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Armie Hammer *MNHQ has added a content warning to this thread*

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buenavistabelle · 12/01/2021 17:05

Not sure if it is permitted to talk about this but has anyone seen the allegations? I'm not easily shocked but if it's true then.....wow

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dopehead · 16/01/2021 13:09

Why did the other Armie thread get deleted?

The one about feeling bad for him? Think probably because it was goady / not empathetic for his victims.

LickEmbysmiling · 16/01/2021 13:15

Yy alexis and unfortunately he has quite a lot too draw them in being a Hollywood actor.

Doesn't sound like he has access to family money, some be said she had to support him, all the time.

Will he ever work again?

Ohbuggeroffcovid · 16/01/2021 13:24

I’m not sure he will work again. He isn’t particularly leading man status as yet.

And what I mean is he isn’t a Chris Evans or a Chris Pratt (who is also a complete twit). I don’t think anyone particularly watches films because he is in them. I might be wrong.

SirChing · 16/01/2021 13:40

@AlexisCarringtonColbyDexter

I wonder if this can help us re-shame violent sex 'kinks'

I hope so! I dont have any issues with consensual kinks whereby everyone goes into it with their eyes open and in fact, those relationships are safe because boundaries are in place to keep it safe (safe words etc).

Whats disturbing about him is that he never told any of these women he was into that stuff and coerced them over time, groomed them to accept boundaries that were further and further away from their comfort zone and made them feel prudish or unloving for not going into the abyss with him.

I bet you anything that if he actually found a woman that was into all the same stuff he'd run because he doesnt want a consensual partner, he enjoys the manipulation and the power play of others feeling uncomfortable and out of their depth.

This.

This isn't BDSM, it's rape and abuse.

covetingthepreciousthings · 16/01/2021 14:01

One of the women has explicitly accused him of rape, yet this has not been reported anywhere and the media reporting has been so weasely as to give people the impression the 'scandal'

Not to excuse what he's done in anyway.. but does the media have to be quite careful with that, in the sense that if they start branding him a rapist on their pages they're opening themselves upto massive libel cases? If he doesn't go to court etc. Also I think if it went to court they'd also be opening themselves up to making it an unfair trial?

Again, I think the guys a twat and abusive, so in no way defending him, but I can kind of see why the media are being careful as to what they're printing at the moment.

rosetylersbiggun · 16/01/2021 14:14

I know, but stating that someone has accused him of abuse or accused him of rape isn't painting him as a rapist, it's just factual reporting. But on the other hand they probably legally can't say that unless the rape allegations has been made formally, to the police.

However I honestly was horrified that the BBC headline said something like "star drops out due to online abuse" and didn't specify that "online abuse" a) came from his ex-girlfriend and b) took the form of rape/abuse allegations. I know they used that wording because it's the wording AH himself used, but labelling women who make rape allegations as "abusive" is just not on and feels prejudicial.

RhubarbTea · 16/01/2021 17:55

I agree, I was really shocked at the angle the BBC headline took. I get they're trying to cover their arses but it wasn't even an impartial headline or article. It was daft.

Beautifulbonnie · 16/01/2021 20:20

So. But more info

He’s into CNC play

He also won’t use safe words. It’s basically abuse without safe words....

rosetylersbiggun · 16/01/2021 22:19

I made a complaint to the BBC over that headline. Angry

covidaintacrime · 16/01/2021 22:26

Good on you, Rose. How did you do it? I might do it myself.

Hellothere19999 · 18/01/2021 10:41

Has anyone else been following the Instagram that shows screen shots of all the messages?

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buenavistabelle · 18/01/2021 12:05

Houseofeffie? Yes - it's what prompted me to start this discussion to be honest

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Rollergirl11 · 18/01/2021 13:16

I don’t follow the account but it’s public and I’ve periodically looked at the screenshots. Still seems like there’s lots and lots of girls coming forward!

Hellothere19999 · 18/01/2021 13:19

Yeah, I was just wondering what people thought of the latest screen shots? Where a girl is trying to explain to him how much he fucked her up and he keeps replying “could you say it like you made me feel like you are this rather than saying I am” - is he just a master manipulator ? I feel like he has no real emotions.

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buenavistabelle · 18/01/2021 13:31

Yeah I noticed that - I think he's learnt that from marriage counselling or somewhere similar. That is standard mediation technique.

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Hellothere19999 · 18/01/2021 13:45

It’s definitely interesting to witness and makes you wonder about Hollywood and what rich n famous people get away with! I doubt there will be any legal ramifications for him just yet but what he’s done sounds horrific.

Ohbuggeroffcovid · 21/01/2021 23:18

What fresh hell is this?!!!

www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/13810061/armie-hammer-paige-lorenze-carved-pubic-knife/

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buenavistabelle · 22/01/2021 08:23

Great choice of picture of AH there by the Sun!

Yes I read this too. Also, not sure if it's in that article as I've not read it, but he wanted to find a doctor to remove her bottom ribs so he could barbecue and eat them.

🤯

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buenavistabelle · 06/02/2021 16:26

For anyone still following this story - allegedly something big is about to drop.... unsure what and how it can be bigger than cannibalism but that's the news on the grapevine

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Dizzywizz · 06/02/2021 21:01

Like you say @buenavistabelle- how can it be bigger than cannibalism?!

Snowsnowglorioussnow · 06/02/2021 21:20

Oh goodness... This is awful.

30not13 · 06/02/2021 23:12

And I'm reading this thread now after googling for the cast if The Lone Ranger which is showing on bbc right now and thinking oh there was a thread on active tonight about this bloke.... Shock

Strange choice for the bbc, surely they should have pulled it.. some of the plotline is cannibalism!!

marshmallowfluffy · 06/02/2021 23:23

I have pm'ed you OP
Not posting the content here because it will get the thread deleted

ASchuylerSister · 06/02/2021 23:35

Can someone pm me please? I can’t see what can be worse than has already come out about him!