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Tom Hiddleston dating Taylor Swift

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MegCleary · 15/06/2016 23:10

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TheSpottedZebra · 16/06/2016 23:37

Did no one click my link? Sad They are on a private jet now.
Their pr has been v busy writing some purple prose.

Dozer · 16/06/2016 23:39

I'm really not media savvy but don't like snide speculation about people's sexuality.

So posters are saying that TS and/or some of the men she's been pictured with are gay, and seeking to hide this because of homophobia and the impact this would have on their careers. And that "the deal" for fake gf/bfs (usually less famous) is either reciprocal (if they too are gay) or that they get fame/media attention, benefiting their careers.

But isn't TS mega rich and successful already? Why would she want to be a "beard" for someone less famous? And if she were gay herself, is she not successful enough to be "out", or is homophobia too prevalent to make being open and maintaining a career difficult even for the very successful?

Depressing if so.

KimmySchmidtsSmile · 16/06/2016 23:40

I like Eric Bana. But he, too, is too old at 47. Same as what paula said about Idris. They want a few films from each one. Timothy Dalton was 43 but only did two films (although arguably was the stop gap til Pierce was released from Remington Steele).

KimmySchmidtsSmile · 16/06/2016 23:43

dozer

depressing but sadly, lavender marriages are nothing new...
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lavender_marriage

weirdsister · 16/06/2016 23:44

Eric Bana though. Can you imagine it? Even for one film.
I'd happily go to see Bond for once!

KimmySchmidtsSmile · 16/06/2016 23:46

Those ones on wiki are documented but there are many hollywood relationships alleged to do the same function now.
I shan't name them as the thread will get zapped plus it's really none of my business but we are in sleb twaddle and I can think of four, possibly five.

MitzyLeFrouf · 16/06/2016 23:49

is homophobia too prevalent to make being open and maintaining a career difficult even for the very successful?

It's weird, in the music business it's acceptable to be gay but in the acting world it would still appear to be career suicide. Rupert Everett said that his advice to another gay actor would be to stay in the closet. Which is really sad and quite depressing. By the law of averages a good chunk of well known actors must surely be gay but I'm hard pushed to think of any openly gay actors beyond Zachary Quinto who played Spock in the Star Trek re-boot.

KimmySchmidtsSmile · 16/06/2016 23:53

Richard Chamberlain, heartthrob, did not come out for years and advises fellow actors not to either. Because of lack of roles coming your way/typecasting etc
Barry Manilow did not marry his partner Barry for years. Because it was kind of an open secret but also because his fan base demographic was/is mainly knicker-throwing middled aged women.
It's still a huge deal for the music and film industry. Shouldn't be but there it is.
Think of how many openly gay A list mainstream actors you have....

MitzyLeFrouf · 16/06/2016 23:53

I've no idea if TS herself is gay but she seems like someone who is super controlling of her own image so who knows if she merely thinks being seen with 'hot celeb of the moment' X will be beneficial to her career or whether she wants to portray a straight lifestyle.

chicaguapa · 16/06/2016 23:56

I think this is a double bluff. They're probably dancing shagging like rabbits whilst everyone else thinks it's just a PR stunt. TH may be fame hungry ambitious, but he's not stupid.

The photos don't ring true though but that doesn't mean nothing's going on. I read a really good interview with him in Esquire and got the impression that he's a bit emotionally detached. He certainly didn't come across as someone who'd lay his head on someone's shoulders or put a coat round their shoulders!

KimmySchmidtsSmile · 17/06/2016 00:04

Yep. What mitzy said.
Although there are > openly gay musicians (Well done Will Young for not being part of the Cowell machine) boy band members are still expected to fit a heterosexual available mold. Some musicians with partners do not address it as they still wish to seem 'available' to their fans.
Maybe with gender fluidity being more prevalent now, that situation is changing.

KimmySchmidtsSmile · 17/06/2016 00:06

That should say pansexuality not gender fluidity. So my teen tells me.

weirdsister · 17/06/2016 00:07

In the snog shots TH seems to be wearing exactly the same clothes that he was wearing when he got on the private jet. Right down to the grey shoes. You're not telling me that he wears the same outfit twice.
So did they stop and do photos from the airport?

DaleMaily · 17/06/2016 00:09

In the extremely unlikely event that it is a genuine relationship, where do you go from being on a private jet on your first/second date?!

chica you have a point. I read that he split up with his long-term girlfriend to focus on his career, as that needed all his energy and if he didn't give his all, someone else would and take his place.

KimmySchmidtsSmile · 17/06/2016 00:26

dozer
She's worth 280 million allegedly.
He's worth 8 million.

Kudos to a buzzfeed commenter Erinne who said when they break up she expects a lot of material to come out of it.. ''I thought you were so low-key...''

Others are speculating on there being a Taylor Swift Bond song. Shaken off (not stirred). Night all x

CheerfulYank · 17/06/2016 03:05

There have been rumors about Taylor and Katie Loss forever. Though if Taylor were bisexual I think she could and would come out and say it.

CheerfulYank · 17/06/2016 06:08

Ugh, KARLIE KLOSS I meant.

CheerfulYank · 17/06/2016 06:09

Also Kevin Durand is huuuuge and scary and should have been Jack Reacher instead of that hobbit.

Tom Hiddleston dating Taylor Swift
noblegiraffe · 17/06/2016 07:33

If Tiddles is fake, why is Calvin Harris so pissed off?

It looks like Taylor had her head turned at the Met Ball Gala, and ditched Calvin for Tom. Not particularly nice to rub his nose in it.

ICanSeeForMiles · 17/06/2016 08:19

Despite who this thread is about, when Boris and Taylor were mentioned above, I immediately though of Brian Taylor and Boris Blush

RJnomore1 · 17/06/2016 08:29

I think we forget that a lot of money now comes from far eastern markets where homosexuality would not be as accepted. I think there are still a lot of entertainers and footballers forced into the closet because of that.

Which is sad.

raisedbyguineapigs · 17/06/2016 08:30

Ben Wishaw is openly Gay. There must be more but I can't think of any. I think that the film studios are so conservative that they are scared of anyone not seeing their film because there is a Gay lead. I think the Taylor/ Tom thing is more about 2 very ambitious people making a publicity mistep than hiding anything, but statistically there must be loaf's of secretly Gay actors.

JanTheJam · 17/06/2016 09:02

Have properly snorted and laughed at this wonderful thread.

gossip on recent TS and CH split [[http://blindgossip.com/?p=78799 here]]

JanTheJam · 17/06/2016 09:07

Ugh link fail

CheerfulYank · 17/06/2016 09:08

Luke Evans is gay.