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I'm a single mum of 7. AMA!

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WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:29

Scared 😅

OP posts:
Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:28

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:27

You know how

You haven’t answered

or are you referring to your bottomless pit of savings?

Catarinabella · 25/07/2026 14:28

Have you heard of a thing called “contraception” understand it’s quite popular

minipie · 25/07/2026 14:28

What did your older kids think about you having the baby?

Would you advise your own kids to have a smaller family?

Are you definitely done and not having any more ?

MrMucker · 25/07/2026 14:28

What are your 7 kids all doing while you sit bimbling about on Mumsnet?

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:29

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:28

You haven’t answered

or are you referring to your bottomless pit of savings?

Edited

The same way as most people? Student finance

OP posts:
KnickerlessParsons · 25/07/2026 14:29

Do you and their father(s) earn enough to support all of you?

Snugglemonkey · 25/07/2026 14:29

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:07

No I agree with you ... I do pay tax too though!

You don't pay enough tax to cover even the benefits you claim.

basketsmash · 25/07/2026 14:29

@Blushingmits not because of too many dc though that’s the point!

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:30

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:29

The same way as most people? Student finance

So you’re in considerable debt now

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 25/07/2026 14:30

In one way I take my hat off to you. Single mum of 7 kids doing a law degree.

And on the other hand I think how could you get pregnant so many times especially as it’s not like in the olden days where there was limited contraception and limited access to contraception.

basketsmash · 25/07/2026 14:30

Snugglemonkey · 25/07/2026 14:29

You don't pay enough tax to cover even the benefits you claim.

This is true of most of today’s pensioners as well.

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:30

Snugglemonkey · 25/07/2026 14:29

You don't pay enough tax to cover even the benefits you claim.

And the tax on a low paid job that is 21 hours a week will be tiny anyway

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:31

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:30

So you’re in considerable debt now

Lots of student debt, yep!

OP posts:
TheSquareMile · 25/07/2026 14:31

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:56

I have good GCSEs and A Levels, and I'm in the final year of my LLB

Which area of the law have you most enjoyed studying during your LLB, OP?

summerrevival · 25/07/2026 14:32

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:25

Okay

It’s true.

You won’t get a job. Why would they hire you, with seven children who will need you to leave work at a drop of a hat? They can get a 21 year old with tons of legal experience already who will be available to work full time.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 25/07/2026 14:32

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:30

So you’re in considerable debt now

Well it’s either paid back when she gets a job or it’s not. Law jobs are relentless though (I used to work in law), I don’t think OP realises just how much pressure there’ll be with case loads, billing and how that works with childcare.

basketsmash · 25/07/2026 14:32

@CeciliaMarsbut many people with dc do get help with housing & childcare costs.

Corinthiana · 25/07/2026 14:33

basketsmash · 25/07/2026 14:30

This is true of most of today’s pensioners as well.

I paid in a lot for my pension over 43 years, believe me.

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:33

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 25/07/2026 14:32

Well it’s either paid back when she gets a job or it’s not. Law jobs are relentless though (I used to work in law), I don’t think OP realises just how much pressure there’ll be with case loads, billing and how that works with childcare.

The op has no plan for when the degree ends.

CysticWorrier · 25/07/2026 14:33

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 25/07/2026 13:34

Why oh why 😩 OP?

Well obviously the reason why is because OP had sex 7 times 😂

Monty36 · 25/07/2026 14:33

This post makes me angry.
If it is true I get the impression that the OP never has intended to be self supporting. But calculated that children equal money.
Married or not.
Seven children and on maternity with the youngest. I dare say more will follow.
No she cannot put them back, they are here.

The issue is the OP keeps having them. At everyone else’s expense. And can I think see what the problem is, but doesn’t care one jot.

Corinthiana · 25/07/2026 14:34

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 25/07/2026 14:30

In one way I take my hat off to you. Single mum of 7 kids doing a law degree.

And on the other hand I think how could you get pregnant so many times especially as it’s not like in the olden days where there was limited contraception and limited access to contraception.

Some women just like having babies, I think sometimes it's a kind of validation.

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:34

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:31

Lots of student debt, yep!

and you think your savings, which will be less than £16k as an absolute max, will fund your next legal training? Or getting in to more debt?

and surely your kids would benefit from your savings?

Tings · 25/07/2026 14:34

Catarinabella · 25/07/2026 14:28

Have you heard of a thing called “contraception” understand it’s quite popular

It appears to be far more popular in countries without benefits.

And strangely there seems to be less 'accidents' in those countries.

basketsmash · 25/07/2026 14:34

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It’s too late for that

There are already more over 65s than under 15s

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