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anyone else looking forwa rd to autumn?

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CoffeeBeam · 19/07/2019 08:08

I'm done with summer. Im looking forward to nice boots, psl, and crisper air.

Anyone else with me?!

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Miljah · 19/07/2019 23:09

I love summer, apart from clothing decisions, given that I am overweight. I've settled on mid thigh tunics and just below the knee leggings! 😊

I am really, really trying to conjure up reliable memories of bright, cool, crisp autumn mornings, of wood smoke, bejewelled cobwebs, turning leaves - and maybe old spinsters cycling to Evensong; but nope.

Much of autumn, in even southern Hampshire is grey. Grey marching skies, damp air, wind; drizzle. The odd day as described above is a rare jewel, yes, to be treasured, but surely not to define a season?

I am a gardener, and, as such, I sense the changing of the year, a feel, a smell in the air as Sylvia Plath's green fuse is lit. I watch the urgency of my garden fight its way to life, abundance and fecundity. Then, even, sometimes in late August, certainly by late Sept, the melancholy air of decay, death, passing seeps over the land. The massive low pressure systems, the rain depressions mass in the Atlantic, the reducing of us to a small island nation huddling and hunkering down against the wet, the rain, the wind, the grey of winter overcoming us.

My north Devonian mother used to describe it like 'living under a damp rock'.

Give me Central European weather, any time. Hot, dry, reliable, blue-skied summers; cold, snowy, dry, still, blue-skied winters.

sweetkitty · 19/07/2019 23:15

Oh no go away the lot of you, I adore July as I never have to work any of it Grin

I love the lovely light nights but as I’m in Scotland don’t get weeks of heat

HeadintheiClouds · 19/07/2019 23:17

If you’re in Scotland you don’t get a vote, you need to have experienced the full trauma of a muggy London summer to fully understand why summer sucks.

jessicawessica · 19/07/2019 23:23

Cannot wait for Autumn. Hate summer in this country as it's just too muggy and sweaty, not pleasant dry heat.

BernardsarenotalwaysSaints · 19/07/2019 23:24

Not quite yet, when the children have been back at school for a week or two I will be. Then around mid November I’ll start looking forward to Winter. About mid Feb just after dc3’s birthday I start longing forward Spring, which is my favourite of the 4 seasons. I don’t wish away Spring &, as I said, I enjoy Summer fully too.

Miljah · 19/07/2019 23:26

Actually, upon further reflection, I wonder whether English people- I can't speak for any others!- dislike summer because we do it wrong.

I am endlessly surprised at meeting friends at 2pm in a beer garden, sitting out in the full sun, no hope of shade, burning and sweating by choice; people stretched out rolling up every inch of clothing, on a rug in the middle of a London park, their accompanying work colleague obviously hating it. The school run mums in shoulder-less tops, toddlers sweating in strollers. The surprise when the sun block is offered around a mere hour after the last application. The sunburn at work on Monday.

Mad dogs and Englishmen?

I love, love, love the sun blazing down from a cloudless heaven. But I never sit out in it. I sit in the shade and look at it. I close the windows and blinds of the house when the sun shines on that side, swapping to the other side of the house as the sun travels over. Between 12-2, if I'm home, I stay indoors. Visit any Spanish hill village between 12-4 and it's like the Marie Celeste. Tho madly busy and noisy at 11pm!

Anyway, thank you to all the Autumn lovers who have put their point of view! And rest assured, this being England, and given that the kids have just broken up- statistically you can pull out your tights and waterfall cardies in a fortnight or so 😉

sweetkitty · 19/07/2019 23:46

@HeadintheiClouds this is true Grin I did live in Central London for 5 years and the SE for 5 years I remember phoning home and complaining about it being hot (maybe 30s and someone saying it’s hot here too early 20s) no comparison.

A good Summers day here is about 22-23 and oh a week without rain is bliss.

Constance1234 · 19/07/2019 23:50

I am looking forward to autumn too. I love the feeling of nature slowing down, and it feels like there is a magical crackle in the air. This may be a romanticised view of autumn but I look forward to it every year :)

ExpletiveDelighted · 20/07/2019 07:17

See that's one of the things I find annoying Miljah. I don't want to spend the middle of the day hiding indoors, opening and shutting blinds, searching for shade, what a faff, but it's what I end up having to do because I hate being out in blazing sun.

SnuggyBuggy · 20/07/2019 07:20

That, I'm just grateful I don't have to go anywhere during the hot days next week. I will be making sure I have food in the house a3staying indoors.

Nuttyaboutnutella · 20/07/2019 07:32

I love Autumn! It's my favourite season. I love waking up to a big bowl of porridge then soup for lunch. I'm obsessed with soup!! You also don't get the long, dark mornings with winter. I love the crisp, clear days and colours on the trees.

Though, mostly I just love the food Grin
Different varieties of squash
Porridge
Soup
Crumble
Cottage pie
Etc

GeriAtric · 20/07/2019 08:41

I love Autumn though I hate the massive spiders that come out at the beginning. Our house gets overrun with them.

TapasForTwo · 20/07/2019 08:48

And I prefer light meals with loads of salad and grilled vegetables.

I really think that threads like this should be split into London summers and summer for the rest of us. The hot, muggy days described on here very rarely occur where I live. We are two thirds of the way through July, and we have had a very wet and cool June, just one day of 28 degrees and a couple of weeks of temperatures hovering between the high teens and low 20s. Not exactly hot and sweaty weather. I have summer dresses that I haven't worn yet this year.

Oh, and my office has arctic aircon that gets ramped up too high in nice weather so I end up having to wrap up in thick willies and socks for work Sad

TapasForTwo · 20/07/2019 08:49

Flipping autocorrect!
Woollies

FreedomFidgit · 20/07/2019 08:49

I love Autumn too - I pencil in a day trip to Loch Lomond at the start of November, and the first clear, bright November day we get am off to look at the beautiful colours and reflections and generally in my happy place!

Normally I love the long days, but am in Scotland, and this year am finding the daylight in the middle of the night exceptionally annoying!

BibbleBrain · 20/07/2019 09:45

Oh @TapasForTwo - that did make me laugh! Thank you to your autocorrect!

TapasForTwo · 20/07/2019 13:41
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longearedbat · 20/07/2019 14:10

I love all the seasons, but only if the weather plays the game, so, sunny in summer, snowy and frosty in winter. Didn't see a single flake of snow last winter (West country). I like autumn because there is a sense of getting ready for winter with ordering in the logs and making crab apple jelly and chutneys from windfalls. Blackberry and apple pies etc. It's when I finally give up trying to lose those few pounds that have been reluctantly on show during warmer weather, and gratefully cover up with baggy fleeces and sink into the sofa in front of the fire with a cup of hot chocolate.

Confusedandworried321 · 21/07/2019 10:48

Yes I do love autumn! I'm another who always thinks of new stationery in September.

This summer has been great though, not too hot so far (next week is going to reach 30 though which is definitely too hot). Now that I've got young DC I prefer early 20's, maximum 25, as I get sweaty rushing round with them and rarely get the chance to sit down and enjoy the sun.

Confusedandworried321 · 21/07/2019 10:48

Yes I do love autumn! I'm another who always thinks of new stationery in September.

This summer has been great though, not too hot so far (next week is going to reach 30 though which is definitely too hot). Now that I've got young DC I prefer early 20's, maximum 25, as I get sweaty rushing round with them and rarely get the chance to sit down and enjoy the sun.

cushioncovers · 21/07/2019 10:54

I love the thought of a long hot summer but in reality I just get migraines and chub rub.

ilovesooty · 21/07/2019 12:41

No. I hate autumn and winter.

It would be nice if we had more than a few days of summer as well.

BarbedBloom · 21/07/2019 13:14

I hate summer, can't wait for autumn!

Delatron · 21/07/2019 13:36

No! It’s damp and depressing with only the promise of a long winter ahead before it finally warms up sometime in May/June. It’s the endless dark evenings and months of cold ahead that is depressing. Halloween is shit too.

We’ve had an ok summer so far down south. It’s not been too hot (though I like the heat). If it carries on like this I’ll be happy and not so grumpy come Autumn. Far worse when you have a rubbish summer and then straight in to damp, dreary autumn. And a few colourful leaves for a while don’t make up for months of dreariness!

Kettleison · 21/07/2019 13:39

Me! Dreading next week.