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What are you pissed off at RIGHT now?

258 replies

SunshineAngel · 20/09/2019 23:24

I don't know if there's already something like this, or how I could check, but I thought it might be good to have a thread for some non-judged venting.

So..

In here you can tell us WHATEVER you're pissed off at WITHOUT risking judgement - because we won't judge in here, only offer sympathy!


To start, I'm pissed off because we have just spent months and a lot of money getting the kitchen done, completely ripped out and started again including plastering, lights.. the lot.. and DDS has made himself some toast, buttered and cut it directly on the worktop (despite us owning 2 chopping boards and many, many plates, and us telling him countless times to use them) and left a beautiful big scratch on it from the knife. It's so obvious, you can see it from the other side of the room, he must have hacked at it really, really roughly.. and I'm unbelievably gutted. :(.

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Ivalueloyaltyaboveallelse · 22/09/2019 13:43

I should add he’s eaten now but still feel bad he had to wait.

Smotheroffive · 22/09/2019 13:44

Strikes me DH should be taking responsibility for his snoring and move to another sleeping place until he gets his snoring sorted. Then you wouldn't be three hours down on sleep and far better positioned energy-wise to deal with spd at 37 weeks and, presumably young, ds.

Good luck for your assignment, and make sure dh sorts out food and sleep for everyone tonight!

Can you do a pile of books with ds3? With your feet up and listen to stories together or do drawings together, on the sofa?

Ivalueloyaltyaboveallelse · 22/09/2019 13:45

Toby*

VictoriaBun · 22/09/2019 13:48

My dp. His car is being fixed in the garage. We decided we would go to a farm shop / cafe for something to eat. He drove, the narrow road along the track is quite bumpy, a car came in the opposite direction and my eh went into the vergeway but carried on driving so we were bumping along the grass. I asked him not to wreck my car . I was accused of moaning all the time and he's fed up about it ! Fucking tosser.
We got to the farm shop but he turned around and said he didn't feel like it now so we drive home in silence. He's now on his pc. I'm hating him and currently seething.

BeepBeeep · 22/09/2019 13:50

Fucking family member who was supposed to meet us 3 hours ago for an important event. We've driven for 5 hours to get here and still managed to get here 30 mins early.
He got here last night and STILL managed to be so far, 3 hours late, despite numerous phone calls.
Meanwhile we're still sat in the car is the pouring rain, which he knows.
To say my blood is absolutely boiling is an understatement.
He will fucking know about it when he finally turns up.

feelingdizzy · 22/09/2019 13:52

Generally pissed off today ,not helped by auto correct which has taken 5 attempts to write pissed ! My 17 year old daughter ,she is so bloody prickly and hard to be around,but expects me to be constantly happy in the face of this prickilness.She also appears to have stopped washing her hair.
My kids crap drug riddled high school. Having to apply for my own job,and the online application not saving, the constant single parent drudgery ,the fucking washing .
Just want a day off ,an actual day off not a day catching up or dealing with dd or ds melodramatic love life.I also usually like warm weather, but not today its pissing me off.Finally I have got so fucking fat,really am.Damn that feels good.

Corneliawildthing · 22/09/2019 17:24

Thank you Wanderingmind for your nasty judgemental comments on a person you know nothing about.

This sort of shit reminds me why I dip in and out of MN - its helpfulness just about outweighs its nastiness atm.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 22/09/2019 17:33

I have a teenager at home. I say ‘at home’ because he tried his macho crap on me and it was all I could do to just walk out the door to stop myself doing or saying something I may later regret (or rely upon in court...). Little sod. I’m just plotting my revenge now.

99problemsandjust1appt · 22/09/2019 17:37

My gallbladder, endometriosis and food allergies
Oh and my cleaner
Literally ruined my whole weekend

She keeps cancelling so I’ve been overdoing things massively
Had a gallbladder attack and honestly it was the worst yet and I thought I was going to die. Nearly got dh to call 999 as I knew I couldn’t move to get to the car but then it started to subside after hours and hours of agony
Have period so endo cramps
Have so much to do so am trying to slowly do some housework and want to cry as have such big plans plus feeling emotional as totally lost ds baby blanket that had massive sentimental value and I’m heartbroken. So basically a bad weekend

oldstudentmum · 22/09/2019 21:20

My batshit crazy neighbour twat has been caught on camera making what sounded like threats just happened phone alerted me sensor had been triggered.

Foslady · 22/09/2019 22:37

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DowntonCrabby · 22/09/2019 22:41

I wish I could get into it without a NC or massive detail change to the point of what’s the point?

It’s not been a happy Sunday night in any case. Sad

Sarcelle · 22/09/2019 23:37

Right now pissed off with work induced anxiety. Been on leave for 2 weeks and every fucking day of it I have been dreading going back - and now I am going back tomorrow. I really hate my toxic workplace. I normally cope but before I went off we were told that our roles would change. There is a fair chance that somebody who was bullying me will end up being in charge. I know we all have to work but fucking hell its soul destroying sometimes. My rash that comes up when I am stressed has put in an appearance.

It's going to be a long night......

BloggersBlog · 23/09/2019 09:30

@BeepBeeep Shock that would seriously hack me off!! Did you give them both barrels?! Hope they were apologetic!

BeepBeeep · 23/09/2019 18:48

When he finally turned up, he just walked past me without a word.
Oh yes, he got it with both barrels and a grenade thrown in for good measure @BloggersBlog

BloggersBlog · 23/09/2019 20:31

Grin haha I should think so!!!

IncyWincyGrownUp · 23/09/2019 21:05

I’m pissed off because I’m in pain. It makes me ridiculously grumpy, which is then compounded by the fact I’m not sleeping at all well.

Onwards though, just grumpily.

ChipInTheSugar · 23/09/2019 21:10

My hairdresser's seeming inability to get my hair the same colour each time she bleaches/tones it. Tonight I've got a colour that "after a couple of washes will be just the colour you want!" I WANT THAT COLOUR NOW!!!

I'm genuinely at the point of shaving it all off and getting a wig.

spottysept · 23/09/2019 21:19

I am pissed off that our builder has disappeared after us paying a chunk of money and the work is nowhere near finished. We have no kitchen or bathroom. It's our first house, we have never done this before. Gutted, shouldn't have paid the money. So stupid Blush

Aeris1 · 23/09/2019 21:26

I am really mega pissed off. My little boy is now 4 is diagnosed autistic, has spd and has high anxiety. He has an ehc plan set up and in July I looked at special schools. I had a visit from a head and deputy head over 2 weeks ago and when I called was told they can't give him the care he needs and to contact senar as they can't go into detail. Wtf? They know why they said no. I have been on hold or hung up on all day because the senar line is playing up. He can't go to mainstream school and am struggling with getting him in special school. I get so annoyed because he is so precious and deserves a chance to try everything but everything always ends up fucking battle. Thank you, I needed to get that off my chest.

I also have found a grey eyebrow hair :/

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 23/09/2019 22:58

Aliens have abducted my sweet, funny, cute kid and replaces him with a rabid Tasmanian devil. It appeared to have happened fairly recently.

SapphireSeptember · 23/09/2019 23:13

My housemate has started smoking in the house again (despite him saying he wouldn't and not doing so for months.) And then thinks spraying air freshener everywhere is going to cover it up. (It doesn't.) My lungs feel itchy and I now have an awful headache and if he keeps it up he's going under the patio. (Headaches make me stabby at the best of times and this one isn't my fault cos I'm not stressed or dehydrated, so I feel extra stabby.)

Also the fact that this is all perfectly legal because the law is stupid. People can't smoke in prisons because it affects non-smokers, why the hell is it allowed in shared housing?

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 23/09/2019 23:46

I’m just going to leave this here for all those stressed out bunnies (and kitties)...

What are you pissed off at RIGHT now?
SunshineAngel · 24/09/2019 11:40

@SapphireSeptember It might not be technically illegal BUT if you have a tenancy agreement of any kind I'm sure it will say no smoking. I'd check if I were you :). It's not nice to be around.

I'm pissed off for a smoking related reason too. One of our close friends managed to quite 5yrs ago, not a sign of a cig ever since, then all of a sudden he's round ours on Sunday lighting up (outside). I was stunning, and he practically chain smoked his way through the gathering. I asked why he was smoking again and he said because he was in debt and it was stressing him out.. he must have smoked £20 worth of cigs while he was at ours!

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managedmis · 24/09/2019 13:15

DH

Lack of sleep last night too