On holiday in uk, dp is ill (not covid) and its all a mess **MNHQ title edit to suggest reading whole thread before responding***

[ghostmouse]

Holiday was moved from last year to this year and now I'm here im having a shit time.

Dp is ill, sudden gall bladder trouble and in pain and indigestion all the time. 3 strong lots of antibiotics and he's no better, tired all the time, lost weight as he can't keep much down.

I'm upset because I hate seeing him from going from a fit and active man to one who is sleeping a lot. The kids dds 9 and 11 know there's something wrong but they don't know what. Theres talk of ultrasounds and ct scans..I'm convinced he has cancer.

We shouldn't have come but dp wanted to. I'm going to the very limited shows with the kids but most of it is prebooked the whole atmosphere just isn't the same..just not the same.

I could cry (no judging) just going to drink a large glass of wine instead

I am so sorry to read this, sending you both lots of love and hope he starts his treatment soon 💐xx

@ghostmouse - I am so sorry to read your updates. Wishing you lots of strength.

Sorry to read your updates. Wishing you and your DP a world of strength as you face this together

Nimbuscloud, thank you, should’ve read whole thread.

OP, our hearts go out to you.

Hugs to you and your DH - very saddened to read the latest news. And what a lovely offer AlohaMolly.

Cancer and Covid are a couple of bastards. They can both fuck off.
Much strength to you and yours. I really hope you get some good news soon
Xx 💐🍫🍷

I'm so very sorry to hear this op. Sending best wishes and strength to you and your dh.

I'm so sorry to hear the news. We're all here for handholds when you need us.

God op, that’s just fucking shit all round. Life can be so unfair. I’m very sorry and sending you and your dp my thoughts. I hope a treatment plan can begin quickly - 6 weeks is too long.
Remember there really is always hope.

God I'm so sorry OP, how awful

Do you have support IRL, mouse?

I am so sorry to read your post. I hope your DH can start treatment soon. Stay strong and positive and look forward to a special wedding, make memories to cherish 💐

So sorry to know..hope he gets chemo soon and gets well. Prayers and hugs x

You sound like a remarkable, brave and loving family and I can only echo what others have said about making sure you take all the support available- I will be hoping and praying that whatever news you get next is at the very least practical and helpful.

I’m so so sorry OP.

So sorry that you’re all going through this. Been there. It’s the worst. Handhold is here x

I remember reading this thread when you first posted and I am so, so sorry to read the update. I can't even begin to imagine how you and your DH must be feeling. I hope there's something the doctors can do for him.

Just read the thread- I’m so sorry OP, you are in my thoughts

I'm so sorry, OP.

So sorry to read your updates OP. Sending hugs

Oh @ghostmouse, I’m so very sorry it’s such an awful update. Bloody cancer…I really hope treatment can start ASAP. Do hold on to a little hope - I’m sure we all know someone whose had a miraculous recovery against the odds…I know two!! Sending hugs, hope and holding you and your dp in my thoughts💐x

I am so sorry - that is too much coming at you too fast. Sending you so much love and strength x

So sorry to read this update OP, sending positive thoughts and prayers

So sorry to read your update, and that there is a 6 week delay for chemo. I was just saying to dh yesterday when Boris was doing the press conference that I really feel for those who are having such massive delays in medical treatment. It's shit.