Teenage stepson touched me

[Cherie67]

Help! I was having a snooze on my parents in law sofa after a shopping trip and was awoken when felt somebody touching my breast. At first I thought it was my husband being playful but when I opened my eyes, I was shocked to see it's my 13 years old stepson. I was so shocked that I did not managed to react. This isnt the first time though, last year during our holiday, I felt him touched my breast and told him off but he said it was an accident. On both occasion I spoke to my husband about it. He said he was going to talk to his son. I dont feel comfortable being around him anymore. He visits us only on sundays and occasionally he is allowed long weekends with us if we visit my in laws here in the Cotswold. What should I do?

WMM watch out for bonsour having a pop at you elsewhere on MN for having those annoying and man-hating "black and white" viewpoints

I completely agree that it's the jump from having the somewhat " healthy/ normal" fantasies of a teenage boy to actually acting out with an unwilling participant that is extremely worrying here. That and the lack of remorse and respect to apologise.

Has it honestly been hammered home that what he did was incredibly wrong OP?

I'm sorry that he didn't apologise to you op. And i'm sorry that you feel uncomfortable around him in your own home now. I don't think the issue has been properly resolved for you has it?

chocolate - breast touch - linked what the actual

Thanks for the heads up AF. I've seen her in action before, I wait with bated breath!

I cant believe some posters cant see how serious this is. hes 13 years old ffs, old enough to know its not acceptable to go around feeling peoples breasts.

he needs a serious talking to before he trys it with anyone else, someone whos parents arnt willing to stand for it and he ends up with the police knocking on his door.

I am step mother to 2 boys. They were 13 when I met them and I can assure you that they have never touched me inappropriately.
It is not normal behaviour.
I am shocked and disgusted that some posters feel that saying/doing nothing is better than rocking the boat!

In response to msrisotto, you are right, the issue isn't resolved. I feel uncomfortable because I feel violated, especially to a stepson who I love like my own. I have shed tears over this, the reason I am seeking advice here in MN. Iam grateful that there are a lot of sensible people with sensible advice and to those who PM, especially to the one who was a victim herself for sharing her experience and feelings to me.

Take care, OP

Your disquiet about this issue is fully understandable

This is awful :(

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Zombie spambot.

This entire thread should go. It is goady wank troll central.