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So my wonderful husband to be just said "fuck off you cunt" to me twice because I asked him to help me carry 9 bags of shopping from the car in the rain while he was playing on the PlayStation.

Just came to vent.

I think he needs to be relabelled as 'former husband to be'...

What a shame it would be if a pint of water accidentally spilled on the playstation..

So the perfect relationship police are gonna jump on you who get divorced leave relationships at the drop of a hat.
Tbh it is a bit shocking to be called a cunt it's s vile word and I hate it and I'd definitely be having words with him about it.
Are you sure he wasn't wearing a headset and chatting to a friend online.

Yes, someone saying 'fuck off you cunt' is really the drop of a hat and just calls for 'having a word'.

When will some of the women on this website wake up and realise that abusive behaviour, be it physical or verbal, IS NOT NORMAL OR ACCEPTABLE. Sick of seeing disgusting behaviour and treatment towards women minimised by other women on threads like these. I can only assume these people are spoken to like that in their own lives and think it's normal

“Having words”?!

Sorry your standards are so incredibly low harley but that’s not a good reason for OP to settle for being treated like shit by the person who’s meant to love and respect her.

Some of us with “perfect relationships” have previously escaped shit marriages and have created some sensible boundaries around what is and isn’t acceptable. This is the latter.

Some people choosing to put up with awful marriages is a bad reason for others to do the same.

Indeed Celebelly

Same happened on the thread the other day about worst insults from partners. The people who refuse to believe a lot of us aren’t regularly verbally abused because it justifies the shit treatment they’re putting up with make me want to scream.

Blimey, he’d not be my future, present or past husband for that comment. Sorry OP but somethings can’t be taken back or forgiven and that’s one of them.

Oh my gosh, hope he’ll soon be Exh to be. If he’s like this now before you’re married, what will he be like after...

Jesus.

That's really not normal or acceptable OP. You don't talk to someone you love like that...

@AnneLovesGilbert FYI my standards are in no way low and most likely higher than yours but why should this lady be told to throw away a most likely loving relationship because he was most likely so engrossed in a game he momentarily forgot who or where he was.

Well you'll know what to reply when the Vicar/Registrar asks you '

Do you take H2B to be your lawful...
Fuck off cunt!

Although, seems a bit harsh to take it out on the vicar.

p.s. it is a full moon tonight which may explain the behaviour. possibly mine too

Were you arguing with each other and he said it? No excuse but I think context is needed

HarleyQuinnxx

But people in loving relationships don't get told to fuck off or called a cunt.

If this is indicative of the rest of your relationship, he would not be a husband to be for me.

Do not marry this wanker!!

I'd have come inside, got the xbox, wanged it out through the window and shouted "fetch" after it. Then wait for him to chase it outside, then bolt the door firmly. Forever.

Please don't accept this. If he gets away with it no it will continue and get worse.

How the hell can he think it's acceptable to speak to you like this?

It's raining, you have lots of heavy bags. A game is more important than you.

You should be shocked. Would he speak to his mother like that?

I'd ask him to leave.

Completely unacceptable. He is putting a computer game before helping you and verbally abusing you into the bargain. I would be questioning my relationship if I were you

Did he definitely say it to you and he wasn't talking to the game. My dh often talks to his game. He doesn't call it a cunt but does use some choice language sometimes

Jesus Christ. There are men who love women so much they propose, and also call her a cunt when she asks for a hand with something?! Fucking hell.

Run, run, far away from this utter wanker.

That's a bit extreme if he's never said it before.
My ex called me a cunt on a regular basis - in good times and bad so I was used to it (it was his favourite word). But maybe he's showing his true colours?

Been there. Had that. Now figuring out how the hell I get out.

Do it quicker than me.

He’s vile.

My DH would be toast if he spoke to me like that.

Get rid quickly, he’s show you who he is, believe him!

I wouldn't say dump him because of the language (altho' it's clear;y not acceptable) but I would say dump him because he's a selfish cunt who would rather sit on his arse playing stupid games than do a job that clearly need doing. Stick with this loser and in a few years you'll be complaining that he "never lifts a finger".

Ffs