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Mother had massive heart attack -anyone up?

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 03:17

We lost my father virtually to the day and she's nearly 90.

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gingerfreckles · 05/02/2019 03:27

I'm sorry op this must be a terrible shock are you alone Thanks

AmandaKnocks · 05/02/2019 03:28

I'm up. Really sorry to hear that. Do you have anyone with you?

Thisisthelaststraw · 05/02/2019 03:29

Sorry to hear Lobster Flowers

Thisisthelaststraw · 05/02/2019 03:30

How you doing?

MrsCatE · 05/02/2019 03:31

I'm so sorry. Can you call someone IRL? Flowers

Justagirlwholovesaboy · 05/02/2019 03:32

Where are you now?

Justagirlwholovesaboy · 05/02/2019 03:37

Do you have people?

Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 03:42

Thank you. In the hospital. It's horrible. I keep thinking Wilde: to lost one parent is unfortunate( to lose two looks like carelessness.

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 03:43

No, just me.

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 03:45

I knew how devastating it was for her. They were married for 66 years and she's been very valiant over the last year.

I can't lose her.

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MrsCatE · 05/02/2019 03:46

So sorry lobster just a virtual handhold. Is there a definite prognosis or is there a chance she could pull through? X

MrsCatE · 05/02/2019 03:47

You're there for her and I'm sure she knows. Flowers

Justagirlwholovesaboy · 05/02/2019 03:49

You aren’t losing her, you are letting her go to him, it’s so sad and you don’t want it, but maybe she needs it

Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 03:51

Thank you for the hand hold. I suppose that's all I wanted. It was the anniversary of my father's death last week and she said she wasn't sure she could go on. She seemed ok. Now massive heart attack.

Thank you.

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Justagirlwholovesaboy · 05/02/2019 03:51

You aren’t a bad child, you have done everything you can

Donmesswime · 05/02/2019 03:53

Maybe it's time to let her go.

Justagirlwholovesaboy · 05/02/2019 03:54

Remember what she said about family meals, this will live on x

Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 03:55

I can't lose her.

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Justagirlwholovesaboy · 05/02/2019 03:57

She’s not lost, she loves you so much

Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 03:59

I should have name changed plus got gasses for the hospital or D D will be on her way back in a shot!

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Justagirlwholovesaboy · 05/02/2019 03:59

Do you need to talk?

TheMammothHunters · 05/02/2019 04:00
Flowers
Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 04:00

My father didn't matter. My mother absolutely makes me.

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 05/02/2019 04:05

They've said I can sleep in ICU. I'm going to try. Thank you all.

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Justagirlwholovesaboy · 05/02/2019 04:06

I offered you someone to talk to, no questions asked

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