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Tell us a secret that no one else knows?

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GloomyWaters · 04/06/2021 00:23

Me...by the end of this year I will be divorced...DH has no idea!

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Topsyair · 07/06/2021 15:22

My child watches tv all day

Pals812 · 07/06/2021 15:34

@NegativelyPositive, hope you're feeling better. Wishing you a speedy recovery and sorry about the miscarriage.

Pals812 · 07/06/2021 15:42

Hold on @Wineat5isfine, it does get better and I'm sure there are people who love you. Stay strong.

SunshineCake · 07/06/2021 16:24

[quote Ballbagisnotmyname]@SunshineCake honestly I have no idea what I’m doing and ask myself the same question daily! I’ve got myself into something that I can’t find a way out of right now. It’s not until I read my post back to myself that I really realised how screwed up it is! I’ve not told anyone how I really feel but I’m become so detached it feels like it’s someone else.[/quote]
Please take some time to reset your mind. This man is not good for you even if the sex is great. You can get that from someone who hasn't fucked you over. Value yourself. Detaching might work for now but it will hurt a lot more in the future Sad.

BiscoffAddict · 07/06/2021 16:35

For the best part of the last year I’ve wanted to go to bed with Matt Hancock.

mags1862 · 07/06/2021 16:45

I have a secret drawer for my toys .

MrsBongiovi · 07/06/2021 16:58

I have a secret drawer for my toys .

Like your x box and stuff? 🤣

EmmaGrundyForPM · 07/06/2021 17:05

@BiscoffAddict

For the best part of the last year I’ve wanted to go to bed with Matt Hancock.
I think that's the most shocking post I've read on this thread Grin Grin
mags1862 · 07/06/2021 17:08

eletrical yes but not gaming in that sense .

SleepingStandingUp · 07/06/2021 17:09

@BiscoffAddict

For the best part of the last year I’ve wanted to go to bed with Matt Hancock.
Some secrets should be taken to the grave
MrsBongiovi · 07/06/2021 17:10

yes but not gaming in that sense .

🤣 Sorry. I’ve just rewatched fifth shades. Ignore me.. 😬

MrsBongiovi · 07/06/2021 17:11

*fifty

Maddiemademe · 07/06/2021 17:14

I was a high end escort for 5 years and made a very substantial amount of money.

Wineat5isfine · 07/06/2021 17:29

@Pals812

Hold on *@Wineat5isfine*, it does get better and I'm sure there are people who love you. Stay strong.
Thank you xx 💐
Hawkins001 · 07/06/2021 17:31

@MrsBongiovi

yes but not gaming in that sense .

🤣 Sorry. I’ve just rewatched fifth shades. Ignore me.. 😬

What are your toys selection consist of ? Id recommend those magic wands , the plug in variety, very good.
Hawkins001 · 07/06/2021 17:32

@mags1862

eletrical yes but not gaming in that sense .
Think I should of quoted your comment ?

What are your toys selection consist of ? Id recommend those magic wands , the plug in variety, very good.

Snowbeau · 07/06/2021 18:12

I'm finding it hard to see properly.

I know why, and I know this a sign that things are getting worse in my brain, but I'm too scared to phone the Dr to let them know.

antsy · 07/06/2021 18:14

I feel pretty suicidal most days. I won't do anything though.

Rejoiningperson · 07/06/2021 18:21

Sending hugs and Flowers that can’t be easy @antsy

MrsBongiovi · 07/06/2021 18:24

I know why, and I know this a sign that things are getting worse in my brain, but I'm too scared to phone the Dr to let them know.

Please contact your doctor. Whatever is happening, is happening. Medical involvement can only make it better. Flowers

weleasewoderick23 · 07/06/2021 18:44

I failed a professional exam over 30 years ago but didn't tell anyone. Everyone in work just assumed I'd qualified but no one ever checked and I was well respected in my field. I'm retired now and I've never told anyone this. It's not important now Confused

Whyknotwhatknot · 07/06/2021 19:06

@Hawkins001

Uncle and niece directly related

TurquoiseDragon · 07/06/2021 19:17

@NeverDropYourMoonCup

Here's a new secret.

I was invited to apply for a big promotion at work recently. But I liked the sound of the even bigger promotion that was also available at the same time even more, so I've applied for that as well. It's a fairly high status position in my little pond, too - way above my present lowly minion post where a small number of people speak to me like shit when they think they can get away with it. Way above their positions, as well.

The secret is that I already knew they were coming up long before it was public (or even restricted) knowledge and deliberately volunteered to take on some very technical stuff because I knew they can't afford to lose whoever knows how to do it; the particular skills in question are highly in demand elsewhere - so if I don't get what I want, I could walk into a job somewhere else pretty much immediately. In the long run, they could probably recruit, but it would cost them significantly more to do so, probably involve agency rates and some investment in IT at short notice/high cost and in the short-medium term, the consequences of not having anybody there would be a huge problem.

Either promotion appeals, I'd be happy with the lower one in all honesty, but lots more money? I'm all over that.

I don't think it's occurred to them that nice little me (I'm not nasty or unkind at all - but I'm certainly not all fluffy bunnies and rainbows on the inside) could find out all this stuff perfectly legally and deliberately plan to put myself in a position where it boils down to whether they want to screw themselves over or give me what I want.

Well, nice is good. But nice and on double the salary and some extra status is even better. And if I do get one of them, I'm going to enjoy that people who are so bloody rude to me not daring to try it ever again.

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. You've done the work to learn the skills so you deserve it.

I don't have a promotion to apply for right now, but my boss and I think my colleague is looking to move on. My boss is also my colleagues's boss, and my colleague is a couple of grades higher than me. So I'm learning how to do everything they can do, so that when he leaves, I'll been a good candidate for the role.

TurquoiseDragon · 07/06/2021 19:31

@StarlightLady

Coming back to the lighthearted but true.

Outside of the coldest months but before what l would describe as the “bare leg season”, l still wear stockings and suspenders on a fairly regular basis; cooler than tights when you still need that little bit extra.

You need a quality belt though and not something designed for the bedroom.

I agree with getting a decent suspender belt.

Also you need to wear the belt so the straps are on the inside of your knickers. It's surprising how many people don't realise that. Means you can go to the bathroom without having to undo the straps, etc.

I haven't worn tights since I was 18, so over 30 years now. I find tights too warm, even in the middle of winter.

MurryFuff · 07/06/2021 19:46

I got offered a school job today

I am sooooo excited 😍