Rousette: "Spot the difference in the picture."
I don't know how many times Kate touched her stomach when pregnant. Meghan did become known for doing this but in an exaggerated way, that was either a classic Instagram pose before she did it or one she started - i.e. the top and bottom cradling. Kate seems to be on duty out on the street, heading somewhere. Meghan is on duty on a stage and because she's the only one there it is extremely noticeable and came over to many as affected.
Meghan also was seen a few times on duty bizarrely pushing her coat back to show her stomach. I don't understand why but it looks very odd and unnatural in clips.
Meghan is very tuned up on what is popular and on trend on Instagram (having seen the Tig). She's very slick at that. It's her generation and her thing.
The top and bottom cradling of your bump is a thing on Instagram and by other celebrities - same as the photos of the back of a woman's head on holiday somewhere exotic with her hand behind her pulling her boyfriend along, same as with the hotdog legs beside a pool. There's probably others.
In other words it's a pose or an affectation. So people naturally felt she wasn't natural and was affected.
There wasn't so much fuss when Kate did it as she didn't seem to do it all the time and it seemed more natural. Meghan was constantly photographed holding her bump from the bottom and when she was on stage working at presenting something at the British Fashion Awards she did the IG pose of the top and bottom cradle, as it looks good. Unfortunately, to many, she made that more about her than what she was supposed to be doing. She's very much about the "optics" of things.
That's the difference. It was just one more way that she seemed forced or affected. Same with her giggle and hand over the mouth, like a little girl would. Or the doe eyes. She's an actress and that came over so it's hard to believe she's natural in her body language.
Not that I'm a fan of Kate. I'm not. I want rid of them all. But there is a difference in the poses, for sure. Maybe Kate was being affected but it was more restrained so if she was posing she came over at making it more natural than Meghan.
In real life I don't think I've ever seen anyone pregnant pose like this. It's common place now looking at celeb photos, IG, other social media. Problem is people want genuine and can spot fake.