Ex full service prostitute AMA

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I did it for around 5 years

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I haven’t sought therapy or counselling or anything like that but I have a couple of best friends that I can openly talk things through with which definitely helped.
I wouldn’t have a clue though I hope not.
Generally, he was quite a messed up person. I’m not an expert but I believe he had a personality disorder or something like that. He was often in trouble for other things, there were a few indicators of something being not quite right there

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Honestly I wouldn’t have a clue. I’d guess that providing they had the money it was relatively easy for them so that probably helped

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I didn’t judge them sexually at all. More generally. I didn’t equate them as particularly manly or able to interact with women in usual ways because surely if they were able, they’d be doing it but that probably says more about my mentality than theirs

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Yes, it was exclusively men. I was always a bit unnerved by how otherwise decent the men seemed to be. I’d regularly be told about decent jobs, cars, holidays etc. There wasn’t anything overwhelmingly weird or sleazy about them, they didn’t fit a type as such, just ‘normal’ men

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Thank you so much, I appreciate that x

Thank you so much. Just like the book suggestion, this is something that I’d genuinely love to do but unfortunately I don’t think I have the confidence. Maybe one day x

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Since writing that, I have slipped up a little and smoked but I’m still doing really well and I’m really proud of myself. I have smoked it since I was a teenager, probably in an attempt to self medicate but during this period, I was smoking really heavily. Aside from weed, I have never really been interested in drugs/alcohol which is probably a blessing

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I don’t really have any long term plans to be honest. I would like children and I wouldn’t mind moving to the countryside either but travelling sounds like my idea of hell, haha. At the minute I’m trying to focus on knocking the cigarettes/weed on the head and then I’ll probably take things from there

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No, it was exclusively men and I never bumped into anyone I already knew thankfully

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It was a little bit of both. Honestly, I preferred being in control of the bookings, it always felt like I had a little more control that way.
Not all of the women I knew were coerced or pimped but every single one was supporting a man that could’ve been working himself. I take a really dim view of this now, I find it absolutely shocking

Thank you so much. I think you’re right. To be honest, I didn’t expect the coercion aspect to come out in this thread. Obviously I wasn’t opposed to that though. MN picked up on something in 5 seconds that thousands of men didn’t manage to in 5 YEARS!

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I’d say so. Though my rates were higher than average so I’d say my clients tended to be quite well off which I’m sure made a difference

I clearly wasn’t aware of that or I wouldn’t have asked again. What was the point of your post? Also, the OP has just answered my question smile

OP thank you for responding.

Because have the courtesy to read the fucking thread

😂 I think you have anger issues - perhaps step away from the thread it appears to be triggering for you

Delighted that you find the thread so amusing as to deserve a crying laughing emoji. I would imagine that most sound, right-thinking women would find this thread sobering and thought-provoking, and would want to show respect and gratitude to the OP by making sure they'd read all her posts before asking an unnecessary and potentially stupid question. But you do you, of course.

Oh get a grip I’m laughing at the pp - and you now- who thought it ok to jump on me as I hadn’t seen a previous response. Not the OP or do you have trouble reading posts? Wtf do you think you are ?

good for you OP and a very strong move to get away from your situation

OP I was chatting to someone about your thread and we are both just in awe of you. To pull yourself out of that life and still make the effort to discuss it - despite a huge emotional toll on you- shows what an amazing person you are. Your efforts to help others understand and avoid what happened to you is truly inspiring.

Yes, I’m sure he had a similar set up with at least one other ex girlfriend, it definitely wasn’t his first rodeo.
The flat came from the money I made. Initially I worked from his flat where we both lived at the time though this was a short term thing.
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Answering a few more questions now

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I didn’t bother though I did pretend to enjoy it

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