What are you pissed off at RIGHT now?

[SunshineAngel]

I don't know if there's already something like this, or how I could check, but I thought it might be good to have a thread for some non-judged venting.

So..

In here you can tell us WHATEVER you're pissed off at WITHOUT risking judgement - because we won't judge in here, only offer sympathy!

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To start, I'm pissed off because we have just spent months and a lot of money getting the kitchen done, completely ripped out and started again including plastering, lights.. the lot.. and DDS has made himself some toast, buttered and cut it directly on the worktop (despite us owning 2 chopping boards and many, many plates, and us telling him countless times to use them) and left a beautiful big scratch on it from the knife. It's so obvious, you can see it from the other side of the room, he must have hacked at it really, really roughly.. and I'm unbelievably gutted. :(.

I'm pissed off because i dont feel well, so can't go out to teach tonight (luckily we have another teacher) and i flippin love my club & hate when i can't go but need to avoid making all the kids who go sick too.

Also, whilst not well i made a lush cottage pie and my DS8 who has always eaten it has decided he doesnt like it & refused to eat it.

I have applied for over 30 jobs since moving to the North West last month.

Not heard anything back.

I'm pissed off with my fucking injured brain once again making me behave irrationally over a simple question I was asked at work....luckily my lovely workmates are understanding, but still.

So, I'm 6 week post foot op, unable to weight bear on my left leg. Foot no longer really hurting but my shoulders are in agony from lugging myself around on crutches and zimmer frame. It hurts to put on my bra, I'm struggling to sit myself up and can't sleep properly as I normally lie on my arms to sleep but it feels like they are being wrenched out of the sockets if I do that so I just can't get comfy.
My children, age 5 and 7, are not listening anymore than usual, but pre op I could at least go and get their water bottles, find their books etc, now they are complaining they are being shouted at, but it wouldn't get to shouting if they did it by the 3rd, or even 5th time I asked!
I cant enjoy a cup of tea on the sofa unless someone brings me one, really should have got a flask!) While my mum, husband and occasionally MIL are helping they just dont do it quiet how I want, so I sit silently seething as if I say anything they might not do it at all.
I'm fed up of baths, great for relaxing, but I don't feel as clean as my shower which I cant use as although a stool would fit in the cubicle there wouldn't be enough space to keep my leg straight.
I have a new found respect for wheelchair users, pavements are bloody awful, full of potholes and on slopes for drop kerbs (which while useful to get on the path feels horrible leaving over if going straight along the path)
My mum is going on holiday on saturday for 2 weeks and knowing this my MIL who said they would help with school runs and getting the kids to their clubs have decided they need a holiday at exactly the same time. There are only so many friends I can call on for help almost have them either work or have kids at different schools.
Oh, and I found out today that my cousins gorgeous little girl has a brain tumour, she's only 6, and I keep crying and feeling bad that all that stuff above is pissing me off when my cousin must feel like her world is collapsing.

I'm back...and adding ex dh, solicitors, mortgage companies, my parents and yes you BF are still on the list

I'm pissed off because it's taken me 45 years of life to finally learn how to respect myself and my boundaries.

I'm pissed off - generally - with being a giving person, being married to a selfish twat.

I'm pissed off because DSS seems to be having a horrific week of doing stupid things..

• Scratched the brand new kitchen work surface as mentioned in the OP
• Tried to heat a pot noodle in the microwave with foil and no water.. I mean wtf, that's not even how they work! Plus he should have been in bed and had to come and wake us up saying the microwave was on fire (it wasn't, it was just sparking, but now isn't working)

-Managed to knock my puzzle over that's taken me ages

• Put his white shirts in the wash (major breakthrough - he never does this) with a red ballpoint pen in the pocket, which leaked, so now he has pink shirts
• Washed his rugby boots in the kitchen sink (we have two excellent outdoor taps to choose from) with a draining board full of freshly clean dishes (done by me) and splashed them all/the window/the tiles with mud, and then just left it.

It feels like for some reason this week he can't just be a normal human being and function without mishap! There's no point in me even nagging him for these things, because they're just ridiculous things I wouldn't even think to mention!