What are you pissed off at RIGHT now?

[SunshineAngel]

I don't know if there's already something like this, or how I could check, but I thought it might be good to have a thread for some non-judged venting.

So..

In here you can tell us WHATEVER you're pissed off at WITHOUT risking judgement - because we won't judge in here, only offer sympathy!

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To start, I'm pissed off because we have just spent months and a lot of money getting the kitchen done, completely ripped out and started again including plastering, lights.. the lot.. and DDS has made himself some toast, buttered and cut it directly on the worktop (despite us owning 2 chopping boards and many, many plates, and us telling him countless times to use them) and left a beautiful big scratch on it from the knife. It's so obvious, you can see it from the other side of the room, he must have hacked at it really, really roughly.. and I'm unbelievably gutted. :(.

Look at that kitty 😍😻

I've just been told my urgent mri may be more than two weeks away. Took me 4 gp visits and a trip to a&e to even get a referral and only when it's become so bad I'm losing feeling in one of my limbs now. Meanwhile dh rocks up to the gp with a smaller though still painful issue and he's been sent directly for an ultrasound. Pisses me off that men are seen as only going to the gp when in bad need, women just need to suck it up.

I'm pissed off because I went to get some malt loaf to have with my tea....DD and DH have eaten it all.
I was forced into eating fruit cake instead.

Dh's Brother emailed yesterday to ask for a lend of £950 so he can go on holiday.
He had it all planned for us. We can put it on our CC an he'll pay it back by the end of November and he'll cover any interest.
I'm so annoyed with him. He has form for this. He literally just started a new job after months of unemployment and he wants to spend his first 3 months wages on a holiday. He is 42 and hasn't ever managed to hold onto a job for more than 6 months in him life.

I told DH that I'd leave the decision up to him and he's going to lend it to him. I'm not annoyed with DH. The relationship between them is complicated. If I had said no outright then DH would have been upset with me. He's also upset with his brother but he has a saviour complex where his brother is concerned.
I'm just so annoyed that he had the cheek to ask us and put us into this position.

I’m pissed of because I had an interview last Thursday for a job I really want but fucked up spectacularly and I know I haven’t a single chance of getting it BUT still haven’t heard either way.

I’m pissed off with myself. I know it’s due to my anxiety/depression issues. I stopped going to the gin, I stopped eating well, I lose myself in sleep. I know what I need to do to get better, I just can’t make myself do it

I'm pissed off at work and the complete lack of information that gets passed to shop floor staff, yet it's us who get it in the neck when things aren't done on time. How can we do tasks that we're never told about?

I'm pissed off that people are calling or emailing me for info I have already sent them.

I'm pissed off today as my 3 year old dd doesnt eat her sandwiches at lunch despite me making them fresh every morning after I've asked what would you like to eat, she refused school dinners and short of taking her a happy meal every lunchtime,I dont know what to do and her teachers are no help.
DD is also clumping round the living room in my boots and I have a migraine due to lack of sleep (insomnia is a bitch).
On top of that,my useless husband is pissing me off everytime he breathes and offers no input regards dd's lunch or helping me with DD when all I want to do is lie down in a dark room. If anyone can send help in the form of a new husband who is house broken and does as he is told first time round, I'll offer anything. 😤🤒🤬

I’m pissed off that I spoke to the headteacher of the school I live next to about road safety. In particular people stopping on the zig zags which is illegal.
She basically said it wasn’t her problem! This is even though she knows my step dad was a pedestrian who was knocked down and killed crossing the road (a different road) in December. I have serious issues with the road safety on our road but she obviously won’t give a shit until a pupil is killed.
It is not just the zig zags tho, it is absolutely diabolical how people park and drive on our road. It is a bloody secondary school too, these kids can walk more than 5 yards unaccompanied.

I'm pissed off that, yet again, the family have planned a meal without asking me if it was okay, and are now pissy with me because I can't make it. I'm so busy, they all have Monday-Friday jobs or are retired - just give me a break and ask when I'm free! It's so much easier for them to get together, and it's not like I'd mind missing out sometimes, but they complain at me if I don't come.

@SecretWitch Aww hun, I'm exactly the same. Work is really busy for me at the moment (I WFH) so my work life balance is just ridiculous, I've let my gym membership lapse, never go out for walks, let one of my hobbies go, stopped going out with friends as much. Basically I work, spend time with my partner, watch TV, and go out 2 nights a week for a hobby.

I need to make a change, my diet is piss poor, exercise is non-existent, and I have all this problems that I KNOW would go away if I got myself in gear.

But it's not that easy, is it? :(

It would be ideal if I could win the lottery right now, and let work go!

I'm pissed of because my friend is in hospital and I want to go and see her, but the journey I'd have to take is a total and utter ball ache.

Additionally, there is someone working there perhaps best avoided who if they saw me (likely) might assume (wrongly) that they were the true reason I'd decided to go in.

I could write a book about all the things I’m pissed off about right now!
Relationship issues, sick child issues and I’ve been ghosted for no reason that I can think of by someone I considered to be a true friend and who I thought felt the same about me. Who wants to join me in a large bottle of wine and a family box of chocolates?

I'm pissed off that after my DH kindly helped me with DS who has just woken up, he has gone back to bed leaving the side light on, rather than the main light on low,. I'll have to come back down stairs to turn it off when DS is put back into bed instead of doing it in 1 go. Minor in the scheme of things really, but still annoying.

politics

I'm pissed off at the effect my gaslighting, narcissistic ex is still having on my life. The Ad's make me feel sick so I'm not eating properly, they also make me feel knackered. Plus I have a nice new man interested and I can't just enjoy it because everything feels flat. Meanwhile ex is running about with his new best mate: a woman 40 years younger than him

@SunshineAngel,

Thank you for your kind words! I'm promising myself to complete at least two yoga classes next week.. and try to do one thing a day with my diet...

I appreciate such kindness from other posters✨

I'm pissed off because I'm STARVING

Pigeon - I know it will be hard on you tonight but bloody well done!

Thoroughly unreasonable of me - at work in reception but an angry woman phoned asking for a number that we SHOULD have and I cannot see it so she was most annoyed. I think I put her through to the right place-never happy with those "What do you mean? You work in the hospital, you should have that number". I know we SHOULD have the number at our fingertips but it is amazing how many useful bloody numbers we haven't got!!!

I’m ill (only a cold) and bored and uncabr get in touch with my mum. I know where she is, she’s gone to see my brother who lives in the sticks. He’s literally just got back from living abroad for many years and his sticky-no phone reception-no internet house is not especially far from where DM lives. Quite reasonable for her to go over, except, I live at the other end of the country, I’m not well and I want my mum. Pah. He always was the favourite.

I’m 48 by the way. A very childish 48.

FUCKING RAGING, not just pissef off with arseholes at work, a customer at work who won’t fucking leave me alone and ex-Fwb!

Just FuCK FUCK FUCKETY fUUUUCK

I’m pissed off because I just want all the works being done at home finished. The more we do the more comes to light, and all I can see is a dirty, messy house that doesn’t feel like home and it’s stressing me big time - and poor old dp keeps getting it in the neck (but sometimes I do think It’s justified when I have to come home and he was oblivious to the filthy floor.......again )