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What's your most upsetting tv death?

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MrsSteveMcDonald · 23/04/2021 18:38

Just watching Bones for the first time and absolutely gutted about Sweets which made me wonder which other tv deaths have upset MNers.

Lots of potential for spoilers here so apologies in advance.

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BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 24/04/2021 13:01

I came to say Sweets in Bones too. It was so unexpected, no prior threat or build up, just alive one second and dead the next. I only three episodes after that and then stopped. It was particularly difficult because they replaced him with a very similar but not as good character, they should have gone completely different.

Kate in NCIS was a similar sudden death. I still miss her, but I kept watching NCIS because the replacement character, Ziva, was completely different rather than being Kate-light.

Shmithecat2 · 24/04/2021 13:04

Will Gardner in the Good Wife... broke my bloody heart, it was so unexpected.

Sister Evangelina in Call The Midwife.

Miranda's mum in SATC - obvs, we didn't know the mum as a character, but Miranda's reaction and the support the others showed her made me quite emotional.

3CCC · 24/04/2021 13:08

@Arrowheart

I can't remember her name but a journalist in House of Cards who got pushed onto a train line.
Oh yes! Another death which it was more the wtaf did that happen. She was the best thing about that show

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shivbo2014 · 24/04/2021 13:13

I've just been watching Anne with an E and I was sobbing when Mary died.

PleaseReferToMeAsBritneySpears · 24/04/2021 13:19

I think we're all forgetting one....

Thomas J in My Girl 😭😭😭

JassyRadlett · 24/04/2021 13:20

No one else for CJ's bodyguard? I'm still crying!

CJ sitting on the bench breaking down over Simon 😭

Willow2017 · 24/04/2021 13:22

Mark Green. Er. Still cant listen to that bloody song.

Shelby in Steel Magnolias. Sally Fields is amazing as her mum.

Buffys Mum.

Ziva in NCIS
Kate in NCIS

Everyone on team Rick in TWD.

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 24/04/2021 13:24

Oh I'd forgotten CJs bodyguard!

CarmelBeach · 24/04/2021 13:26

@JassyRadlett

No one else for CJ's bodyguard? I'm still crying!

CJ sitting on the bench breaking down over Simon 😭

And the couple who bump into her and she doesn't really notice.

I can't hear Hallelujah without crying and he just wanted a Milky Way 😭

Thank you, I am glad I'm not alone!

Runway · 24/04/2021 13:26

Chris in Skins. Traumatised me

woodhill · 24/04/2021 13:28

@BatleyTownswomensGuild

More film than TV but bloody bunnies dying in Watership Down leaves me in bits EVERY TIME 😭
Yes and the poor dog in Lassie who got hit by the thieves -awful

Jude - Thomas Hardy production with Christopher Eccleston - those poor children who were killed by the older one - I couldn't watch the ending- truly awful

twinkletoedelephant · 24/04/2021 13:29

Wash from firefly

Frokkolini · 24/04/2021 14:07

@Scautish don't forget Bodie refusing to leave his corner and getting shot Sad

Yes, I have never watched anything since The Wire that even comes close. I just finished watching it for the 3rd time.

AuthorsOfForever · 24/04/2021 14:36

Ronnie Mitchell's daughter, Danielle, in Eastenders. It just seemed so pointless. I was so angry with the bbc for that one. It stayed with me for ages 😂

Marisa Cooper in the OC. Another pointlessly tragic death on a tv show. If I watched it now, I'd still cry. 😆

Rachel in Cold Feet. Ugh. Just the thought of it makes me feel sick.

These were all on tv a long time ago. But I can't actually think of any others that have really upset me.

AuthorsOfForever · 24/04/2021 14:37

@MummyInTheNecropolis

Poussey in orange is the new black. Completely unexpected and heartbreaking, I have goosebumps now just thinking about it.
Ah I just posted saying I couldn't think of any others that really upset me. But this is definitely one. She was my favourite on that show. A very sad death.
proopher · 24/04/2021 14:47

Sybil in Downton Abbey

Laurel's baby (Daniel?) in Emmerdale. I was quite a young teenager when it happened and I was completely traumatised.

vampirethriller · 24/04/2021 15:48

Oh I forgot Dawn in SOA, Tigs daughter. It's the only time I've ever felt ill watching TV or a film.

Mumof1andacat · 24/04/2021 15:56

Kate Rowen in heartbeat.the image of her husband nick crying at the front door with his stripey pyjamas on and the snow coming down

Graphista · 24/04/2021 16:01

@Hughbert starmaker I believe was actually chosen for the actor who played mr Crandall. The storyline was budget cuts = teacher made redundant and it was mr Crandall made redundant and in the storyline the song is a farewell to a beloved teacher. In real life it was a farewell to a beloved cast member who was dying of cancer. So no death in the show, but very sadly one in real life.

Bruce Willis in Armageddon

That was very moving, but I have to say I found Deep Impact scene where tea Leonis character gives up her ability to survive to allow Laura innes' character to survive with her child, the sacrifice and then when she's on the beach with her dad as the tsunami is approaching... 

Fuck me, am off for a greet 

Minds me of my gran upon learning I had "discovered" weepie movies and a love of them "if you want a proper greet try..." and she reeled off a whole list which I still recommend in real life and on weepie threads here (film ones)

@Quincie I first watched upstairs downstairs very late to the party (having not been born myself at the original release time) maybe 10 or so years ago? And it's a fairly "gentle" show so that suicide was really shocking!

@RaraRachael I remember reading an interview with Robert Carlyle who was talking about how hard he worked on the scouse accent, he was going all method and using it in real life too and mentioned it to a cabby in Liverpool, the cabby turned around and said something like "well it's not working, it's clearly not a scouse accent you're from Widnes aren't you? I can tell! Liverpudlians will know" at which point Carlyle (from glasgow, not far from my part actually) just smiled to himself and knew he'd cracked it! He apparently also had people try and tell him his Scots accent in trainspotter was clearly fake 

Best most realistic family dynamic in an American tv show IMO

I agree but I'd add "functional" to that.

Best written dysfunctional family are the gellers - a toxic family so acutely observed

Also the placebo cover of running up that hill played over it making it feel really dark.

Yes, very effective use of music. It's this and the person of interest use of Johnny cash's hurt that I mention when discussing music use in film and tv on threads on here

@BlackAmericanoNoSugar I disagree that Aubrey who I think you're referencing was "sweets light" he was his own character but it takes more than a few episodes for that to bed in

Hottubtimemachine · 24/04/2021 16:02

Damon from Brookside! Sobbed my teen heart out!

woodhill · 24/04/2021 16:33

Yes, remember the Bellamy son suicide - it was shocking, watched it as a kid, probably wasn't suitable

user1471438025 · 24/04/2021 16:41

Ms. Vanessa Ives. Penny Dreadful.

clpsmum · 24/04/2021 16:54

@vampirethriller that was brutal

CaveMum · 24/04/2021 17:13

@CarmelBeach @JassyRadlett have you listened to the West Wing podcast? When Aaron Sorkin talks about it he says fans still haven’t forgiven him for killing off Simon, even though he was only in a handful of episodes!

He also gets ribbed by actual Secret Service agents who say Simon was obviously a rubbish agent as you a,ways check for the second gunman - 1st rule of Secret Service training! 😂😂

Christmasbird · 24/04/2021 17:16

Helen Daniels. Neighbours

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