Can I wear this?

[Watermelon2019]

Please be gentle, I took a huge step today in trying to accept my new post partum body (ds 13 months). Can I get sway with wearing this or does it look utterly ridiculous.

I would wear the top but with high waisted loose fitting wide leg trousers..maybe vertical striped, to give the illusion of being taller.
I think a loose fitting top with legging type trousers, will just hide your boobs and make you look a bit frumpy. You don't want to hide them boobs!!

I'm nearly 20 years older than you and have just bought some M&S cropped jeans that I think would really suit you - not too skinny either. Top wise I'd go for a V neck and slightly less cropped than your first one - sitting on your hips would work.