@wanderings
Don't read it if you're avoiding the Covid topic, but the thread about tonight's press conference actually has a lot of sensible replies, mostly on the theme that "if Boris says he'll clear things up, he'll do the exact opposite". Also that he said "it will be over by Christmas 2021"; well, he did also tell us not long ago that it would be over by Christmas this year. Fucking liar.
What I don't understand is the constant requirement some people have for them to define 'elderly', or 'how far is too far', when those things are guidance.
Those things are relative and are giving us the opportunity to do our own risk assessment. I know people my age (65) who I would class as elderly. They are sedentary, have comorbidities, have been more or less isolating since March and are generally just old. (Isolating since March meaning their normal immune system has been allowed to hibernate and weaken). I also know people in their 70s who are in no way 'elderly'. They are active, sociable, eat a healthy diet etc etc. It really shouldn't need spelling out by the government at what number of years you become elderly.
Similarly with distance, if you think it's a long way, it is and if you don't, then for you it isn't.
I would happily go and stay with my sister and bil for a couple of days, it's a 3 hour drive, but they are both retired as am I. So none of us has been doing much mixing and their house is huge, with their lounge being about 4m x 10m, so once there we wouldn't be on top of each other. we would also be out each day for a walk, again reducing the amount of shared air.
On the other hand, if my parent's were still alive, I would avoid going for more than half an hour, even though they were only half an hour away. They would be frail, which is why I would still go, but the time spent there would be sedentary, in a red hot room, with very little space and no air changes. (And, although getting it doesn't worry me much, I would be more likely to catch it there because of the number of care workers they would be in regular contact with)