What I dislike on MN is people jumping on posters assuming there was some kind of negativity behind their posts. I have no negativity at all. I never even implied anything remotely similar to some posters on here talking about children being loved more or less.
I said that these parents have suffered a lot and they are probably feeling extreme guilt. So no need to crucify them again and again.
I'm going through my third consecutive miscarriage. I've been to hell and back. The last 18 months nearly broke me. All I'm saying is that these guys had 5 years of this kind of struggle in their lives, then they happily ended up with three children, but another tragedy hit them and it has no end for 13 years now.
This would be enough to break the toughest of us. That's why I think enough has been said about them and no need to criticise them over and over again.