Future husband HA

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So my wonderful husband to be just said "fuck off you cunt" to me twice because I asked him to help me carry 9 bags of shopping from the car in the rain while he was playing on the PlayStation.

Just came to vent.

You have to get out because one day he will hit the child too.

You’re being abused.

Your parents will worry more if you stay. Please tell them and get out before he convinces you its all your fault and wears away your self worth till you can't function.

Hope your ok

Have my very first LTB.

And sulking is NEVER an excuse for hitting someone.

Look at your child and think - WE deserve better. Leave now, your parents would be devastated if they thought you hadn't turned to them. Don't stay with this utter twat 💐

He will do this again.

It was not your fault.

His behaviour will affect your child (regardless of what they do or don’t see).

GET OUT. Tell your parents. If you don’t want to leave before xmas at least tell them and get your ducks in a row.

If you can get away tomorrow report to the police and get them to put a note on your address so they come quickly if called by you.

Please don’t stay. He might never have been violent before but all violent people started somewhere.

He will apologise and say he won’t do it again. He will.

You are good enough. Leave him. You deserve better.

Doesn't anyone else think there has to be more to this? (Apologies if I've missed a post.) How can a normal happy relationship transform in one day to abusive name calling and violence?

Justkeeprollingalong, either the OP has missed or minimised the warning signs or has put up with horrible behaviour which wasn't violent.

But yes. Shitty, violent behaviour can come out of nowhere.

I'm sorry to hear you've been treated so shitly OP. Getting married/moving in together/having a baby and key times for domestic abuse to escalate. Whats your housing situation?

Just echoing others OP. GET OUT. GET YOU AND YOUR CHILD SAFE AND NEVER GO BACK.