I wish someone would set up a British parenting forum that takes a trans-inclusive stance, to be honest.
It would need to define what support and inclusive means. Even within trans communities, this can mean a wide range of things.
Also defining feminism - intersectional - as SunshineSum defined well - is one branch with some offshoots. There are dozens of feminism branches. Having a branch that you think best fits the reasons and solutions to women's oppression at this time is fine, but the others aren't nothing - they're alternative perspectives, many like radical feminism are part of history of changes in the laws around women, and still part of feminism just like Anglicans and Methodists are both part of Christianity.
The way that people here spend hours coming up with theories and conspiracies and banding together in them doesn't sit right with me. It reminds me of the way incels talk online, weirdly.
Incels spaces regularly involve discussions on intimidating women and seeking violence against others. They've been linked to attacks that have killed people.
Not seeing the similarity. I don't agree with all the main flow of trans conversations on here, but I've yet to see people glorifying those who drive vans into people.
Freedom for everyone to be whatever they want.
When I wanted to be British, having not been born that way, I had to jump through a bunch of hoops to meet the criteria including passing a test, having two people verify my character - at least one who was British and over 25, the other being a 'suitable profession', be willing to submit to multiple background checks, and affirm my allegiance to the country, the Queen, and her heirs. My wanting it - or even having spent my entire adult life here - wasn't enough. Whether I 'lived as British' or not didn't matter either, it was whether I was a good enough person who fit the criteria and able to jump through those hoops.
Even having gone through that, I'm still an immigrant. I can't be native-born unless I return to my birth country. I have all the rights and responsibilities of a native born British person, but I can't be one no matter what I want. And, no matter how much I've tried at times, I can't sound like one so every time I speak, my twang is obvious.
My older children - who are British born, but have elements of my accent - have needed support at school as the children of an immigrant even after I became a British citizen. I'd rather it wasn't needed, my children certainly don't want to need to have designated adults to discuss each time they're told they're not really British, but I'm glad the schools recognize it.
Similarly, no matter how I've felt at various times of life, I cannot be male even if I get mistaken for one occasionally. I'm glad my school growing up protected me and my male peers by ensuring I could be included in activities when there was no girl alternatives, but not alone with the boys in changing rooms, toilets, or hotel rooms and provided female staff when it was needed -- they recognized the risks no matter how I wanted to be. My wanting to be a certain way doesn't make me that way and wider systems sometimes have to recognize that for my own and others good.
Our systems have a lot of issues and there is certainly room for improvement, but freedoms come with responsibilities and we can't really work towards change without considering the latter as much if not more than the former.