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Senior “career” women - what did you do/how did you do it?

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2yearoldbattler · 22/07/2019 21:29

Looking for experiences of both mothers who are in the thick of it and those whose babies are long grown up.

Am a very senior exec, currently on mat leave from a COO role in a very high growth, high profile business with my second baby. Have fun a number of mediums big (£500m+) businesses in the past as either CEO or divisional MD. Will be back to work in a couple of weeks. Also sit on 2 boards, one a charity non profit, the other a FTSE 100 coy.

My husband is also a career person (professional services) and we are having some discussions at the moment about how we make our lives work. Tbh the period in between me returning from mat leave with no 1 and leaving on mat leave with number 2 was not a success - we felt so stretched and it was primarily our relationship with each other that suffered.

So, what did you do and how did you do it? Both stayed full time and ground through it? One dropped to part time? How much help did you have? Would love to hear what worked and didn’t.

Have NCed so only have one post under this name, but am a longtime MNer - defo not a journalist. I just don’t have that many friends who are operating like I do (that sounds arrogant and wanky, but you know what I mean) to be able to have a wide pool of experiences.

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soberfabulous · 16/10/2019 16:38

What a great thread and thanks to all the inspiring women who are working and juggling and killing it!

I'm a senior consultant in my field. Used to work for a corporate and five years set up on my own so I could have a bit more flexibility. DD is 6.

We've had a nanny since she was a baby and she is the most wonderful human being. She has DD after school and also helps with cooking and housework.

I love my job and I'm good at it. Men are never questioned about their careers or subject to the same scrutiny as women. Threads like this are fantastic.

soberfabulous · 16/10/2019 16:44

Oh and I've had to sacrifice exercise.

2yearoldbattler · 11/12/2019 18:24

Hi all - coming back to this thread as have now been back at work for a few months. It’s going...ok. Feel really stretched. Exercise has fallen by the wayside. Have not done a scrap of personal admin for months (tax return and health insurance claims are two of the more daunting tasks). Kids have been sick for the last few days and my eyes are out on stalks I’m so so tired. My oldest continues to be extremely
challenging in terms of tantrums.

BUT am happy to be back. Kids are happy. Feel like I haven’t seen my husband for ages so need to work on that.

There are no easy answers!

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stealthbanana · 24/02/2020 20:52

Hi @2yearoldbattler how is it all going? This thread caught my eye - I’ve been back at work after mat leave no 2 for 6 months or so and it’s...full on. FT job, husband also very full time blah blah. Your reference to tax return made me laugh as I have just had to call my accountant to tell her she needs to refile my return for this year as I completely forgot I did some independent paid (board consultancy type) work in feb last year in a post c section haze

Hoping it’s all going ok!

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