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On holiday in uk, dp is ill (not covid) and its all a mess **MNHQ title edit to suggest reading whole thread before responding***

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ghostmouse · 27/05/2021 20:51

Holiday was moved from last year to this year and now I'm here im having a shit time.

Dp is ill, sudden gall bladder trouble and in pain and indigestion all the time. 3 strong lots of antibiotics and he's no better, tired all the time, lost weight as he can't keep much down.

I'm upset because I hate seeing him from going from a fit and active man to one who is sleeping a lot. The kids dds 9 and 11 know there's something wrong but they don't know what. Theres talk of ultrasounds and ct scans..I'm convinced he has cancer.

We shouldn't have come but dp wanted to. I'm going to the very limited shows with the kids but most of it is prebooked the whole atmosphere just isn't the same..just not the same.

I could cry (no judging) just going to drink a large glass of wine instead

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ProbablyGryffindor · 15/06/2021 23:19

Thinking of you OP, and your DP. Best wishes.

babbaloushka · 15/06/2021 23:45

Hope you are getting plenty of support, have you got plans for your wedding still? I would invest in a proper good pair of noise cancelling headphones for painful days or time in hospital. We did when my mum was ill and it made a world of difference.

KBILLY · 16/06/2021 00:01

I am so sorry.

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FuckYouCorona · 16/06/2021 01:35

So sorry to hear this OP. Have you got Macmillian Cancer care where you are? If so, please get in touch. They can help you with lots of things. Flowers

LovePoppy · 16/06/2021 02:18

I’m so sorry you’re all dealing with this

Backtoblack1 · 16/06/2021 03:16

I’m so sorry and thinking of you all x

ElizabethTudor · 16/06/2021 09:03

So sorry to read your update Op 💐

ShirleyDab · 16/06/2021 11:26
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Summerdayshaze · 16/06/2021 12:56

I’m so very sorry. Fucking cancer. Took my mum and almost took me.
Sending you my very best wishes. X

Alonelonelylonersbadidea · 16/06/2021 15:36

Oh I am so so sorry to hear that it's cancer. My heart les out to you.
It's the worst thing xxx

RandomMess · 20/06/2021 22:55

ThanksThanksThanksThanksThanks

JackieTheFart · 20/06/2021 23:06

I’m so sorry to read your update. I hope DP gets treatment soon Flowers

GiveMeAllTheGin8 · 23/06/2021 13:05

@ghostmouse how is your dh doing ?Flowers

peridito · 30/06/2021 11:33

"a few days to a week " ,how dreadfully sad .

( thank you callme for linking ,I hadn't seen that thread updating about the wedding today )

MrsMackesy · 30/06/2021 12:54

Sending love to Mr and the soon to be Mrs Mouse.

Qwertywertyisme · 30/06/2021 13:39

@AlohaMolly

I'm reading this thread and just got up to your message and I wanted to say that it's the loveliest one I've ever seen on MN. You are such a kind lady (made me cry) ❤️X

EveryoneIsThere · 30/06/2021 14:11

So sorry to hear it’s cancer. I hope that he gets good treatment. 💐💐💐

Feedingthebirds1 · 30/06/2021 14:15

Given Mouse's thread today, I've asked MN to lock this one.

HopeMumsnet · 30/06/2021 14:22

We're going to lock this thread now because we've got a wedding to go to.
Flowers Sending love to the Mr and Mrs Mouse Flowers

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