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Have you ever noticed a blip in the matrix?

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BethanyGilbert · 27/08/2019 11:51

When I was at university we were driving through and unfamiliar part of town. We noticed a school child running and then when he stopped another child further along the road started. This then happened again with a third child. They were in school uniforms, not sports kits and they didn’t seem to interact with each other. My friend noticed it too and at the time we couldn’t stop laughing. Has anyone else got any stories similar? Blips in the matrix.

I do know on MN story about someone seeing their older selves and then their younger selves outside their childhood home!

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Fedup2016 · 01/09/2019 01:30

Weirdest thing happened to me in 1996. A friend was going to buy a golf cabriolet in Gloucester, he and and another friend, both called Paul picked me up. We drove to Gloucester on the M5, did the deal and proceeded back on the M5 back to Bath. After a few miles we broke down. Me and the driver called Paul, left on foot to get petrol. We crossed a railway track and eventually found a petrol station, whilst he was filling up a Gerry can, I read the local horoscope page, it said under my star sign, trust your intuition, it will serve you well. Paul also called a mechanic friend who agreed to come and find us with another friend. We crossed the tracks, I said let's go around, Paul said that will take ages, I proceeded back over the fence, he reluctant joined me, just after a 125 intercity train shot by and missed us by seconds. Weird, but the true story gets much weirder. We got back to the car and the other Paul (we'll call him skinny from now on).
The petrol isn't the problem, I noticed a sign saying Services was a few miles away. I leave Pail and skinny in the golf cabriolet. After around 10 mins and a few miles the police pull me over a couple of miles away and tell me I can't run down the hard shoulder. I think I see our two friends from Bath passing me. I turn around and head back to the stricken Golf, a few hours later, it's dark, can't find the car, figure my friends have fixed it and are waiting for me at the services. I call the police they pick me up and there is the golf and skinny and my two friends from Bath. I ask him where is Paul, he left 5 mins after you. How did you move the car? I didn't, the car is shot, a piston has broken through the head block, said our mechanic friend, he was sold a dud, I don't understand how I didn't see Paul, I should have seen him we were walking towards each other on a thin strip of hard shoulder, How did I walk through the golf (as it's not moved?) And your car? And what's happened in the last 3 hrs? Eventually the police (who couldn't explain it) arranged a recovery truck took the car to the services. We found an angry Paul, where have you been? I said I have no idea how we passed each other, how I walked through a Golf and our friends car and where 3hrs have gone. To this day none of us can explain it? I was literally passed the only thing I was looking for, 3hrs passed that took me ten minutes to leave and 3 hrs to find it and I end up beyond it! Was I abducted? Did I slip through a portal? You have to understand there were 3 guys in two cars parked up on hard shoulder I somehow walked through both cars and 3 guys and we didn't see each other, the cars were about 4/5ft wide the hard shoulder was around 6 feet wide, which for common sense reasons I walked pretty much straight down the middle, and some how through solid objects at around 4pm with out being seen!

ellyeth · 01/09/2019 01:40

I keep a diary and have done so for many years. When I look back at my old diaries, there are sometimes events that have happened that I don't recall at all - such as watching a film. I think people's consious memories are necessarily selective (though it's difficult to understand why some fairly inconsequential events stay in the memory whilst other more significant ones are forgotten.

I suppose this could explain, in some instances, why people believe they haven't seen or done something or been somewhere, when, in fact they have but they have forgotten it.

I expect everybody has had the experience of thinking about someone and then they ring, and some people see this as a sort of psychic phenomena. However, I think we need to consider whether there are many times when we think of a particular person but they don't ring.

Still, I think there are definitely some things which are difficult to find a rational explanation for.

Fedup2016 · 01/09/2019 01:41

Fedup2016

Weirdest thing happened to me in 1996. A friend was going to buy a golf cabriolet in Gloucester, he and and another friend, both called Paul picked me up. We drove to Gloucester on the M5, did the deal and proceeded back on the M5 back to Bath. After a few miles we broke down. Me and the driver called Paul, left on foot to get petrol. We crossed a railway track, which is stupid We eventually found a petrol station, whilst he was filling up a Gerry can, I read the local horoscope page, it said under my star sign, trust your intuition, it will serve you well. Paul also called a mechanic friend who agreed to come and find us with another friend. We crossed the tracks, I said let's go around, Paul said that will take ages, I proceeded back over the fence, he reluctant joined me, just after a 125 intercity train shot by and missed us by seconds. Weird, but the true story gets much weirder.

We got back to the car and the other Paul (we'll call him skinny from now on).
The petrol isn't the problem, I noticed a sign saying Services was a few miles away. I leave Paul and skinny in the golf cabriolet.

After around 10 mins and a few miles the police pull me over a couple of miles away and tell me I can't run down the hard shoulder and to go back to the car. I think I see our two friends from Bath passing me in an opposite direction, in their distinctive car. I turn around and head back to the stricken Golf, a few hours later, it's dark, can't find the car, figure my friends have fixed it and are waiting for me at the services. I eventually call the police, they pick me up and there is the Golf and skinny, and my two friends from Bath, with their distinctive car.

I ask him where is Paul! Skinny says he left 5 mins after you. How did you move the car? I didn't, the car is shot, a piston has broken through the head block, said our mechanic friend, he was sold a dud, I don't understand how I didn't see Paul? I should have seen him, we were walking towards each other on a thin strip of hard shoulder!? And how did I walk through the golf (as it's not moved?) And your car? And what's happened in the last 3 hrs? Eventually the police (who couldn't explain it) arranged a recovery truck took the Golf to the services. We found Paul, where have you been? I said I have no idea how we passed each other, how I walked through a Golf and our friends car and where 3hrs have gone. To this day none of us can explain it? I literally passed the only thing I was looking for, 3hrs passed that took me ten minutes to leave and 3 hrs to find it and I end up beyond it! Was I abducted? Did I slip through a portal? You have to understand there were 3 guys in two cars parked up on hard shoulder I somehow walked through both cars and 3 guys and we didn't see each other, the cars were about 4/5ft wide, the hard shoulder was around 6 feet wide, which for common sense reasons I walked pretty much straight down the middle, and some how through solid objects at around 4pm with out being seen!!

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Megansmumsie · 01/09/2019 01:42

Oh boy does this thread open up a can of worms for me. I don't even know where to start. I have several experiences to offer and having read this thread feel like the Matrix is toying with more people than others. I'm obviously in the others category.

When i was younger we used to live next door to a bedsit and my Dad put up sound proofing so that we couldn't hear the people next door. It didn't matter though because the weird noises were actually coming from our house. I used to get woken up every night at around 1 am by the sound of heavy breathing on my bed, it was raspy and genuinely terrifying. I remember the first time i heard it- it was actually the day time and i swore it was my brother trying to scare me but alas he was actually downstairs.

The breathing happened every time my bed was in a certain position in the room and went on for years. We had a whole bunch of neighbours next door- some never staying long so no one was there long enough to make the noise and my Dad had sound proofed pretty well.

Eventually, i hit 16 and this breathing had woken me up every night or started while i was still awake for years. I could feel something sitting on my bed and i was so terrified i couldn't do anything about it. My parents knew, my brothers too but no one could work out what is was. Anyway so i hit 16 and this breathing started right on clock work, i was so tired and so pissed off that i shouted at it to go away, to leave me alone and that it wasn't allowed in my room. In the next 2 years i lived in that room i never heard it again.

There was something in the room though as i, on more than one occasion saw a black bird flying around the room- there was none. I saw the reflection of someone sitting on my bed behind me and when i turned around no one was there. And then the shadow. Oh the shadow. He used to be at the bottom of my bed. He's be there all night.

To be honest, because i heard the odd weird thing said in there and around the house- children playing outside my old nursery, two children in the bathroom saying 'shall we tell her?' and the other replying 'no, she's not ready'. I thought for sure that i had mental issues BUT i wasn't the only one that heard them or saw the shadow man.

My i met my husband he used to stop over in the room with me, we met at uni and before we moved in together we used to sleep at his parents sometimes and my parents others. He saw the shadow at the bottom of my bed and would often ask what it was- i had no answer to give but appreciated someone else seeing it.

My brother came back from Bournemouth a few years ago and my Dad put him up in my old room, he saw him too and to this day will not tell me what happened during the night. If i ask, he starts to well up. I leave it alone.

My eldest brother used to have a bedroom in the loft, he watched a shadow come up the stairs and 'walk' into the hatch leading to the rest of the loft. He saw this a few times. My younger brother later had this room and said it came into his room and he got up and faced off to it until it went back downstairs.

But enough about the shadow man.

My Dad seems to be the only one who hasn't experienced anything in that house. My Mum though, yikes. She was pregnant before my baby brother and saw a Victorian Nun at the bottom of the bed.

I was terrified of my parents room well before that. I used to think a 'flat' lady lived behind their wardrobe and if i took too long coming down the stairs she would take me away. I used to jump down the stairs, i got so good at it i could do it in one. My brother and i used to compete at doing it to see who could escape her the quickest and we both swear on more than one occasion i flew down the stairs rather than jumped.

I used to have dream that the 'flat' woman would come down the stairs and pretend to by my mum and try and take me to school... upstairs and my real mum would just let her and i'd scream and cry until i woke up.

The dreams always really scared me as i've always had dreams that have later come to pass. When i was 5- before my mother was pregnant with my brother i dreamt that she had given birth and named the boy James. The name had never been mentioned in our house and when my mother did give birth sometime later she called the baby this name. I remember my Dad lifting me up to see the baby in the incubator and i 'knew' his name was James. This later happened as i remembered it and as my Dad lifted me up, my Mum told me the baby's name.

I dreamt about a tsunami before it happened, having my daughter etc. I often think about a certain episode of a programme and it will show that day even if it wasn't in sequence or i hadn't been watching the show. I often get a song stuck in my head and then i suddenly hear it every where.

When we moved into our house, we used to have a void. Anything left on the table in the corner of the room would end up at the bottom of our bed. By this i mean we had a pile of crap down there (because we'd not long moved) and whatever was missing was always at the bottom of the pile. Sunglasses, appointment cards etc. For reference none of us sleepwalk or anything like that. You would put it down and the next minute it would be gone but at least you knew where to look for it. We also didn't have any pets.

When my daughter was new to her own room- about a year old, it was her first night in there and like any paranoid mum i went and check on her about every five minutes. Every time i went up there i'd get so far up and i'd hear someone singing to her. I'd go into the room and there was no one there. After going up and down a few times and hearing the singing every time, i got to the top step and heard whoever it was tut and then there was no singing any more. We DID NOT have a baby monitor.

When my Nan died my Mum's reflection in the TV looked like my Nan- they do not look alike and i burst into tears. When i got home that night my Nan's 'face' appeared on a towel in the bathroom. I took a picture and sent it to all my family, they all saw it too. As did my husband and his family. I didn't move those towels for a month until she faded away. The same thing weirdly happened with my uncle, when he passed away his face appeared on the bathroom wall in a water spot and everyone saw it too. He faded much quicker though.

After my Nan died there was one night where we all felt a weird presence- my husband heard someone who sounded like her calming our daughter but was too scared to turn around, my Grandad said my Nan's favourite mug fell and shattered in the kitchen, my brother said he saw her in his room. It was very weird.

When my daughter was small but old enough to remember she said she was trying to wake me up in bed but she couldn't wake me. She said after she called my name i appeared at the bottom of the bed to her but was the wrong colours, she said i looked faded. She wasn't scared by this other me though and when i woke up the other me disappeared and looked like it went into me. I told her i could hear her but i was just so tired i couldn't wake up yet. To this day she still remembers it so clearly and describes it exactly as she did back then.

My daughter and i were waiting in the doctors and a man walked in. He sent a shock wave of bad energy my way, so much so that i couldn't look at him again. Instead i looked at my daughter and she was looking down at the ground and appeared sad. I asked her what was wrong and she looked straight into my eyes and said quietly ;i don't like that man'. She also still remembers this with great accuracy. He gave us both a weird dark, heavy feeling.

When i was younger i would turn all my lights off, my tv off, my stereo off and when i would come back, they would all be back on but static-y tv/radio. Nobody was messing with me as they were often downstairs.

Oh god there's just so much but i feel like i've written for ever and everyone's going to get bored of my incredibly long post!!

managedmis · 01/09/2019 02:20

Why are there all these naysayers on here blabbering away?

If you don't believe it, fine. We don't give a shit, why do you?

managedmis · 01/09/2019 02:20

Please write more, Megansmumsie, I love it!

Jesaminecollins · 01/09/2019 02:38

A few years ago the telephone rang and it was my best friend and before she could speak I said "Jon's had a car accident but he is alright" She said "How did you know that?" It was if a message flashed up in my mind - this has happened to me a few times in my life but it is very random and I never know when it is going to happen. I wish the winning lottery numbers would flash up in my mind Grin

DreamTheMoors · 01/09/2019 03:34

So I’m in America but the North York Moors have been pulling me - almost calling to me or like a magnet. I feel this very strong, well, pull. I just now read about my oldest known relative - my 9th or 10th great grandfather.
He owned land NEAR THIRSK IN NORTH YORKSHIRE in 1554 !!!
I am freaking out!

strong80 · 01/09/2019 03:47

not me - but my mum will often announce she’s away to call someone- from my brother to one of her many aunties- and as soon as she says this the phone will ring and it’s said person?!

Starstruck2020 · 01/09/2019 05:22

Not sure if this counts. On Friday night DD and I were watching a movie waiting for our uber eats order. In the movie a doorbell rang... at EXACTLY the same time the food delivery man rang ours.... was quite spooky and made DD jump off her seat!

thepyjamagame · 01/09/2019 05:55

Wow. This was my favourite story.

Are you sure they weren't filming Ashes To Ashes in your part of town?! (Sorry, just kidding.)

What I wouldn't give to take a trip back to that time period, perhaps in that famous Audi Quattro from the series!

What strikes me from this thread is how many accounts there are.

bumblingbovine49 · 01/09/2019 07:26

Apart from short mild sensations of deja vu as a child ( with no associated physical sensations), the only thing only slightly like this that has ever happened to me was similar to the one upthread where a car playing a song passed and the person had a good feeling

Just after passingy driving test I.was driving in the city I used to live in and all of a sudden the road and people and shops all seemed brighter and more vivid and I had an absolute certainty that everything was connected, and I.felt a moment of absolute joy and beauty. I can't say it changed my life or anything but I still remember it vividly nearly 40 years later.

The dopleganger ones don't seem that strange. It seems quite likely that in a world where billions of people live that some will look very alike even if not related. Obviously it isn't common but I wouldn't call it woo, just a coincidence if you see or hear about one.

I do find the one where people "know" to avoid an event quite fascinating though.

beingmum39 · 01/09/2019 08:17

When I was young I had a very small bedroom in a terraced house, room for a bed, chest of draws , shelf and wardrobe. One night I was laying facing the wall and I felt a sensation of being watched. I turned around and in the dark I could see a pair of arms and hands stretched out and pointing towards me. I didn't feel scared , in fact I felt quite calm. I watched them hover and then they waved over me and disappeared into the darkness of the room.

beingmum39 · 01/09/2019 08:20

I also could see the bathroom down the end of the hall from my room and my mum always left the door open during the night. I used to watch that bathroom change like it was going through different era's as I tried to get to sleep. That scared me because I felt that I wasn't in out house anymore and that if I had got up and looked into my parents room I wouldn't have found my mum and dad but an entirely different set of people

biggirlknickers · 01/09/2019 08:47

I have one. I put this down to coincidence and my imagination these days but here goes:

I was about 13 or 14 and walking home from my music lesson in twilight along the road we lived on. The road was completely empty - no cars or other pedestrians - which seems odd as it must have been about 5pm on a weekday and this was an A road and a main artery road through our town.

I had a random thought that nothing tragic or terrible had ever happened on this road as far as I knew and that maybe something was going to happen soon. Then I saw in my mind’s eye a car coming around the bend at the far end of my view along the road, towards me. The car didn’t look quite real - it was too bright for the twilight light. It was also completely silent. As it approached me it vanished, near a bus stop.

I thought at the time it was my imagination, kicked off by my weird thought about tragedies. I mentioned it to my sister I think.

The next day I got home from school and heard that a car, that morning, at around 11am, had lost control and crashed, killing a woman who had been waiting at the bus stop. Sad

Very weird and horrible. I’ve never had anything else like this before or since.

beingmum39 · 01/09/2019 08:48

My last story is a sad one...

I had a dream one night that I was stood at a train station watching the news on a big screen across on the other platform. The news reporter was telling the story of a fatal car crash that ended the lives of 2 teenagers. It then cut to a clip of the crash but it showed the car going over and I could see the look of horror on the faces of two of the passengers though I didn't recognise them. I remember waking up feeling very scared and got up and knocked on my sister's door. She grunted " what " as early hours of morning. " I said I had a bad dream, I opened her door and looked at her in bed and with her eyes closed she said " it was just a dream go back to sleep.

In the morning she asked me about the dream and I told her and she could see I was upset. I couldn't get the image out of my head and it played over all day like a silent movie and every time it was the image of the horror on their faces.

Just over a month later my sister was killed in a car crash , she was with 3 other people and the driver died but the other 2 survived. I look back now and wonder if that dream had tried to be a warning and should I have realised. Sad

BoredMouse · 01/09/2019 09:00

When I was on holiday in the USA, a woman approached me in a hotel and asked for $10 as her bag had been lost at the airport. I declined as had no money with me. 4 years later, I was in the same place in the USA but a different hotel when the same woman again approached me with the same story. I remember being annoyed at this, but still an odd thing to happen. I suppose it can be explained. She was probably a con artist who was very good at getting money off people who were on their way home and wouldn't mind helping her out. Still, it was an odd coincidence

duffyluth · 01/09/2019 09:01

I think some posters are exercising their creative writing skills....

Indeed.

I think the best was the really common all over the internet picture that comtesse claimed as their own Grin

My story...

I read a thread on a forum today once where a person posted a picture and said it was taken on their train. I did a reverse image search to find HUNDREDS of that very same image Grin

Come on folks, let's keep it real?

Moomin8 · 01/09/2019 09:07

I agree @duffyluth I was disappointed to see that the Piccadilly Circus story was also lifted 🙄

desperatehousewife21 · 01/09/2019 09:29

beingmum that’s sad Sad sorry to hear about your sister.

Moomin8 · 01/09/2019 09:39

@beingmum39 the trouble with premonitions is that it's often not clear what they mean until after they happen :( how sad 😢 my daughter has had premonitions of several terrorist attacks. With variable lengths of time before they actually happened. She couldn't possibly have known what they would come to mean Thanks

BearSoFair · 01/09/2019 09:43

DH's Nan used to make the same journey by train every Saturday, like clockwork. A few months after she died we were travelling on that line at the time that she would have travelled. DH suddenly nudged me and nodded towards a lady at the end of the carriage, the spitting image of his Nan. We thought it was weird but not that freaky, until the train got to her 'home' station and she got off and disappeared the moment she was on the platform. It wasn't a busy day so it wasn't like she blended into the crowd, she literally just vanished. Even typing it out has given me goosebumps!

Oliversmumsarmy · 01/09/2019 09:55

We have stuff disappear almost weekly. Once DP and i were sat on the sofa, I was on my phone and DP was reading the newspaper.

DP got up to get us coffees and left his fully charged mobile on the arm of the sofa.

I remember seeing it there when he had got up.

A few minutes later DP returns with the coffee and asks if I had his phone.

I tell him it is on the arm of the sofa.

It isn't.

I thought it might have slipped off onto the floor. We looked everywhere but the phone was nowhere to be found. Just to be clear our living room contains our sofa, a sideboard and a TV. We have wooden flooring and not a rug picture or an ornament in sight. We looked down the back of the sofa and upturned it. We searched the kitchen and anywhere dp had walked but it was nowhere to be seen.

Dp ended up getting a new phone.

About 3 years later I come into the living room in the morning and there is dps missing phone on the floor in exactly the position it would have been if it had fell off the arm of the sofa. What was even weirder. It was still fully charged.

We think this sofa is a portal to a parallel universe. There has been so much that has gone missing and not just small things. We have lost a suitcase that we had left on the sofa whilst I was unpacking. I left it to go and put some stuff away and when I returned it was gone.

The latest is a big A4 sized envelope with a letter and a cheque inside. It was there when we went out. and now it is gone.

bobstersmum · 01/09/2019 10:02

@oliversmumsarmy Wow!

StormBaby · 01/09/2019 10:29

I had constant recurring dreams about being in a house from the age of 7 up until I was 14, when they just suddenly stopped. The garden backed on to a field that had a river lined with poplar trees that ran through it. The dreams had an ethereal, calming feeling to them.
When my marriage ended 8 years ago I decided to move to a town about 20 mins away, found a property to rent on gumtree of all places, and the minute I went inside I knew it was the house in the dreams and that I absolutely had to live there. I sobbed all the way back as I was a few hundred short of the deposit and I knew it was supposed to be my home. My lovely friends all chipped in and I managed to rent it.

A few weeks later after moving in it dawned on me, my only DD was 7, I think I had been seeing it through her future yet-to-be-conceived eyes.

Even weirder, last year my DD decided she wanted to live with her dad. No reason, no arguments, she just did. She was 14 when she left this house.