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Tattoos on hands - trashy or ok?

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CatsArePeopleToo · 11/09/2020 19:29

So long story short. I broke my wrist and will be needing a surgery. Will end up with a visible scar. I started contemplating getting a tattoo to cover it up. Please tell me - good idea or a bad idea?

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SimonJT · 11/09/2020 21:59

@IlonaRN

Very bad idea. Scars are cool. All the places I have worked insist that visible scars can be covered with standard clothes - you can't cover your hands.
Your work place discriminates against people with scars?
WingBingo · 11/09/2020 22:07

I have a tattoo on the side of my hand.

I’m a professional and it’s never been a problem as far as I know. No idea if people are making silent judgements.

I like it and it’s never faded.

Tattoos on hands - trashy or ok?
mineofuselessinformation · 11/09/2020 22:08

Showandtell1, you made a comment on a thread about hand tattoos.
Your responses about piercings and facial and neck tattoos are therefore completely irrelevant.
You yourself say your friend was rejected because their tattoo was offensive, so again the comment is irrelevant (unless OP was planning in having an offensive tattoo, which they have not mentioned).
Keep clutching those pearls. May they bring you great joy.

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pickleface · 11/09/2020 22:08

Mine is beautiful

donnadenise · 11/09/2020 22:13

Trashy

donnadenise · 11/09/2020 22:14

@IlonaRN

Very bad idea. Scars are cool. All the places I have worked insist that visible scars can be covered with standard clothes - you can't cover your hands.
So what happens if staff have a scar on their hand ?
mineofuselessinformation · 11/09/2020 22:16

planning on

borntohula · 11/09/2020 22:16

I like them but then I once contemplated getting one on my face, sooo...

SBTLove · 11/09/2020 22:17

@IlonaRN
Seriously? scars have to be covered? where do you work?

borntohula · 11/09/2020 22:18

@IlonaRN

Very bad idea. Scars are cool. All the places I have worked insist that visible scars can be covered with standard clothes - you can't cover your hands.
Damn, I feel really lucky to work where I do. I have scars all over my forearms, I don't think they're cool but my workplace doesn't force me to cover them up!
IlonaRN · 11/09/2020 22:27

Doh!
I meant visible TATOOS must be covered!!
Sorry - long day! 🙁
@SimonJT @borntohula @SBTLove @donnadenise

Yankathebear · 11/09/2020 22:29

I wouldn’t have one but it’s your body.
Good idea to wait though. A friend just had a scar on her thigh tattooed. It looks beautiful and the artist was very careful about making sure that the design incorporates the scar rather than trying to cover it. You can’t see the scar unless you know it’s there and it is a fairly big scar.

ArtieFufkinPolymerRecords · 11/09/2020 22:53

I work in an office and have a large one on my arm and hand. Never had no problems professionally and I love them!

I'm not surprised, your second paragraph gives us a clear picture of your working environment.

The post you were responding to didn't have a second paragraph; perhaps you meant second sentence? It's very bad form to call someone out on their grammar anyway, but especially if you're not too hot yourself.

Athenajm80 · 11/09/2020 22:59

I have a hand tattoo, plus 1full sleeve, one nearly full, 3/4 coverage (roughly) on both legs, and a back piece planned. Before I get a tattoo, I research who does the style I want or whose work I love. I am prepared to travel to get the expertise and artistic talent. I am also prepared to pay for it. So far, I have travelled to various countries and been tattooed by many artists, each love to add to my collection as they respect the other artists.

I have seen young people at work who obviously just go to their mate or their local studio and the standard of work is sadly very low. That is what would make me judge them in a job interview. Not only have they not considered the implications that a visible tattoo can have, but they have gone for something quick and cheap that will look shit in a few years.

Providing you do the research, are willing to travel and pay, then there is no reason a hand tattoo would look tacky. However, like other posters have said, decent tattoo artists often won't do a 'job stopper' unless you have a good level of coverage already.

FWIW, A) the kinds of tattoos that go blue, or blurry after a few years tend to be done with cheap ink and bad technique. Good tattoos look as crisp ten years later as the day they were done. B) I'm a privately educated middle-class intelligent woman with a good job earning above the national average. Not that this stuff matters to me, but some posters seem to act like tattoos are for the uneducated common 'under-class' 🙄

Biancadelrioisback · 11/09/2020 23:19

I used to work with someone in an expensive restaurant who had a W and an anchor on each thumb.
Took me ages to figure out it was saying "wanker", I just thought it was nautical!
Yes they did make me think she didn't have the best judgement when it came to herself, but she was one of the best workers I've ever known and has gone on to be a very successful sales director and artist.

blue25 · 11/09/2020 23:20

100% trashy

Shizzlestix · 11/09/2020 23:23

I’m judgey, I know, but utterly common. Horrible, IMO.

TiddyTid · 11/09/2020 23:31

Well I have my wedding ring tattooed on, one inside of wrist and one on inside of forearm the other side, plus back and abdomen. I'm in a typically grey suited stuffy profession and I like to be different. No way would I cover my tattoos.

VesperLynne · 11/09/2020 23:50

I have a tattoo so I can’t criticise but it’s on my bottom so not sure that counts. I wouldn’t have one on my hands or face though.

SBTLove · 12/09/2020 00:32

@Shizzlestix
Do you not think you should be less judgey?
You’ve read on this thread of all
sorts of professionals; surgeons, teachers, police officers who are all tattooed, do you think you’re superior to them because they have tattoos?
Are we not meant to living as humans alongside each other and raising our children to accept everyone for who they are?
Not seeming someone trashy or common on appearance?

GarlicMcAtackney · 12/09/2020 00:51

Tattoos are so ubiquitous there’s no real point in getting one, I’ve never seen one that makes me think they’re gorgeous and old ones look pure shite, including my own. There is no shame in a scar, no reason to hide it and no one has to explain or justify any bodily marks.

happystone · 12/09/2020 01:29

No no no no

happystone · 12/09/2020 01:31

Tattoos are shit like the green ones old men have are ageing yours will be ageing in 30 Yeare time and look shit who wants scribble on them

DarkHelmet · 12/09/2020 01:34

My hands are fully tattooed and I'm not trashy 🤷🏻‍♀️

FrenchFancie · 12/09/2020 05:38

The reality is that some people do judge - and that might affect your ability to get a job or to relate to people you need to relate to.
I used to work as a solicitor with elderly clients. In their day, only dodgy people had tattoos. Now if I turn up with a full sleeve or hand tattoos, a significant chunk of my clients would believe I was either rough, or had a dodgy past, and therefore not trust me.
Maybe they should move with the times but at 80 odd it’s hard to change a lifetimes attitudes.

So to answer the op, it depends on your job, your future job and those you will interact with. Will they be Judgmental or not? Could it affect your work prospects or not?
I don’t think mn can’t blanket say for you if it’s a good plan or not, so much depends on circumstances

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