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ADs and their gratuitous pussy pictures

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BogRollBOGOF · 28/01/2021 22:10

Welcome in ADs. Snuggle up hygge-style 'cause there ain't much going on out there for a while... except rain.

I haven't got a pussy of my own for gratuitous showing off, so I shall pretend to be Dr Evil with Mr Biggleswade Grin

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Weedsnseeds1 · 05/02/2021 16:02

I'm afraid so Toomanyplatesinmotion, Wales' rules are even more insane than ours!
I have to travel for work and haven't been questioned at all, even though a long way from home.
I've been followed and pulled over in Wales though. The police seem to get more excitable the further in you travel, Gwent and Caerphilly leave you alone!

Weedsnseeds1 · 05/02/2021 16:03

Haven't been questioned at all in England that should say!

TooManyPlatesInMotion · 05/02/2021 16:06

@Weedsnseeds1 it's bonkers.

My MIL lives in Chepstow and has been quietly getting on with it; she also said that the police round her way had been leaving well alone.

I'm quite impressed with the Met round here. Not seen a single officer out and about since the third lockdown was announced. Usual sirens etc but no patrolling parks.

Jourdain11 · 05/02/2021 16:39

In my area, the Met just roam around aimlessly. This morning, DD2, DS and I bumped into one of DD's friends, her younger brother (who is in DS's bubble) and her mum walking across the green to school. Obviously, we ought to have pretended we didn't know each other but the other mum and I got chatting and the kids had gone on a bit ahead. Naturally, 2 police officers swooped in as if drawn by a magnet, and told us to disperse. I got more than a bit annoyed. As in "The kids are going to school - regard, school uniform. They're about to sit in a classroom together anyway!" Then I may have said that they were impotent to do anything about proper crime and that going around officiously bullying women and small children obviously made them feel big and powerful. And gave a few examples of the crimes they're doing nothing about. And I may have said that it was disgusting. They said that I needed to, "watch how I spoke to them" and I said I was only getting started. They left. Unfortunately, DD2 is like a sponge and the whole of her 23-child bubble has probably heard and elaborated and expanded version, which no doubt involves the police waving handcuffs or marching me and the other woman off to the cells. Every time the phone rings I am expecting it to be the social workers, lol.

I'm just so bloody frustrated with officialdom. Had to take poor DD1 to paed A&E because she was self-harming so much and bashed her head so hard she needed stitches. And the perfectly lovely nurses and doctors stitched her up, dosed her up, but can they do anything? No, "we'll speak to CAMHS and maybe they'll be able to bump her up the waiting list a bit". Argh!

BogRollBOGOF · 05/02/2021 16:47

Jourdain, the year you've had, I'm not surprised you've had a theraputic verbal release. Two families walking to the same legal destination is hardly super-spreading, social gathering of the year Hmm

I wish things would ease for your DD1 Flowers

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Willow2017 · 05/02/2021 16:52

Well done Jourdain11. They obviously need reminding what thier job actually is. Bet they wouldn't have bothered approaching two 6' males with kids.

Sorry your DD isnt coping well still. (((Hugs)))

TooManyPlatesInMotion · 05/02/2021 17:01

@Jourdain11 you said to the Police what many, many others are no doubt thinking. It is such a fecking waste of time and resources.

Much love to you and your DD.

justasking111 · 05/02/2021 17:07

They stopped to talk to an old boy with a dog this morning and questioned him. He was in his own road but had no id on him FFS

Weedsnseeds1 · 05/02/2021 17:14

The police here are also pretty passive. Mind you the local "police station" is a telephone in a little box set in a wall 5 miles away, which you pick up to be connected with some distant metropolis (Taunton, possibly?).
OH reposts police also conspicuous by their absence in Bristol.
I have to commend the Forestry Commission locally who have left their car parks open throughout and their picnic tables fully accessible.
Which is more than I can say for Bristol Water. I'd quite like a potter around the local reservoirs, thanks!

ISaySteadyOn · 05/02/2021 17:16

@Jourdain11, I want to be you when I grow up Smile

Jourdain11 · 05/02/2021 17:23

It just makes me mad! We have drug dealers zooming around on their mopeds like flies and preying on all the poor vulnerable homeless people in the hotels (I feel like with the green, the police station and the road full of hotels anyone familiar with the area could probably guess exactly where I live, lol) and the police do bugger all about it, because they don't want to "alienate communities" AKA too afraid of getting knifed (oh yeah, I said that too, actually). So they seem to spend their time roaming around telling people that they're "minglin" or ticking off joggers who are running by the river outside of the designated hours.

Also hacked off that the council have thrown their weight around and forced our local hardware and washing refills supplies shops to close!

Thanks for your kind wishes re DD1. Luckily she's so zoned out (combination of meds and trauma, I think) that she's slept most of the day. But I'm feeling like the world's most useless mother - I just don't know what to do to help.

In France we have an expression about a kind of person who can burst through a brick wall with their head - maybe not an appropriate phrase to use re DD1 Blush - but to mean that they are smart enough to get what they want or need in a seemingly impossible situation. I wish I was that kind of person!

TooManyPlatesInMotion · 05/02/2021 17:27

@justasking111

They stopped to talk to an old boy with a dog this morning and questioned him. He was in his own road but had no id on him FFS
@justasking111 it is stuff like that that I find really disturbing. Adult, out solo with dog. What rule could they have suspected him of breaking? Why the need for ID? It is not compulsory to carry it.

In other news, if you are thinking of going "over there" then be careful. There is a particularly mean and hysterical thread about why teachers are (allegedly) more likely to die of Covid than those in other occupations and large numbers of people banging on about schools not being safe. Hysterical and also very unpleasant. Avoid unless you feel like taking it on.

Weedsnseeds1 · 05/02/2021 17:33

TooManyPlatesInMotion I'm struggling to resist now, but I must!
My particular favourite phrase in those type of threads is "we are stuck in a room with 30 children for an hour, show me another workplace where people have to do that?"
Your local chicken cutting plant with 300 adults in close proximity for a 12 hour shift? Amazon warehouse? Even the DVLA, as it turns out!

Jourdain11 · 05/02/2021 17:37

The teacher paranoia is so middle class centric and weird. Nobody cares about the poor bus drivers etc.

Weedsnseeds1 · 05/02/2021 17:40

BUT BUS DRIVERS CAN WEAR MASKS Jourdian11 Grin

Jourdain11 · 05/02/2021 17:47

Even flipping call centres! My friend lost her job in performing arts at the start of the pandemic and mega proactively got herself a call centre job. They mainly do opinion polling and stuff and cannot wfh because of GDPR (don't understand how this isn't an issue for more organisations tbh) so she has been going into central London office since last April. No masks, no PPE, 30 in a room (lol) and I haven't noticed an outcry about the poor abused call centre workers!!

Weedsnseeds1 · 05/02/2021 18:15

Just had a read of the "why teachers are all going to die and should be allowed to trample the elderly beneath their feet as they rush to the top of the vaccine queue" thread.
Apparently factory workers shouldn't be anywhere near the top of the list, according to one poster, as they aren't "public facing" and "mix with the same people every day".
Agency staff are a thing, a very big thing in large factories and warehouses. You get different ones every few days, they have been in every other factory and warehouse in the area. As more staff get sick or have to isolate, you need to use more of them. There's a percentage that decide working in a freezer or an abattoir isn't for them, so disappear at lunch time. So you need some new ones. They often share houses with a group of friends, who are all agency staff too.
And the bad news is, it's not "just" the chilled facilities now, like it was in the summer, it's the ambient ones too.
No offence to agency workers, they are essential to keep the wheels turning, but at the moment it's like having an outbreak of plague and sending out for rats.
Still, people need to eat and shop on line...

LivinLaVidaLoki · 05/02/2021 18:15

Just catching up with the thread, but wanted to just get this out here.

DSs best friend is due to become a big brother any day now. He said to me "I'll get to meet his little dsis or dbro in 4 years when they start school won't I mum?"
So I said "you'll see them a long time before that, what about when you go and play?" And he said "oh yeah I'd forgotten about that"

That hurt in such a profound way that he has just "forgotten" about being out and playing with friends.

BogRollBOGOF · 05/02/2021 18:39

And the twunts are still bandying about "it's only a few weeks/ months"
A few weeks or months?
It's 10% of my 10yo's life.
It's 20% of a 5 year old's.
Even greater if you factor in their memorable existence and take off the first 3 years or so.

DM was recently talking about when she got pneumonia and came close to death out of seemingly nowhere as a 5 year old in 1943. The GP thought it was connected to the trauma of being bombed out twice in months. Obviously a totally different situation, but in the supposedly stoic and resilient war, people were recognising the effects upon children.

It staggers me that so many including some very gobby teachers are utterly blind to the importance of socialisation on children, for their general wellbeing and their ability to learn effectively.

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Bollss · 05/02/2021 18:49

@Jourdain11

Even flipping call centres! My friend lost her job in performing arts at the start of the pandemic and mega proactively got herself a call centre job. They mainly do opinion polling and stuff and cannot wfh because of GDPR (don't understand how this isn't an issue for more organisations tbh) so she has been going into central London office since last April. No masks, no PPE, 30 in a room (lol) and I haven't noticed an outcry about the poor abused call centre workers!!
I don't understand the gdpr thing we can work from home in the nhs!
Weedsnseeds1 · 05/02/2021 18:52

I should clarify that I'm only criticising the particularly vocal teachers on here.
My next door neighbour, for example, is a teacher and as willing to indulge in minor infringements as I.
Children are going to struggle to recover their pre-COVID mindsets for sure. Even 8n the much quoted war / blitz, they could socialise with their peers.

justasking111 · 05/02/2021 19:02

Friend is a teacher, her offspring have struggled with a new baby, so she has broken the roolz by having them round a lot, luckily they live at the end of a long drive no-one can see their vehicle from the road, too many trees.

Bin men have warned they are not only high risk but handle 2k bins a day so wash your hands after bringing your bins in they say around here.

TooManyPlatesInMotion · 05/02/2021 19:02

@Weedsnseeds1

TooManyPlatesInMotion I'm struggling to resist now, but I must! My particular favourite phrase in those type of threads is "we are stuck in a room with 30 children for an hour, show me another workplace where people have to do that?" Your local chicken cutting plant with 300 adults in close proximity for a 12 hour shift? Amazon warehouse? Even the DVLA, as it turns out!
Exactly @Weedsnseeds1. Or a prison. Or a production line. Or a supermarket. Or on the platform for TFL. Honestly. Very odd, as you say.
justasking111 · 05/02/2021 19:03

My mum as a 12 year old got tuberculosis, spent a year in a sanatorium miles from family who she was not allowed to see anyway. She said it does change you.

TooManyPlatesInMotion · 05/02/2021 19:05

Full disclosure - my DH is a teacher in a secondary school. I suppose I better check he isn't on the thread deliberately stirring the shit for his own amusement.

He is desperate to have kids back in classrooms. He hates remote teaching. He was even praying for a u-turn that would see them returning sooner.