Big, huge massive hugs for anyone and everyone who needs them.
Today's not been too bad so far chez farting. Dc1 has done some work, dc2 hasn't created havoc and we went to a supermarket, no queue to get in, nice and quiet, and bought a lot of crap that I probably didn't need, but will keep us in treats!
I think my mental state is better knowing that my friend is legally allowed to come round, and we can have a bit of a day out somewhere further afield. We have felt compelled to stay in whenever they've visited 'just in case'. Neighbours must have noticed as they drive here, but all the ones who are close, know my situation and so are happy for me to have company.
Another SAHM here. Have been since dc1 has born. It made sense to remain so when he started school as there isn't really anyone I could call on at short notice if needed. I am more than happy with my lot in normal times. But, as pps have said, that includes volunteering at a stay and play group, going to parks, going for coffee or to someone's house for a catch up/playdate, school drop off/pickup chats, shopping (not my favourite activity but ok) etc Weekends and school holidays are times for bigger days out. We have lots of memberships - nt, zoo etc and make use of them. This is driving me nuts!! Dc1 is junior age, he's pretty damn good! Once we found a routine he's been happy doing some school work, going for walks/on scooter and playing in the garden. But watching far too much tv (even decent stuff like bitesize and horrible histories) and playing on tablet more than ever before. DC2 is a toddler. Not very verbal (I am thinking speech delay). Can't understand why the world has changed and is far too happy watching disney+ and cbeebies, while playing. I have never been hung up on screen time, and it wasn't really an issue before, because we were out.
I have no family of my own and in laws have their own stuff going on. My best friend is amazing, and we message all day virtually. Even though they know dcs really well, it wasn't until they visited they really got how tough it is - and they were only here a few hours.