@Jvg33 - How hard to be up a few times in the night with young babies?
My mother didn’t get up for me after 4 weeks. I stopped crying after a couple of nights apparently, babies shouldn’t be pandered to.
I didn’t have medical attention when needed as a child as my mother really couldn’t be bothered with that and doesn’t believe in illness really (unless it’s her who is unwell, then the world stops)
Do I have your permission to use the word “cold”?