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How do I deal with a Weird creepy dad from school?

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SoConfused2019 · 04/06/2019 14:32

My brother calls me at the weekend giggling asking when was the last time you went to a certain local pub by ours. Bit random I thought then he couldn't stop giggling and eventually told me that theres a google review of the place and see photos of me on there too.

I quickly jump on google to check it out thinking he's joking and he's not, it was a kids party of someone in my sons class from last year or even before. I saw the name and recognised it right away, our kids are in the same sports team but i've barely spoken to this guy. his wife see regularly as our children are in the same class but its always her at the school, i'm actually creeped out by it as they do seem to be a facebook family - whatever they're doing there are updates and photos throughout the day! Im completely the opposite.

There are at least 4 photos of me alone, no other mums in them at all, 1 with another child who wasn't mine in the background, but for the most part i'm sitting there not noticing he's taken them, im looking away, on 1 of them im dealing with my own child who was upset but hes cropped him out and just left me. he's then added them to a google review to say the party was great and the pub was fabulous. i'm a little weirded out by this though, and I definitely don't want my photos on google without my permission!! I also dont want it to become a thing as from what I can gather of him he's very sarcastic and if he knew this had got to me would probably refuse to take them down. Can I report them in anyway?

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user87382294757 · 08/06/2019 14:15

I do think it is a bit much putting photos online however not sure if it makes him a 'perv'. Our school puts lots of photos online too. Think the adoptees situation is a concern though. Not really sure why people need to leave all these reviews etc as well.

Soola · 08/06/2019 14:21

@user87382294757

What part of him taking sneaky photographs of the op don’t you understand?

What part of him cropping out anyone else from the photo so that it’s just her, don’t you understand?

What part of him using the photos of just her to upload as part of a google review font you understand?

What part of the op never giving him permission to take her photo or be aware that he was taking her photo don’t you understand?

user87382294757 · 08/06/2019 14:35

I just don't feel that taking pics in general of a person in clothing can be considered 'pervy', up skirting or something like that would be a different matter.

I'm leaving this discussion now because doesn't seem possible to have a rational discussion, however.

Soola · 08/06/2019 15:18

@user87382294757

But he hasn’t taken pictures in general. He’s taken pictures of the op. No they weren’t upskirt but it’s still very odd to focus on someone he doesn’t know and who was unaware that he was taking their photo.

Please have a think as to why a lot of ya have questioned your odd posts on this thread as your comments don’t address what the op clearly explained what has happened.

Soola · 08/06/2019 15:19

Ya means us

WeeDangerousSpike · 08/06/2019 17:56

It's all just bizarre. Even if there wasn't a malicious or 'pervy' intent I would be arsed off with his views being alongside my photo - like they're my views or I'm associated with him in some way.
I'd also be contacting the adoptee's parents without delay, in case there is a safety issue in publishing a photo of her. They need to be aware in case they need to take action.

Soola · 08/06/2019 21:32

Any news op on whether the photos have been removed or not?

Cherrysoup · 08/06/2019 22:05

Pretty sure you can ask the provider (Trip advisor?) to remove the photos.

Soola · 08/06/2019 22:10

For the love of God!

It was a Google review.

Soola · 10/06/2019 08:09

Any update op? Have the photos been removed.

Hope you’re ok.

GarthFunkel · 10/06/2019 09:02

He's getting off on it, isn't he. How exactly I have no idea - is it a power trip or some bizarre fetish?

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