What are the worse things about you ?

[Lardlizard]

I can be prickly in real life and bit over sensitive

Degree in philosophy helped me to acquire an ability to debate most people into the ground, and sometimes I enjoy it.

I'm stubborn, and I will cut my nose off.

I don't suffer fools, and I can be very dismissive.

I'm not interested in many of the small problems that friends focus on, and I've been known to be blunt to the point of hurtful. Not meaning to, but being impatient.

I don't botch about people or gossip, but I'm probably quietly judging you :)

I need so much time on my own that I can very selfishly ignore other's needs.

I don't always listen, I'm often bored but I try to nod in the right places.

I can justify almost everything I've ever done and refuse to take any blame.

abeautifulmess1234, really? do you know why?

Also fat and lazy ... and I procrastinate a lot .. Interestingly I am not lazy at work - probably because I love my job, it is my home and family life that bores me to tears .

I'm quite a bit of a control freak.I over think things.

I worry about everything. When one worry goes I look for another.

Dyspraxia ( not that being the worst thing but explains some of why I am like I am

Disorganised so so fkin disorganised
Socially awkward However people still seem to like me and I think having had a lifetime of being socially awkward it now feels worse than I actually come across of that makes sense ? Like I meet new people and I just feel like they must surely think I’m weird as fuck and talk about me as soon as I leave

However I can also be incredibly loud and talk a lot of shit when I am in the xo pant of those I know

Oh I also Care way to much what I look like

@Babykoala1 same.Im terrified of ageing.

Xo pant ? Lol COMPANY

Also I never spell check 😉

My anxiety. It taints every single day that I live, even the best ones.

I'm very caring, but I have suffered from chronic anxiety for years and push those I love away because I don't want them to see I am struggling.

And I don’t listen properly because I am incredibly easily distracted 😞

I quit too easily because I'm afraid of failure.

I'm easily irritated by my family but patient at work because I'm being paid.

I prefer animals to people and it probably shows!!!

I'm autistic and wasn't diagnosed until 40 so I've accumulated a huge amount of emotional baggage about how useless I am and now I believe it

Is holding a grudge that bad of a thing tho ?

@Lardlizard
Good idea to
List some good stuff too !!

Oops not me
@ Heartlantern2. Sorry it autocorrected me into mentioning myself 🤣🙈

Good things I would say

Funny
Fun
Good looking
Very good mum
Very good friend
Good wife Sorry dh ! 🤣
Adventurous

I'm a know it all and can be blunt

I'm pedantic and it is 'worst' not 'worse'. But seriously yes, pedantry.

And messy, lazy, annoying probably...

Vain
Arrogant
Cynical
Acts superior

I'm a total prize

Good things:

Kind
Empathic
Confident, self assured
Graceful
Good looking
Patient

I am very untidy and way too sensitive

@SpectralPlot

I don't think you're in a position to draw attention to a typo OP. My worst thing could be pedantry.

That nade me laugh

Good question OP! My worst thing is the constant feeling that I have 'settled' in life. I had so many chances, I was very pretty, I was clever.. but I wasted all my time and settled x

Grass don’t all your bad things kinda come under one umbrella there is a bit of a theme !

I’m massively self- critical. This thread is cathartic.