What are you pissed off at RIGHT now?

[SunshineAngel]

I don't know if there's already something like this, or how I could check, but I thought it might be good to have a thread for some non-judged venting.

So..

In here you can tell us WHATEVER you're pissed off at WITHOUT risking judgement - because we won't judge in here, only offer sympathy!

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To start, I'm pissed off because we have just spent months and a lot of money getting the kitchen done, completely ripped out and started again including plastering, lights.. the lot.. and DDS has made himself some toast, buttered and cut it directly on the worktop (despite us owning 2 chopping boards and many, many plates, and us telling him countless times to use them) and left a beautiful big scratch on it from the knife. It's so obvious, you can see it from the other side of the room, he must have hacked at it really, really roughly.. and I'm unbelievably gutted. :(.

cars, not cards obv

I'm pissed off I have no friends.

I entered a works talent show by myself, learnt a nee instrument, a complicated song and brought props.

A choir came on and sang a medley of hits from a film and, of course, had all their family and friends in the audience to vote for them.

I had no one to join up with and no one to vote for me.

I did a bloody good turn and wasn't even ranked. ☹

I’m pissed off because I’m on nightshift and ARSEHOLES!

pissed off with my ex. He's refusing to pay for anything for our baby, due in March. I know it's early but he thinks if he pays half towards things I buy, I'll spend it on myself. I have my own money for that

My cold that has come out of leftfield. I have been on leave for the last couple of weeks and due back on Monday. I am dreading going back, really hate it there, it's toxic and damaging, and it's like my body is reacting to that. My immune system seems to dive when I am stressed even if superficially I seem like I am coping. Can't sleep due to coughing and anxiety.

@JudgeRindersMinder

I’m pissed off because I’m on nightshift and ARSEHOLES!

Pretty much me too tonight! You have my sympathy. I do know what you do, but working with the general public is making me think bad thoughts. A lot. I'm having a smoke break that I've already tried to give up about a million times but I'm a bit worried if I give up smoking again I'll replace it with murdering! 😁
Hope your shift gets better!

*don't know what you do.

I'm pissed off now at autocorrect too!

I'm pissed off because I too am on nights and I'm sat looking at drunks spewing in the hedge.

Because DH, who promised he would be home by 11.30, actually came in at 2am.

Because I am pregnant and I can smell EVERYTHING, and i feel like the whole house smells of kebab and can't get back to sleep

Because I am meant to be going out myself tomorrow (today!) with some people from work, but because of aforementioned pregnancy (not 12 weeks yet) I need to feign illness, as there is no other way to avoid drinking. I don't like lying to people.

I'm pissed off because I can't sleep and it's 3.26 am

I’m pissed off because the owls woke me up hooting outside my window and now I can’t get back to sleep.

I’m worried about something at work which woke me up. Now I’m awake all I can smell are the burgers DH burned earlier. So I’m lying in the dark, looking at my phone and he just woke up, moaned at me and fell straight back to sleep. So now I’m worried and pissed off.

Support to all !
I’m pissed off that I’ve been awake for no real reason since 2.30 and it’s now looking as though I may as well get up !

I’m pissed off because I woke up earlier having an episode of acid reflux that has gone into my lung meaning I sound like a 90 a day smoker, am wheezy and coughing up green phlegm. This means I’ve got a chest infection in the making and can’t do anything about it till Monday morning as there’s no walk in centres locally, A&E is a 3 hour round trip away by public transport and I’ve got 4 week old twins who I’d have to take with me as I’m breast feeding so can’t leave them at home while I go to get seen. Oh, and because I had said twins by c section, I can’t drive to get myself seen anywhere hence the 3 hour round trip public transport option!

remember that is crap. Support.

@Rememberallball get well soon.

I'm pissed off that my insomnia is awful too (pp).
Also that I spent yesterday evening with ex h trying to convince our two dd's that they should give his girlfriend (my ex best friend who is in fact a hideous human being and whose actions nearly drove me to a nervous breakdown), a chance and not to be arsey with her. He was putting them under immense pressure to hang out with her, they felt like it would upset me and didn't want to -and both of them are in bits as they feel stuck in the middle.So something had to be said to try and make it easier for them and (true to form) that wasn't going to come from him.

I wish both him and his bloody girlfriend would bloody get in the sea tbh, my poor DD's.

Remember can your husband drive you to hospital and take the twins with you? I think you need to be seen.

I'm pissed off that I have to go to work at this time, I would much rather be sleeping.

Pissed off that it's our last day in Mallorca and it's raining.

@Reindeerssmellbetter, unfortunately DH doesn’t drive (could never learn due to poor eyesight) which caused fun and games getting to and from hospital for the c section - I was admitted from a growth scan appointment due to reduced doppler glows and poor growth over a 6 week period. We had to drive home then get a taxi back to the hospital to be admitted as consultant didn’t want me getting the bus as that would take too long. A round trip to A&E by taxi would cost upwards of £80!!

@Gingernaut that’s bloody impressive to learn a new instrument! How long did it take you?

Also sending un-mumsnetty hugs

I'm pissed off that despites leaving my abusive controling ex he is still dictating my life

I'm pissed off with myself because I've over-trained recently when I should have rested and now my hamstring/glute hurts a lot and I have a race in 2 weeks. Obviously, my strategy to resolve this is to eat shit food, drink wine, and generally be crabby with everyone. Meaning that if I do manage to race I'll be unfit, gained a few pounds, and have no one there to cheer me on!

I'm also pissed of with Dh- I gave up work to be a sahm 4 years ago, until Ds went to school. He's now just started nursery and Dh is rather clunkily applying pressure to start looking for work and I feel like the goalposts have been moved without my agreement. I left my previous work on a settlement agreement with a lot of hassle and grief, and I feel very apprehensive about returning to work so to have this dropped on me without warning is a bit scary.

Women who defend and excuse and enable rapists. The shitty way our society treats rape survivors.

Benefit bashing dick-for-brains smugness.
The dog, who hid a chicken foot in my handbag.
The baby has learnt to throw food.
My slipped bastarding disc and sciatica.