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Would you put your Christmas tree up if you were on your own?

79 replies

Appalonia · 20/12/2021 18:19

For various Covid related reasons I'm going to be on my own on Christmas day. I'm ok about it but don't have the motivation to put my tree up. I have some lovely ornaments and it looks beautiful when it's up but cos it's just me, I can't be bothered! It might cheer me up to do it, but everything's so grim right now, what's the point...?

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megletthesecond · 20/12/2021 18:20

Yes. And I know it would stay nice and not be fiddled with.

Toddlerteaplease · 20/12/2021 18:20

Yes

pigsinblanketsrule · 20/12/2021 18:21

I might be alone yet OP, I've put my small one (3ft) up but can't summon up the energy for anything else this year even if I am not.

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FlamesEmbersAshes · 20/12/2021 18:21

I’d probably feel like you but I think I would put it up in the end - and be glad I did. Nice things are worth doing because you deserve nice things.

GoodnightGrandma · 20/12/2021 18:21

Yes, because I have decorations from over the years and it’s nice to see them again.

MissMarpleRocks · 20/12/2021 18:22

No

But I’m A grinch. I wouldn’t ever bother if it wasn’t for the Dh & dcs.

BitterTits · 20/12/2021 18:22

Yes, definitely. The tree is hands down my favourite thing about Christmas. I love my peaceful living room.

flamedancer · 20/12/2021 18:23

Yes. Get yourself a bottle of Baileys a bag of ice. Put some Christmas music/film on and you'll feel glad you did. Hope you have a nice chilled Christmas x

GemmaRuby · 20/12/2021 18:24

It depends if you would actually enjoy the process of putting it up. If the answer is no, then personally I wouldn’t bother and would embrace the un-Christmassy Christmas this year.

HollyandIvyandAllThingsYule · 20/12/2021 18:24

Oh definitely.

Put on Carols from King’s (YouTube/Prime/Spotify/etc), pour yourself a glass of something festive and put up your beautiful tree. 🎄

Afterwards how about watching The Bishop’s Wife (free on Amazon Prime atm).

canary1 · 20/12/2021 18:24

Yes definitely. I always had a tree up when I lived by myself. It’s just lovely to enjoy, it doesn’t matter how many people see it

Floralnomad · 20/12/2021 18:26

Absolutely , my trees are one of my favourite parts of Christmas .

luinagreine · 20/12/2021 18:26

No but I'd find it more hassle than it is worth. I'd maybe hang up a few strings of lights though.

Moonface123 · 20/12/2021 18:26

l definately would.
Do it for yourself, you will be glad you made the effort.

Heartoverheadheadoverheart · 20/12/2021 18:27

I hate decorating the tree. If I was on my own I either wouldn't bother or I would buy a very small fibre optic tree or even a tiny real one that just needs a couple of decorations.

PotteringAlong · 20/12/2021 18:27

Yes! I always did when I lived alone. And I wasn’t even at home for Christmas!

Slowchimes · 20/12/2021 18:28

I hear you op! I would skip it if on my own this year! Not feeling it at all ... .

whatnumber · 20/12/2021 18:29

If you think it will cheer you up then yes definitely.
For me no. I live with my family and we aren't putting it up this year! I've looked for a table top one but can't find one!

Babdoc · 20/12/2021 18:31

It’s really up to you, isn’t it OP. I live alone, as does one of my DDs, and we both have a tree up.
When DH was alive, and we used to spend Xmas with his parents in England, we still put up a tree ourselves for the days before and after our trip.
You deserve a nice Christmas just as much as people who will not be alone.

labazslovesliving · 20/12/2021 18:33

I always used to put mine up when I was on my own as it made it more cheery and made me not feel so out of things when I saw other peoples trees. Also, put a load of tree chocolate decorations on it so you have something to look forward to!

DisforDarkChocolate · 20/12/2021 18:34

Yup, and I'd probably buy a whole new set of decorations despite having enough for about 3 trees (green and gold colour scheme is on my wishlist).

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/12/2021 18:35

Always. Because it makes me smile.

Do it if it makes you happy.

hiredandsqueak · 20/12/2021 18:39

No your Christmas is my dream Christmas. I only put up the tree because the dc would be disappointed. Left to me I wouldn't bother with Christmas at all.

35andThriving · 20/12/2021 18:42

No

I wouldn't bother.

Bloomers58 · 20/12/2021 18:44

I wasn't going to bother as also on my own but I forced myself. I put some music on, decorated it and then sat down with a glass of wine and a mince pie to rewards myself. Made me feel better than expected and now I enjoy putting the lights on every morning and enjoying my cuppa infront of it whilst it's still dark x

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