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The invasion continues - Thread No.4

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ChimChimeny · 28/02/2022 17:48

Following the previous (2? 3?) Threads

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dreamingbohemian · 01/03/2022 12:19

@DuncinToffee

Lewis Goodall *@lewis*_goodall

NEW: Hungarian Foreign Minister says that his government is supporting an initiative by eastern EU countries to start membership talks with Ukraine: “Hungary backs this initiative and we urge Brussels to put the issue on the agenda.”

If true that is shocking to have Orban on board.
Natsku · 01/03/2022 12:19

@DuncinToffee

Pippa Crerar *@PippaCrerar*

NEW: No 10 confirms that Ukraine refugee visa scheme has now been extended to wider family.

Home Sec Priti Patel to announce that adult parents, grandparents, children over 18 and siblings of those settled in the UK will be permitted entry.

some good news at last
MarshaBradyo · 01/03/2022 12:19

@vera99

I really despise Johnson but he is right that we can implement a no fly zone. It will just escalate this conflict out of all proportions. I really despair for the Ukrainians but we cannot destroy the entire world. The reality of the situation is that if we put military forces in the air, on the ground or even out at sea Ukraine will be just a footnote in the following conflict.
Just to check did you mean cannot implement it

I agree btw

DuncinToffee · 01/03/2022 12:22

The elected representatives of 27 EU countries applaud Zelensky (video link)

twitter.com/alextaylornews/status/1498629444919042051?s=21

StrychnineInTheSandwiches · 01/03/2022 12:23

@DuncinToffee

Pippa Crerar *@PippaCrerar*

NEW: No 10 confirms that Ukraine refugee visa scheme has now been extended to wider family.

Home Sec Priti Patel to announce that adult parents, grandparents, children over 18 and siblings of those settled in the UK will be permitted entry.

God, they really had to be dragged kicking and screaming into agreeing to that.
DGRossetti · 01/03/2022 12:23

@DuncinToffee

Pippa Crerar *@PippaCrerar*

NEW: No 10 confirms that Ukraine refugee visa scheme has now been extended to wider family.

Home Sec Priti Patel to announce that adult parents, grandparents, children over 18 and siblings of those settled in the UK will be permitted entry.

I'd believe it when I see it myself. Can anyone give me the name of a cabinet minster who hasn't been caught lying ?
vera99 · 01/03/2022 12:26

Just to check did you mean cannot implement it

Yes !

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 01/03/2022 12:26

@Natsku " There are some Russians, especially dual nationals, fleeing Russia on the train to Helsinki. I just hope no one treats them badly for being Russian, already seen one sign at a protest in Finland demanding all Russians be kicked out of Finland sad"

Yes, same here - I know of two young dual national Russian boys who are flying to the UK today, twin brothers who are months off whatever conscription age is. They have an older sister studying in England, but have not spent much time here.

I'm glad they are coming, the fewer sunflowers that are planted, the better.

DuncinToffee · 01/03/2022 12:27

Is there any truth in this?

@nicktolhurst
+UPDATE+

Multiple (& increasing) reports of Russian soldiers deserting and "walking back to Russia on foot".

Not just individually but in groups.

Natsku · 01/03/2022 12:29

[quote vivariumvivariumsvivaria]@Natsku " There are some Russians, especially dual nationals, fleeing Russia on the train to Helsinki. I just hope no one treats them badly for being Russian, already seen one sign at a protest in Finland demanding all Russians be kicked out of Finland sad"

Yes, same here - I know of two young dual national Russian boys who are flying to the UK today, twin brothers who are months off whatever conscription age is. They have an older sister studying in England, but have not spent much time here.

I'm glad they are coming, the fewer sunflowers that are planted, the better.[/quote]
Phew, good time to leave if they are close to conscription age.

MarshaBradyo · 01/03/2022 12:29

@vera99

Just to check did you mean cannot implement it

Yes !

Thanks

I’m finding the hard lines on this and other things and united response from NATO good (and something to help my nerves).

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 01/03/2022 12:30

@Natsku, apparently on a plane now.

I don't know how they did it either, but the family have money, so I am assuming that played a role.

CallyfromBlakes7 · 01/03/2022 12:34

Phew, good time to leave if they are close to conscription age

Yes. I was just reading a story about someone who went to visit her parents in Russia because she is no longer of conscription age, but had difficulties getting out because of the closure of airspace. Eventually she got out via Istanbul and then Amsterdam (she lives in Brussels). But Putin has changed the age limit on conscription so she was lucky to get out.

HeadPain · 01/03/2022 12:34

@claudineClare Not Zelensky, the fat bald one with beard

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 01/03/2022 12:35

Zelensky speech is utterly heartbreaking.

HeadPain · 01/03/2022 12:35

Not being rude just way to describe his appearance

MarshaBradyo · 01/03/2022 12:35

@DuncinToffee

Is there any truth in this?

@nicktolhurst
+UPDATE+

Multiple (& increasing) reports of Russian soldiers deserting and "walking back to Russia on foot".

Not just individually but in groups.

I don’t know but I dearly hope so
Alondra · 01/03/2022 12:36

*Why the fuck do you think that we don't agree?

Sorry but piss off with the moral high ground.

What you seem to be saying is the immorality of previous Western led wars is somehow a moral justification of Putin's war?

I don't happen to think that.

I happen to think that Vietnam was America's collective nervous breakdown over Communism.

I happen to think that the way the British State has handled NI pre-1992 was just shocking.

I happen to think that the bombing of Nagaski was in no way justifable.

I protested against Iraq and Afghanistan.

But I also am mindful, that there are also situations like WWII - which also had a very long run up to it, couldn't have been avoided. And even then I'm very aware that we did some appalling stuff as part of that. Dresden springs to mind.

And situations like Bosnia.

I have struggled with this idea of terrorist/freedom fighter since a teenager. I have been to places to try and get a sense of the difference.

Past wrongs, don't make this less wrong.

I have family who are Quakers. I also find this difficult to deal with, because although I fundamentally disagree with war because its ordinary people who hurt, not leaders, I also am aware of human nature and its ability to be all consumed by power too.

I don't think war is something that we can just purely opt out of either, because sometimes you do just get individuals hell bent on it. Just like I don't think you can stop all individual murders.

I personally think that the West has completely lost sight of many of its values that underpin liberal democracy. I've been saying that on MN for years that our hypocrisy is definitely part of the problem.

I still don't think that we've had any agenda for regime change in Russia though. Nor any desire or appetite for war with Russia either. Even in terms of sphere of influence, Russian citizens aren't exactly embracing Putinist ideals of Russia in the numbers he'd like - they aren't embracing western style ideas either - its a global technological revolution present in every corner of the world. China gave up on the idea of opting out of the world and avoiding technology a long time ago and instead invented its own social media etc. I don't believe that President XI is resistant to mobile phone technology (given it also allows him to monitor his citizens closer. Instead of embracing this new age, Putin locked himself in his own timewarp and resisted change, rather than making change work for him.

This is all about his ego on a personal level. Its Putin's war. Its his personal paranoia and inability to escape an era thats the issue here. Other voices might have found different solutions to ongoing tensions.

This one begins and ends with Putin. Just like the issue with the nutbar in North Korea, which will probably also eventually end in tears.

Even when Putin goes, I'm not convinced there will be a happy ending either, because it will leave a power vacuum. And the way Putin has ruled for the last few years there isn't a natural successor around either. When the Berlin Wall fell the fear was of civil war.

So seriously stop it with the lecture over how you are more right than anyone else and open your own goddam mind too, cos it seems pretty closed to the idea that we don't necessarily agree with our own government and quite frankly are more interested in the humanitarian cost of this on all sides (yes including the Russian - I actually feel sorry for the kids thrown into this with threats behind them and guns before them and no way to know if the person next to them will run away, treat them like a traitor or simply be dead in the next minute. And I feel for all those about to lose homes and jobs because of Putin's folly and vanity. Etc etc the list goes on).

My interest in this subject is, and always has been this sense of social coping and multiple view points.

Whats striking about this conflict is given the deep mistrust of the state within Russia. Putin is not Russia. Russia is not Putin.

But by the same token, I am not NATO, I am not Britain.*

You just seem to think wars are in a vaccuum. I'm not NATO, I'm not Spain or Australia. What exactly does this mean?

Like you I believe in the concept of liberal democracies, unlike you I don't think they are possible . We live in a world controlled by powers beyond what we chose in a ballot box. Day in and day out we see scandal after scandal of what our very "democratic" leaders get up to, they don't give a shit to ordinary people, bills, housing, health, standard of living....they keep investing billions in arms while they can't protect citizens because those billions invested in arms have to be deducted from local social policies.

I detest what Russia is doing to people in the Ukraine but unlike you I can't forget what the West has done to millions in the ME, Asia and Africa. We cant just simply forget the awful images of todlers killed in Palestinian occupied terroritories by Israeli rockets just because it's not what the press in our countries wants to talk about for the fear of being antisemitic.

War is awful, it kills people ...it displaces them. But unless we accept we live in awful discriminatory and predatory societies with governments that are as bad as Putin because they've always targetted those with less while supporting money and business including invading countries. Countries that never attacked us or possed a thread to us but our own multinationals had plenty to gain to get free access into those countries' resources.

If you really think what Putin is doing is different to what the US with the West support has been doing in the Middle East and lately Yemen is different from this war, you've lost your social conciousness.

Posting about this war should not be about how awful Putin is, he's a sociopath...ect etc. If you, like me, cares about people and geopolitical truth, this war has nothing to do with Putin or Biden, it's about the 2 biggest nations with nuclear armament fighting about about resources control.

It's got nothing to do with "democracy".

CPL593H · 01/03/2022 12:37

I can't find any confirmation/clarity on whether Belarus has crossed the border or not

dreamingbohemian · 01/03/2022 12:38

@DuncinToffee

Is there any truth in this?

@nicktolhurst
+UPDATE+

Multiple (& increasing) reports of Russian soldiers deserting and "walking back to Russia on foot".

Not just individually but in groups.

There's certainly a lot of reports of this in social media. And reports of finding Russian vehicles abandoned even though still working/fueled.

BUT no way to know how widespread or truthful this is.

The average Russian conscript is young, poorly paid, poorly trained, poorly fed. He's being asked to fight people who look and sound like his own people, he may even be part Ukrainian (there are a huge number of Ukrainian-Russian families). He's being asked to target cities and civilian targets. It's really not surprising if there are a lot of desertions.

WeAreTheHeroes · 01/03/2022 12:40

@ClaudineClare - the nuclear weapons which were in Ukraine were Russian/Soviet nuclear weapons the Ukrainians did not have control over. It was negotiated that those weapons would be removed rather than Ukraine being given control over them. So Ukraine didn't give up its nuclear weapons in the sense you probably think it did.

Scianel · 01/03/2022 12:41

@Alondra I appreciate your contributions to this thread, these are all issues I've thought long and hard about myself.

HeadPain · 01/03/2022 12:41

@JaniieJones

'Who is the Ukrainian guy speaking now to the eu on sky news?'

'Zelensky'

Surely she meant Ruslan Stevanchuck? Think most can recognise Zelenskyy these days.

Yeh I know Zelenskyy. I meant the one who came on after. Fat one with beard and balding. (Sorry just a description). Googled, yeh looks like Ruslan Stevanchuck, whoever he, is a Ukrainian politician. What is his role? Now, during war and previously? Is he commanding defence or something? What's this "Chairman of the Verkhovna Rada of Ukraine" is that similar to Prime Minister?
dreamingbohemian · 01/03/2022 12:42

If you really think what Putin is doing is different to what the US with the West support has been doing in the Middle East and lately Yemen is different from this war, you've lost your social conciousness.

I absolutely agree that the US/UK has done things just as bad, if not worse, in many countries around the world.

But right now it's Russia doing the unlawful aggression and killing innocent people so maybe it's okay to focus on that for a while.

workisnotawolf · 01/03/2022 12:43

@dreamingbohemian - I wonder what would happen if EU offered all Russian soldiers in Ukraine refugee status and safe passage…
I suspect some might be worried about family left back in Russia, but plenty would go for it.

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