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Phillip Schofield has come out as gay

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catinb0oots · 07/02/2020 09:59

Blimey. Married for 27 years.

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SidneyP · 07/02/2020 10:52

@getyourarseoffthequattro Me too! She deserves it. She's practically wasted her life with him

Mrsjayy · 07/02/2020 10:52

I wonder who was going to out him? Which is a shitty thing to do but the big announcement is sudden

EverardDigby · 07/02/2020 10:52

Unfortunately he was born in a generation where it wasn’t acceptable to be gay, especially in the entertainment business.

I'm not far off the age of PS and there were loads of us out then, lots of pubs and clubs and L&G centres and projects. Yes there was more discrimination, but a lot of acceptance too, particularly amongst the middle classes.

FaFoutis · 07/02/2020 10:54

So he's been using his wife and children to keep his career going. How is that 'brave'?

AllHeart1 · 07/02/2020 10:54

If he was gay he shouldn’t have got married. IMHO.

it’s very sad that people live for years. Not being able to reveal that they’re gay, but I don’t think that it’s ok to marry someone for the show, have children with them, lead them to believe you are a couple in love and then shatter their world with something you have known all your life.

When coming out you are responsible to no-one else but you if that’s just how you’ve always felt. But if you bring others into your life under false pretences then yes, you are responsible for the hurt you have caused those people if you then come out.

It’s no different to having an affair IMO.

If someone posted that they’d told their partner they’d always wanted to sleep with other men/women (depending on the sex) then nobody would be supportive of that and would be telling the partner to ltb.

But someone comes out and says that they’ve always wanted to sleep with others of the same sex and suddenly we must support them and hope the family are loving and supportive? Why?

MashedSpud · 07/02/2020 10:54

I feel sorry for his wife, his beard. Three decades of her life.

Redcrayons · 07/02/2020 10:54

Maybe he and Jameela have been seeing each other. The timing is suspicious

Bet she's proper fumin' he's stolen her thunder.

JanuaryJones20 · 07/02/2020 10:55

Not surprised, I'd heard that he'd taken out a press injunction to stop it breaking on a couple of occasions. I used to work for a large media organisation and that was often discussed there. I expect his wife at least has known for sometime.

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Thescrewinthetuna · 07/02/2020 10:55

I feel so bad for his wife.

Thescrewinthetuna · 07/02/2020 10:56

He's a selfish prick for getting married to her in the first place knowing what he knew. I don't see the big deal about being gay anyway, he should have come out a lot sooner instead of leaving it 27 years

^ yes

Doyoumind · 07/02/2020 10:56

Not surprised by this at all. I always thought he was.

His poor family. I think he put his career ahead of everything and thought he would be safer married to a woman and for that, I don't respect him one bit.

I liked him in the broom cupboard but can't stand him now. I'm very cynical and feel he's chosen this time to come out again for the sake of his career. It will boost, not hinder his career now.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 07/02/2020 10:56

For all anyones she might have known he was gay for years and had an arrangement to live together and to keep their business private.There is no way shes just found out imo.

Redcrayons · 07/02/2020 10:56

So when he and Steph inevitably divorce will she get half of his fortune

His fortune or half of the assets of the marriage?

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PrincessHoneysuckle · 07/02/2020 10:57

Anyones=Anyone knows

YetAnotherSpartacus · 07/02/2020 10:57

I feel for his wife. So not fair.

coconuttelegraph · 07/02/2020 10:58

I'm old enough to remember when he got married and while it wasn't on the scale of Elton John marrying a woman it was I thought, quite widely known at that time that he was gay.

That rainbow coat was a bit of a clue

I don't know if that's a joke but you know it's a costume?also work by Donny Osmond and Jason Donovan to name a couple. It's not exclusively worn by the gays.

MulticolourMophead · 07/02/2020 10:59

I've heard the rumours for years, so my sympathy is firmly with his wife.

Mummyoflittledragon · 07/02/2020 10:59

I agree it’s likely she’s known for years.... otherwise she’s in complete denial. It’s soo obvious he’s gay tbh...

Papergirl1968 · 07/02/2020 10:59

Blimey, could have knocked me down with a feather. Obviously my gaydar is not as good as I’d thought.
I’d wondered if he and Holly had a thing going on. Obviously not!

SidneyP · 07/02/2020 10:59

As if we didn't see enough of time on TV as it is, it will be even more so now he's shared this news Angry

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kenandbarbie · 07/02/2020 11:00

She might have known for years. But I doubt she knew BEFORE she got married and had kids with him.

BritneyPeedOnALadybug · 07/02/2020 11:00

Is this National Coming Out before I Get Fired week or something? First Jameela Jamil, now him. I’m just trying to think of anyone else who has had a recent backlash recently where an outing could help.

(Oh god, now I’m imagining Trump) 🤢