Polish government wanted exemption from the “rule of law” due to the pandemic, now they are using Ukraine as another reason. The resolution had support from Polish opposition MEPs. I’d argue it’s actually an important time to be asserting the importance of upholding democratic principles and not giving them a pass.

The EU separately announced funds for humanitarian aid earlier this week, part of which will be allocated to Poland.

There’s more detail here:
notesfrompoland.com/2022/03/10/european-parliament-calls-on-eu-to-block-funds-for-rule-of-law-violators/

1dayatatime · 10/03/2022 13:21

@nonono1

"Because Britain declared war on Germany when they invaded Poland. Had Britain not done so, it might well have been possible to keep out of the War.

Probably one of the most naive comments I've ever read on here!"

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True or it would have only kept Britain out of the war for a short period of time.

However I would say that if Britain had not declared war when the Germans invaded Belgium in 1914 then it could have stayed out of the First World War which would have meant a shorter less deadly war and would also have meant that Hitler, the holocaust and WW2 would never have happened.

dreamingbohemian · 10/03/2022 13:24

I think the constant comparisons to the Second World War are making people more alarmed than they should be actually

Putin is not Hitler or Napoleon, wanting to conquer all of Europe, and we can now see that the Russian military is nowhere near as strong/modernised as was previously thought. Whatever happens in Ukraine, Putin will not be in a position to attack another country for a very long time (especially if sanctions stay) and by then he will hopefully be dead.

I understand the urge to do something and try to save more people being killed but the argument that if we don't, Putin will then come for the rest of Europe, is scaring the crap out of a lot of people while probably not being true.

MagicFox · 10/03/2022 13:27

@dreamingbohemian

I think the constant comparisons to the Second World War are making people more alarmed than they should be actually

Putin is not Hitler or Napoleon, wanting to conquer all of Europe, and we can now see that the Russian military is nowhere near as strong/modernised as was previously thought. Whatever happens in Ukraine, Putin will not be in a position to attack another country for a very long time (especially if sanctions stay) and by then he will hopefully be dead.

I understand the urge to do something and try to save more people being killed but the argument that if we don't, Putin will then come for the rest of Europe, is scaring the crap out of a lot of people while probably not being true.

A very sensible post
RedToothBrush · 10/03/2022 13:29

[quote Jisforjelly]@Tuba437

To me it doesn't seem at present that both Nato and Russia have a clear line of them not wanting us to get involved and us having no intentions of getting involve

Do you mean does here instead of doesn’t?[/quote]
I think this is a really crucial point.

NATO want to push things as far as they can, but they aren't sure where that point is firmly.

Its a question of 'just how far can I push this' on both sides.

Hence my above point about a major miscalculation by either side.

The fact that there's now noises about chemical weapons being a line for NATO is interesting. Not a full commitment but a growling.
The US backed off the MiGs too. I think for similar reasons.

The talk today about Wagner, is to take heat off Western 'Off The Books' military action. There is almost an 'understanding' that its going on, but neither party gains much from saying its a 'red line' either.

Russia KNOWS it can not take on more military action on the ground. It does not have the capacity for it. Equally the West KNOWS it can not directly engage either because it can't win a direct war with Russia. Its precisely why they've been fighting proxy wars under the radar for years. That dead lock is the thing that stops things spreading.

Putin doesn't want to take something on, which isn't on his terms in terms of preparedness. (And actually to an extent vice versa). Putin is not prepared militarily, economically or politically to escalate at present. He must consolidate first, if he intends to escalate.

The problem is that now the situation is meaning things are spreading in various ways. And nationalistic and anti-Russian extremes are going to be sensitive to those encroachments.

We know the Americans clearly have some dialogue going on through back channels at lower level which probably will help to identify red lines.

I think when the growling between the two starts its not necessarily an indicator that something will happen. The public are widely misunderstanding this growling. Its nervy and unsettling but its about establishing the others boundaries too. Its a setting out of these lines. Like the Cuban Missile Crisis.

As I said yesterday, I felt noises yesterday were about an acknowledgement of a prolonged conflict being a possible scenario, but I think they will try for a full crack at Kyiv too first as a gamble to try and avoid that. That suggests Russians are suddenly trying to work out alternative plans themselves. They are 'war gaming' possible next moves.

I do wonder if they have almost got themselves in a pickle with it after weighing it up. Its possible the calculation is that they will be able to raise Kyiv more in a scorched earth strategy but at a heavy cost and they won't be able to take it. They've got to weigh up how far they go with that, because they also can't just decide to turn around and go back either. The stuff I've seen suggests they would need pretty much their entire force they have in the whole of Ukraine to encircle Kyiv - thats not considering actively taking it. So how much are they willing to commit to Kyiv, knowing that?

They may well be putting up a trial ballon to see if chemical warfare is something they could get away with or would provoke further intervention. (My guess - if they do, those MiGs will appear and theres almost something of an understanding going on with this without an outright declaration of war likely as a next step).

Attacking hospitals is about breaking will and morale of Ukrainians. Its effective. But it also has other effects like reinforcing Western determination and resolve.

I DO worry that they will use chemical weapons. Especially if Putin is getting frustrated and the soliders have more pretty on them to be even more brutal. He has used them. So whether he would isn't in doubt. What's in doubt is whether he would see it as beneficial to him strategically... BIG difference. I worry because I wonder about Western commitment and whether Putin does see he could gain an overall advantage from chemical weapons. The problem for the West is that every escalculation has to be justifiable and be proportionate and in line with public opinion in the West.

'The fear' is a power in its own right and how its used is very relevant here. The whole cold war and nuclear deterrent is based on this idea of 'the fear' rather than actual military usefulness. In this era of warfare this applies not just to nukes though and its probably worth looking through that lens. Threats make the public fear. Democracies are beholden to fear of public opinion. Totalitarian regimes are well practised in using fear itself as a weapon of control.

(I'm probably wittering a bit now, but I hope that makes some sense).

dreamingbohemian · 10/03/2022 13:40

I agree that redlines are being arranged behind the scenes and we the public will not necessarily know until much later what they were.

During the First Gulf War the US managed to get word to Saddam that if he used chemical weapons against US troops in Kuwait, it would be considered a first use of WMD and the US might decide to respond with nuclear weapons. Et voila, no chemical weapons were used. But this was not some kind of announced deal when it was made or anything like that, it was back channel.

MarshaBradyo · 10/03/2022 13:43

@dreamingbohemian

I think the constant comparisons to the Second World War are making people more alarmed than they should be actually

Putin is not Hitler or Napoleon, wanting to conquer all of Europe, and we can now see that the Russian military is nowhere near as strong/modernised as was previously thought. Whatever happens in Ukraine, Putin will not be in a position to attack another country for a very long time (especially if sanctions stay) and by then he will hopefully be dead.

I understand the urge to do something and try to save more people being killed but the argument that if we don't, Putin will then come for the rest of Europe, is scaring the crap out of a lot of people while probably not being true.

I appreciate this post Dreaming
RedToothBrush · 10/03/2022 13:43

[quote Jisforjelly]@RedToothBrush so do you think nukes are likely to be used either way then? I may have interpreted your post wrong but that’s kind of what it sounds like.[/quote]
You've interpreted wrong. Don't get me wrong, I think it could happen in certain scenarios, but I think this isn't inevitable at all. (And even if it did, I don't necessarily think it will see mutual destruction).

I think dreaming is right about seeing this as not WWII with Hitler in a pure military invasion.
We've moved on past that.
This conflict is kinda more like parts of WWII crossed with the Cold War. Its much more opportunistic. Its about Game Theory.

A game-theoretic explanation for democratic peace is that public and open debate in democracies sends clear and reliable information regarding their intentions to other states. In contrast, it is difficult to know the intentions of nondemocratic leaders, what effect concessions will have, and if promises will be kept. Thus there will be mistrust and unwillingness to make concessions if at least one of the parties in a dispute is a non-democracy.

However, game theory predicts that two countries may still go to war even if their leaders are cognizant of the costs of fighting. War may result from asymmetric information; two countries may have incentives to mis-represent the amount of military resources they have on hand, rendering them unable to settle disputes agreeably without resorting to fighting. Moreover, war may arise because of commitment problems: if two countries wish to settle a dispute via peaceful means, but each wishes to go back on the terms of that settlement, they may have no choice but to resort to warfare. Finally, war may result from issue indivisibilities.

There is very much the observation that Putin can not win in Ukraine. He may claim it militarily, but he will struggle to win it politicially (especially if he martyrs Zelensky).But he also can not lose in Ukraine either, otherwise he loses power back home.

By the same token the West can not win a direct military conflict with Moscow. But it can not afford to lose or back down from supporting Ukraine's soveriegnty and independence between its crucial to its belief system in freedom.

RedToothBrush · 10/03/2022 13:45

So we are stuck.

With Ukraine right in the middle of it, with lots of civilians.

herecomesthsun · 10/03/2022 13:51

It occurred to me that if we could find a way for Putin to step down and save face, that would be the best solution all round.

If it could be seen as a great act of statesmanship to minimize further bloodshed at this point.

Idle fantasy / wishful thinking no doubt.

Garfieldismyspiritanimal · 10/03/2022 13:52

@herecomesthesun

I agree with you and I suspect a lot of the behind the scenes negotiations are about how this could be done

smilingthroughgrittedteeth · 10/03/2022 13:53

Sorry if its already been discussed but the thread moves so fast and i havent seen it. What is the latest with chernoybyl? If it stays offline surely thats a concern for everyone, would the risk be high enough for NATO to step in?

UKRAINEwearewithyou · 10/03/2022 13:56

The UK is FINALLY sanctioning some of the Oligarchs.

The Chelsea fans interviewed care more about 'their club' than human life and suffering in a war on a free country though.

Chelsea are campaigning the government to allow them to continue as 'normal as possible' - Why? They took money from a Russian Oligarch and have prospered from that blood money. No idea where or whom it was stolen from. The club are now moaning and whinging. I hope they are back of the queue to be heard since more pressing matters concerning refugees from a war torn country. Some people care more about money than people.

RedToothBrush · 10/03/2022 13:57

On that note:

olexander scherba @olex_scherba·
Mykolaiv governor:

We talk to Russian soldiers. They dont want to attack. But cant go back. We need a humanitarian corridor for them. But not for for those who shell civilians. Not after what happened in Mariupol.

IS IT REALLY TIME TO OFFER SURRENDERED RUSSIA SOLDIERS ASYLUM IN EU?

Now I don't know if this is a good idea or viable, but it highlights my point about lots of Russian almost being 'stuck' in a one way system thats not really what anyone wants at this point.

Those Russians on their way to Kyiv don't want to do it. Their commanders probably don't want to do it because they know its stupidity too.

Its the whole idea of 'Lions led by donkeys' which we commonly associate with WWI. The phrase which throws up a dead interesting wiki...

The origin of the phrase pre-dates the First World War. Plutarch attributed to Chabrias the saying that "an army of deer commanded by a lion is more to be feared than an army of lions commanded by a deer". An ancient Arabian proverb says "An army of sheep led by a lion would defeat an army of lions led by a sheep". During the Crimean War, a letter was reportedly sent home by a British soldier quoting a Russian officer who had said that British soldiers were "lions commanded by donkeys". This was immediately after the failure to storm the fortress of Sevastopol which, if true, would take the saying back to 1854–55.

Karl Marx and Frederick Engels used the phrase on 27 September 1855, in an article published in Neue Oder-Zeitung, No. 457 (1 October 1855), on the British military's strategic mistakes and failings during the fall of Sevastopol, and particularly General James Simpson's military leadership of the assault on the Great Redan.

The joke making the rounds of the Russian army, that "L'armée anglaise est une armée de lions, commandée par des ânes" (The English army is an army of lions led by asses) has been thoroughly vindicated by the assault on Redan.

History has a funny way to repeat...

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