Well there were only 2 of us here, Spiro and we managed it :) I think it would work better with cupcakes actually (albeit more work), as there wouldn't be as much cake for the syrup to soak into so it should get to the bottom more. Tbh, I'd leave out the rum altogether next time (I don't really like the flavour) and just have it as a lime and mint cake, but it's obviously more fun for a girly evening if it's a cocktail in cake form :)
All much better here today, thanks. MissT on the mend today (first time she's eaten in 3 days). I am still aching lots but feel heaps better. I may have just been a b!tch to DrT though :( I went up to bed early with MissT and then had a lie-in this morning but nothing had been when I got up so I've come down this morning to tidying, laundry, giving breakfast to TwigBoy, hoovering etc. which really got me down. Am I not even allowed one day of being illw ithout the hosue falling to pieces?! He did his small little "but I was trying to help" voice and the kids have been very demanding of his time, so he probably didn't much spare time to do chores. Funny how I find time though 
How are you feeling today, Spiro?