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Anti dementors not (second) waving but flouting

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Waleshasgonecompletelycrazy · 09/06/2020 21:04

Welcome one and all. Bad days, good days...we're here for you all

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Dowser · 10/06/2020 14:33

I bake
Oh yes the creaking gate gets the most oil.

I’ve always been the sort of person that if I felt someone was was being unjust with me I’d fight to the death till it was resolved to my satisfaction.

I’ve refused first offers And second offers till I got what I wanted.

Some hotel chain , can’t remember which now, first made a paltry Offer then a second one and I remember dh saying oh that’s good, I said no, I’m not stopping till I get the lot back and I did.

I’m not completely unfair. If someone has provided good service I will mention them in the letter, especially if they’ve given good service and it’s not their fault it’s company policy.

I know this is a much bigger scenario..so you need to get as many parents as possible on your side and just keep saying
That’s not acceptable
This isn’t working Etc
And phrases of a similar ilk..maybe See if david blunkett and other prominent people will get on board.

I have three home edded dgc. One has been attending college one day a week for 18 months in specialist classes for home edded children to do english, maths and science gcse, now all chucked out the window.
I never thought I’d see my 17 year old heading for uni grandson working 40 hours a week in macdonalds instead of being at college.
Another one, doing his artwork at home instead of uni
and the other state edded gs sat in his xbox most of the day because his mum thinks it’s too scary to go back to school

The home Edded are doing oK, because they are used to doing what they want when they want to, they have had private maths, violin and Spanish lessons as well over Skype or zoom.
The 17 year old is incredibly self motivated as is the uni one
It’s the ten year old who ought to be suffering the most ..but isn’t because he is school phobic.

Still doesn’t stop me being angry for everyone else. School was my saviour when mine were little.
I would’ve loved to have home edded them but they wouldn’t hear of it.

LivinLaVidaLoki · 10/06/2020 14:34

[quote AnxiousElephant77]@Livinlavidaloki If it's just about zoos I'm opening the bar. [/quote]
Apparently its a separate thing. The zoos were covered earlier on in PMQs.

It probably will be something utterly shite though.

Shall we have a sweepstake?

Mascotte · 10/06/2020 14:37

Gentleman's clubs?

LivinLaVidaLoki · 10/06/2020 14:39

Just ventured into the coronazone (why do I do it to myself) and there is a fairly sensible discussion about reducing 2m to 1m and then suddenly one post "the infection rate is low because we made it low, if we reduce the distance and open everything up again it will shoot back up"

For fuck sake why do they always assume that any suggestion of an ease in restriction means that everything will open up???

BogRollBOGOF · 10/06/2020 14:41

@Mascotte

Gentleman's clubs?
Probably working all the time a la Jezebels/ Handsmaid's Tale.
PickAChew · 10/06/2020 14:41

Amendment: Dementors are (mostly) the ARMCHAIR experts.

Drivingdownthe101 · 10/06/2020 14:42

@LivinLaVidaLoki

Just ventured into the coronazone (why do I do it to myself) and there is a fairly sensible discussion about reducing 2m to 1m and then suddenly one post "the infection rate is low because we made it low, if we reduce the distance and open everything up again it will shoot back up"

For fuck sake why do they always assume that any suggestion of an ease in restriction means that everything will open up???

And also... yes it might. Don’t know until we try it do we? And the alternative is staying 2m away from everyone else forever more... hardly sustainable is it?
LivinLaVidaLoki · 10/06/2020 14:42

@Mascotte

Gentleman's clubs?
Good shout @Mascotte as I am sure that will appeal to a lot of Conservative voters.
HauntedGoatFart · 10/06/2020 14:44

I agree on the schools' apparently dominant mindset of "it won't be perfect so we couldn't possibly". Visible in full today on the thread about whether furloughed people could work in schools. Yes they bloody could; Sweden made it happen by rapidly retraining airline staff to support medics, which if anything is higher stakes than schools. As they say in the article, you can reskill just about anyone if they are committed and you are realistic. www.google.com/amp/s/hbr.org/amp/2020/06/how-reskilling-can-soften-the-economic-blow-of-covid-19

Bollss · 10/06/2020 14:46

@Ibake I've emailed the children's commissioner today. I plan on emailing our MPs again re the shit show that September will be.

@Dowser I don't blame you! I will not accept something that i don't think is right. I bought a car and it broke down 6 days later. Everyone was like oh you'll never get your money back bla bla. Tell you what a few strongly worded letters and I bloody well did. I'm very stubborn.

AnxiousElephant77 · 10/06/2020 14:47

@LivinLaVidaLoki I'm going with something utterly shit. Boz and I are not on the same page with his easing strategy. Although I do enjoy him being the only one to announce anything 😂

My love for Rishi remains strong today re his comments about schools.

Bollss · 10/06/2020 14:48

As a furloughed person (albeit I have another job to go to as soon as my dbs comes back) I could quite easily work in a school. I have a child. I am confident I could look after a room full of small ones. I'm also not scared of them or their germs. I mean I couldn't reach them an awful lot but I could be helpful in some way shape or form I'm sure!

Bollss · 10/06/2020 14:48

Teach not reach

RobinHobb · 10/06/2020 14:49

@Drivingdownthe101
Same here - DH works at a big London bank and they have told him the same thing

Bollss · 10/06/2020 14:50

Rishi Sunak is the only one of them with half a brain imo.

justasking111 · 10/06/2020 14:51

OH spoke to a friend this morning his wife is a teacher two days work a month. She wants schools to go back her children are now feral not listening to parents at all. Only granny who visited this weekend and lowered the boom was listened to.

Orangeblossom78 · 10/06/2020 14:52

I started that post about the 2m on the coronazone just to see if they would dement about it or not

Oh no this new one form the BBC annoys me. they know they have an issue specific to Bradford as they have mentioned it before (mainly the Asian communities there not trusting the advice given or thinking the doctors will treat them properly)

However this makes no mention of that at all and makes it seem as if it were representative of the rest of the UK Hmm

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-52985781

More on the specific situation and issues in Bradford here

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-52623455

NothingIsWrong · 10/06/2020 15:01

covid19cct.shinyapps.io/covid19cct/

Useful website here.

There have been no deaths since 21st of May in my county and no infections reported in 5 days. I am hanging onto the hope...

LivinLaVidaLoki · 10/06/2020 15:04

[quote Orangeblossom78]I started that post about the 2m on the coronazone just to see if they would dement about it or not

Oh no this new one form the BBC annoys me. they know they have an issue specific to Bradford as they have mentioned it before (mainly the Asian communities there not trusting the advice given or thinking the doctors will treat them properly)

However this makes no mention of that at all and makes it seem as if it were representative of the rest of the UK Hmm

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-52985781

More on the specific situation and issues in Bradford here

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-52623455[/quote]
I have to admit I have thought of amusing myself sometimes by starting threads on there about positive stuff just to see how long it takes someone to go full dementor....

Dowser · 10/06/2020 15:05

Mascotte
Gentleman's clubs?

Chuckling at the thought of the pink rhino club offering a socially distanced lap dance 😂

Bet the dancers would love that 👍

Orangeblossom78 · 10/06/2020 15:12

I was kind of testing the waters to see if views had changed to being a bit more reasonable or not.

GoldenOmber · 10/06/2020 15:12

Most Scottish tourism businesses to reopen from 15 July apparently! Pleased about this. (Although it is somewhat ridiculous that I'll be able to take my kids on a Nessie-spotting tour or on a shopping trip down the Royal Mile to stock up on tartan tat but not to send them back to school f/t.)

LivinLaVidaLoki · 10/06/2020 15:16

@Orangeblossom78 I think overall the mood is shifting. There is one poster over on the coronaboards who was a complete dementor at the start of this, even they are now looking at things in a more measured way. I am also noticing a lot of measured and reasonable responses to the threads too.

KaronAVyrus · 10/06/2020 15:16

GoldenOmbre - do you have a link for that? It would be great if tourism could go back that soon (I might get to keep my job)

Waleshasgonecompletelycrazy · 10/06/2020 15:17

I've just asked the Welsh Government for their Equalities Impact Assessment around school closures/partial closures, particularly around the impact on women. Who reckons it'll come back as a crayon picture of coronavirus. Sadly children aren't a protected characteristic, but due to the disproportionate impact I'm hoping it might set them thinking. Gotta get my laughs somewhere. I imagine they haven't had a thought since the start of this nonsense.

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