Ex full service prostitute AMA

[Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter]

I did it for around 5 years

OP, just sending you love, blessings and power.

I hope you get counselling or therapy if you want to, have a brilliantly bright future and maybe one day run for political office...!

We need women with your strength to take up a big place in the world, I hope you will do that when you're ready.

💖

Do you honestly think she could have sat these men down and asked them to be honest with her about their relationships and family before proceeding?

Yeah, make prostitutes do a little survey on the relationship status etc of punters, and not take the business if they say they're attached.

What percentage of punters do we think would lie ..im thinking about 99.999% lol.

Men who lie to their nearest and dearest about cheating on them with sex workers .. but they're going to be honest to complete strangers whom they view as sex dolls and want to get their end away with 🙄.

Hi pleasetellme
Thank you for all this insight into a life that's a world away from my experience. I'm in awe of your strength.
You mentioned that you used to smoke weed (free one week now?) Did you smoke it before starting down this road and did you (have to?) smoke it to help you through the days when you were doing this? What stopped you from moving on to other drugs?

You sound amazing, I'm so impressed with your bravery, how you got out and re-built your life, wishing you all the happiness in the world.

Do you mind me asking what your dreams/plans are for your future?

Eg
Do you want children?
Move to the country?
Travel the world?
Etc etc

I wish you such a happy future OP and I'm so sorry you were ever in a position where this happened to you.

OP did you ever have women using your service? Also did you ever have anyone you know book with you?

im glad you are happier now and have found peace

She’s already answered both of these questions

Hi OP I hope I'm not too late. I'm so glad you are safe now. Such good luck to you in your future ❤️

My questions, if you are still answering.

Did your ex boyfriend strictly control the booking, payments and how the money earned was spent? Or was it more of a coercion situation where you ended up funding the household for everything?

Were most of the prostitutes you knew having to pay over to someone else?

I'm curious as it's "high paid" (but not for the price to the woman) but is it usually either a pimp taking it or fueling addiction?

I hope nothing offensive asked here, and no expectations for an answer if you feel uncomfortable.

Take very good care ❤️

Thank you for taking the time and emotional effort to do this thread. I'm happy that you managed to break free and are now in a better place.

Just a small comment/correction, I think the title should really be amended to 'full service sex slave', as that is what you were. There are many nuanced questions that can be asked from a prostitute or any kind of sex worker who enters the field out of her own free will.

Total respect from me OP, what a hard earned lesson in life. Can I ask did you service men from all walks of life at least as far as you could tell given there was undoubtedly no questions asked?

Not sure this row about your marriage is anything to do with the actual thread.

Wow. Did you miss where the OP said her boyfriend at the time was the one who got her into prostitution? She was very obviously in an abusive relationship so why don’t you direct your anger to your ex and not a woman who’s been groomed?

Didn’t the OP also say that she never asked personal questions so didn’t know the men’s relationship status? She also said she didn’t enjoy the sex, not once. I don’t think she was there thinking, ‘I wonder if this man has a wife/partner/whatever’ and probably thought of ways how best to get through the session. Your comments are disgusting given the situation.

Edited to add.

My post was a question out of interest to gain understanding.

What understanding do you need when you can clearly read this wasn’t done out of want or choice?

I reported you too I’m afraid. I’m sorry you ex was a shit person and I’m sorry for your pain but your post was awful and offensive and victim blaming. You can see that from the responses that your post garnered.
I don’t understand how you could have read the OPs answers and come at her in that way.

Perhaps you should start your own thread instead. You’re clearly in a lot of pain

OP thanks again for this AMA, I’m glad you’re finding it good to talk x

Do you think your boyfriend had groomed other women before. Where did the flat come from where you worked if he claimed he couldn’t pay a bill? He obviously knew he could prey on you/you were vulnerable.

I hope you can now have a better life now you’ve escaped and have access to counselling. It’s so common for women to go from abusive situations to abusive situations.

Well done for getting out and making a good life for yourself! I admire your strength.

Did you ever fake orgasms to keep the clients happy, or did you not bother on the grounds that they didn't care if you had an orgasm or not? (I'm assuming, based on what you said so far about not enjoying it at all, that you never had a real orgasm while working.)

Such a brave thread, I admire you Op

You're utterly pathetic. Grow up, you babyish, spoiled whiner.

No need to be a nasty cow

Thank you - maybe just maybe your brave posts here have been enough to make someone understand where things are going and change things.

I hope that over time it becomes an acceptable thing for survivors to speak out about. After all we often hear from ex gang members trying to steer kids away from gangs - but somehow prostitution is more taboo.

I understand your reluctance at the time to not take on board what the professionals were telling you - after all the person closest to you was telling you something very different.

After what you wrote, calling anyone nasty or a cow is the most rank hypocrisy on your part.

I think so too.
Honestly I’m not sure if anyone could’ve said anything that would’ve dissuaded me. Maybe I would’ve been more receptive to someone that had experienced similar but I couldn’t say for sure.

You’re welcome and thank you so much
No, I didn’t or not knowingly anyway
I only saw male clients

Thank you
I guess so, yes. I had some clients that I would see weekly, sometimes they’d divulge a little more about themselves. I also had clients that paid me extra or bought me little gifts they thought I’d appreciate. These weren’t the majority though.
GFE is basically pretending to be a girlfriend as opposed to more of a ‘porn star experience’

No, never experienced this, thankfully