[quote surreygirl1987]@bungleandgeorge
"I’m pretty sure most of them also select based on attitude and behaviour hence the interviews and school reports."
To an extent, yes, but that's not necessarily always easy to pick up in an interview, and reports aren't always honest. Plus in my experience the majority of pupils applying do demonstrate decent behaviour and attitude (on entrance exam day anyway!) - I have come to expect it. IME it's the exception to not accept a child based upon poor behaviour/attitude.
Privats schools do differ on what they are looking for, too. Some schools go for very academic children who they think will get those top grades, and everything else is a lesser (or no) priority. Others want 'all rounders' - so will accept a less academic child if they're good at sport, drama etc. In fact, some care about their sporting reputation so much that this takes a massive priority and some pupils will get in despite having very low exam scores because they are the county's best hockey player etc. And other schools want bright, assertive, confident pupils who they hope will be leaders - they do debating as part of their selection process, for instance. It really does vary widely. Oh yes and then some are non-selective. And some, don't forget, are private SEN schools.[/quote]
I agree with this. The difference between schools can be night and day. We loved our first Indi as the culture of the school was very nurturing, spent at lot of the time outside in the grounds ( they had woods)spent a lot of time confidence building and public speaking. It was a very close knit school. We had to leave because the senior school grades were never going to set the academic world alight . No entrance exam & every one is a winner. High in take of SN - in fact 54%
The independent down the road was hothouse and admitted to 'suggesting' that children left in year five if they were "struggling". Entrance exam if joining in year 1 and upwards. It was business not a school.
Our new prep school is very academically driven, lots of female empowerment (girls school) shit loads of homework, lots of encouragement in class to attain grades. These kids are driven and the teachers expect a lot. Lots of focus on sports and clear winners at sports day/ reading comps/writing comps. No entrance exam.