People are more than a layer of fat around their body.
You can be an adult, plan, get yourself around, hold down a job and bring up children without a driving license, or without scrounging lifts all the time.
You're not necessarily a selfish lockdown lover who wants it all to carry on indefinitely, regardless of the economic and mental health concequences, if you see the need for it to happen.
You're not necessarily a selfish granny killer who doesn't care about anyone else if you do something that goes against 'the roolz'.
Minimum wage is too low, it's in line with benefits which gives a choice of work your arse off in a minimum wage job that's got limited prospects and job benefits, or stay at home for the same income - which isn't enough, pride and self worth don't put food on the table or pay the bills. The answer is not to cut benefits, but to increase minimum wage so the government isn't supporting people in full time work.
Child maintenance should be subject to the same rules as not paying your council tax. Liability orders, bailiffs and attachment of earnings orders, or prison for refusal. For everyone. Men are just as aware of the possible concequences from sex as women, it needs to be socially unacceptable for either party to walk away. Because at the moment it's usually always the woman's fault.
People living in social housing have jobs. And pay rent, it's not free.