A quick poll- if you are married....

[BertrandRussell]

Did your husband ask your father’s permission before he asked you?

If possible, just a yes or no.

No

Christ no. My dad would have thought he was bonkers.

No

No. He wouldn't have been the right one for me if he had.

My former flatmates boyfriend asked her father's permission, bought a ring in advance and went down on one knee. She loved all 3. I would have hated all 3!

No

No.

My dad did ask him if he had anything to ask and was told that it was not his decision to make.

Given how things turned out with notatallD F I am ever so proud of DH for being so decided!

No.

No

No, and if he had my Dad would probably have throat punched him and told me not to marry him. I don't belong to any man and I never have.

No.

Yes

Also, he didn't ask me, we just kind of agreed.

No.

No, my dad's isn't alive for him to have asked but i wouldn't have wanted DH to ask.

No (but because I told him not as neither my father or I wanted him to, he wasn't bothered either way)

No

No 😂

No. But I asked DH to marry me not the other way around.

I didn't ask his Dad either.

No

Yes. I found myself unexpectedly pregnant. DH asked my dad for my hand in marriage. My lovely dad replied "well you might as well, it seems you've had everything else". He was joking but poor DH didn't know how to take it.

No

Yes

Yes

Yes
and DS.