What are the worse things about you ?

[Lardlizard]

I can be prickly in real life and bit over sensitive

@hadalifeonce this is not good

I hate every fibre of my being

Negative and critical
Over sensitive
Fat

Cynical, selfish and a bit gobby at times just like my dm

I procrastinate to such a degree that sometimes I let people down.

I have been known to use my facility with language to be a bit of a bitch.

(She meant "full of myself", by the way (ie big-headed). Typo or mondegreen, who knows?)

Where to start! I'm lazy, bossy with DP, can be very moody and I'm a huge worrier.

@LardlizardLardi. I'm not angry about things, eventually. I just know there are people I want absolutely nothing to do with ever again because of some thing they have done to me/mine

Shy, people-pleaser, non-confrontational

I overthink everything
Highly strung
Hold a grudge
Quite entitled

Can't move past/get over things. Even if they're seemingly little
Can be way too opinionated
Probably drink too much
Impatient

My anxiety, though much improved over the last 5 years or so, is VERY annoying for those around me when I get stuck in a spiral - constant need to check things with people. And I don't have fight or flight, I have freeze, so until I can go to bed and reset I cant let go.

I hold a grudge and can be quick to temper, though never with ds, I know its against the spirit of this thread but I am astounded by my patience with him.

I'm bipolar and when stable I'm incredibly tolerant and patient. If I'm having a wobble I go from 0 to total raging bitch from hell. It's like I open my mouth and a super concentrate of my mother's vitriol vomits out. I hate it. I much prefer relaxed me.

I can be very hard faced and cold when I need to be

I hold a grudge for years and years.

I can be bitchy.

I gossip.

I am a bit self centred

I am lazy

I am unforgiving in the extreme. Even dh knows you get one chance.

Unless you’re a cat and then I’m a doormat.

I don’t expect forgiveness myself though.

Another grudge holder here!

I talk too much/talk over people/like the sound of my own voice

I am incredibly indiscreet and cannot keep a secret

I am entitled and jealous of others success

I am fat

I try to get away with doing the absolute minimum most times

I make plans too hastily then regret it and have to make excuses

@merryhouse

I procrastinate to such a degree that sometimes I let people down.

I have been known to use my facility with language to be a bit of a bitch.

(She meant "full of myself", by the way (ie big-headed). Typo or mondegreen, who knows?)

I don’t know what she meant either so thanks for clarifying! Mondegreen is a new word to me too and I love it!! Too many things to mention but I do wonder whether other wives are quite so naggy about everything!

I talk too much and don't listen

I'm a bit bossy. Apparently.

Single, childless and very bitter about it.
Hold grudges.
Don't always see things through.
Pedantic (it's "the worsT things").

Vanity, laziness, addiction to crisps and MN.

I can hold a grudge like nobody else I've ever encountered. Wrong me once and you are dead to me (occasionally, but not always, cutting off my nose to spite my face)

I have a tendency to repeat myself and try dominate conversation, but this is mostly when I'm drunk and I've got much better at holding my tongue as I've got older.

I do have some good points too

I’m fat and too lazy to do anything about it!

Everything! I always put myself down. Hate myself. No self belief. I go silent a lot to save myself (from who knows what but likely from hurt). Hate confrontation & arguing. Just everything... life never used to be this hard 🤦🏼‍♀️

Too sensitive
Socially inept
Over thinker
Worrier
Scared to go out.

On the flip side

I’m determined once I’ve set my mind on a task
I work hard
I’m a good parent
I have empathy
I try to be a good and kind person