Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Armie Hammer *MNHQ has added a content warning to this thread*

208 replies

buenavistabelle · 12/01/2021 17:05

Not sure if it is permitted to talk about this but has anyone seen the allegations? I'm not easily shocked but if it's true then.....wow

OP posts:
SpiderGwen · 14/01/2021 16:14

His whole life has been about failing and pretending he chose that outcome.

Kicked out of high school? “Decided it wasn’t for me”
Failed his access course at UCLA, barely turned up? “I chose a different path”
Not getting an allowance from his zillionaire family? “It’s important to me that I’m independent.”
Dumped from a movie? “I am stepping down following this disgusting allegations.”

Dude, they fired your ass.

Wagsandclaws · 14/01/2021 16:38

He's one sick puppy, not the first in Hollyweird. Won't be the last. Shia la Beouf anyone?

SimonJT · 14/01/2021 16:43

Wonder if any of it involved a 🍑

megletthesecond · 14/01/2021 16:49

wags when I read the blind item I assumed SLB. I'd forgotten about AH.

It's disgusting what Hollywood tolerates until it's blasted open by a civilian.

EmpressSuiko · 14/01/2021 17:00

It’s sickening, I hope his ex wife keeps the children far, far away from him!

SnowFields · 14/01/2021 17:09

@covetingthepreciousthings

Will be interesting to see if his wife releases a statement or anything about it.
She apparently is supporting those making the accusations.

The lack of statement by AM’s team denying any involvement speaks volumes.

WilsonMilson · 14/01/2021 17:12

Saw it all online, wondered if anyone would make a thread here.

It’s MENTAL stuff alright, and now his ex wife is saying she believes it, although they are going through divorce settlement now so she may have a bit of an agenda.

He hasn’t come out with any denial or anything at all, which leads me to believe it’s must be at least partially true. Who knows? If it is, then he is not only deeply disturbed and needs to seek help, but surely that’s his career over?

TheCap · 14/01/2021 17:37

He’s a real life Patrick Bateman and I’m not talking ‘Christian Bale in the film’ Patrick Bateman, I’m talking ‘Bret Easton Ellis’ beyond sick creation’ Patrick Bateman!

covetingthepreciousthings · 14/01/2021 18:00

The lack of statement by AM’s team denying any involvement speaks volumes

Makes you wonder if his team are now distancing themselves from it all now. Infidelity is one thing.. but this is a whole other ball game entirely.
I think he's now come out with a "statement" to call the leaks "bullshit online abuse" which doesn't really scream professionalism..

Will be interested to see what happens to his career after this, I'd like to hope he won't work again.. but he is a rich good looking man after all.

SnowFields · 14/01/2021 18:06

He will no longer be in the upcoming film with JLo.

news.sky.com/story/amp/armie-hammer-drops-out-of-jennifer-lopez-film-amid-social-media-allegations-12187401

MondayYogurt · 14/01/2021 18:11

I always wondered why he never got cast in one of the big superhero franchises but maybe they do really thorough background checks.

IHaveBrilloHair · 14/01/2021 18:12

@SimonJT
I really shouldn't have, but I smiled at that comment.

covidaintacrime · 14/01/2021 18:58

I imagine it might be similar to porn addiction, in that you need more violent / taboo content to get off. When are physically handsome like Armie Hammer and grow up excessively wealthy, I imagine sex comes pretty easily and then as soon as it's routine, you need more extremity to obtain satisfaction.

That's not meant to dismiss or minimise the abuse the women experienced, and it doesn't AT ALL mean his behaviour was acceptable if this is true, I just think the potential psychology behind it could be interesting. Seconding the Patrick Bateman comparison that another poster mentioned.

Jetatyeovilaerodrome · 14/01/2021 19:14

Now, now ladies, remember, you mustn't kink shame....Hmm

Yes, definitely shades of Patrick Bateman. Just.... Whaddafuck? Some humans are just so fucked up.

RhubarbTea · 14/01/2021 20:22

I can't stop thinking about this today since I saw this thread, and I don't know why it's bothered me to this extent. Maybe because Call Me By Your Name was (is?) one of my fave films of all time, or because AH reminds me of my first boyfriend and first love.
I can't stop thinking about the stuff he (allegedly) said that people have repeated on this thread, and what he might have escalated to eventually if he hadn't been found out. It's horrible. Sad

covetingthepreciousthings · 14/01/2021 20:43

I remember a while ago, think post split with his wife he posted on his Instagram to invite 'fans' to message him and he said he'd reply.. I found it a bit off at the time because it seemed like it just reeked of desperation? I'm sure I remember this and I'm not misremembering.

Just found this, it's on his Insta, a picture of him in his trackies saying anyone who DMs him a picture watching Rebecca (Netflix show) he'll reply with a personalised message...

covidaintacrime · 14/01/2021 20:48

I've just looked on his Insta and it says his bio is; “Our social personality is a creation of the minds of others...” 😮 Uh oh.

Also he's fucking mentioned cannibalism in one of his instagram posts! (attached).

Armie Hammer *MNHQ has added a content warning to this thread*
Flapjak · 14/01/2021 20:49

Thats his hollywood career over!

IHaveBrilloHair · 14/01/2021 21:20

@RhubarbTea.
I'm the same which is awful, but its my comfort film.
Obviously Armie isn't Oliver but still, its ruined.

covidaintacrime · 14/01/2021 21:23

(Though of course the victims of Hammer deserve the maximum amounts of support and empathy) I also feel a bit shit for Timothee Chalamet. I imagine if I were him I'd feel pretty uncomfortable, especially with all of the romance and feet kissing stuff in CMBYN. He's also probably lost out on a role as I imagine for CMBYN 2, they mightn't do it surrounding the controversy.

SirChing · 14/01/2021 21:56

@TriflePudding

Does this mean we can stop talking about ‘kink shaming’ and start talking about what happens when sexual boundaries are gradually pushed and pushed ?
This isn't "kink", it's assault at the least, GBH at worst, and he sounds psychopathic!

It absolutely isn't "proper" BDSM because if it was, the sicko would NEVER have breached the boundaries of the women involved.

Once again, it's an abusive man, hiding behind a veil of BDSM, to access and abuse women without any respect for consent or their boundaries.

These men piss me off MASSIVELY. They are psychopaths with no clue about the heightened emphasis on consent, limits, boundaries and trust that BDSM requires. If he was on the "kink" scene, he would be hounded out and reported to the police. Bastard!

RhubarbTea · 14/01/2021 22:25

@covidaintacrime

(Though of course the victims of Hammer deserve the maximum amounts of support and empathy) I also feel a bit shit for Timothee Chalamet. I imagine if I were him I'd feel pretty uncomfortable, especially with all of the romance and feet kissing stuff in CMBYN. He's also probably lost out on a role as I imagine for CMBYN 2, they mightn't do it surrounding the controversy.
I agree. I hope they do still go ahead with it but just recast for the part of Oliver - it could work as the sequel is supposed to take place a while after the events of the first film. But it may be distasteful to carry on the project now. I really like Timothee as an actor and I think he was wonderful in CMBYN.

I'm so glad I watched it again recently before all this broke. I cried like a child at the end credits, as usual, and just loved it with a passion. I've watched it so many times now...

When I first saw it there was that scene (THAT peach scene) which made me so so uneasy when I first saw it. It seemed like just for a minute there was a lack of consent and a sort of physical struggle and it felt so odd. Now I'm thinking about that scene and seeing it in an even worse light.

Haven't been able to watch American Beauty again since the Spacey stuff so I think CMBYN is probably ruined forever.

covidaintacrime · 15/01/2021 00:11

I agree. I hope they do still go ahead with it but just recast for the part of Oliver - it could work as the sequel is supposed to take place a while after the events of the first film. But it may be distasteful to carry on the project now. I really like Timothee as an actor and I think he was wonderful in CMBYN.

Yes, I imagine they could always create a new love interest I suppose (I've not read either of the books, so not sure how well that would fit into the author's narrative!). Very disappointing that the film that properly catapulted Chalamet into stardom in my view is now tainted. My favourite scene by far was the conversation Elio and his father had at the end of the movie, really hit home somehow. Such a beautiful film.

When I first saw it there was that scene (THAT peach scene) which made me so so uneasy when I first saw it. It seemed like just for a minute there was a lack of consent and a sort of physical struggle and it felt so odd. Now I'm thinking about that scene and seeing it in an even worse light.

Yes I hear that. The feet-kissing scene during the massage scene was supposedly unscripted as well, which given the nature of Hammer's alleged crimes / perversions makes the scene a little more uncomfortable.

I think I'm going to try and watch the film again tomorrow night and try and focus on Oliver and Elio as characters, else it will keep piling up and I'll feel too odd to watch it again (and I think that would be a shame.) I wonder if Chalamet will come out with a statement at all - I suppose there's no real need, but I imagine this is an odd time for anyone who's played Hammer's love interest onscreen. Not to dismiss the true victims of course, just noting.

LickEmbysmiling · 15/01/2021 00:28

Victim said he was a narc but also showed self loathing and had no money, couldn't fill up his car, she had too pay for everything, which sounds suspicious.
He was seen licking crystals off someone hands..
Wonder if he's in the grip of drugs.

So so awful for his children.

covidaintacrime · 15/01/2021 00:32

Yes, the licking crystals and drinking alcohol while driving. He also got arrested for marijuana possession in 2011 I think, if I remember the Conan video right. Wouldn't be surprised if harder drugs were involved.