Ex full service prostitute AMA

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I did it for around 5 years

I hope you are ok now, OP. No judgements around what you were doing at all, but it sounds like it wasn’t a choice you really wanted to make. I’ve heard prostitution described as a paid for rape, but equally I’ve heard some people say they enjoyed feeling like they provided a valuable service. Guess it depends on the person. Were the people who paid you generally nice to you or not?

I do. I can’t say what as it’s potentially outting and that’s the last thing I need

How did you get out OP? And another question, if I may: how safe was it for you to get out?

Hi OP, Was the pay good?

I’m sure it works fine for some but I can’t help but think they’ll be regrets in the future for others

Im so sorry your boyfriend did this to do. How did you get through the actual act, mentally? Physically even? Just how did you endure it?

I was one of the higher paid girls in my area

This is based on something I see repeated often. I hope it's not triggering for you to talk about your experiences. How do you feel about the concept that consent cannot be bought? Do you consider that you consented to sex?

Mostly yes. Luckily I didn’t have any really terrible experiences. A few were too rough. And a few others were quite nice to me, bought little gifts I’d enjoy etc

Did you have a high level of work satisfaction

I had to basically completely reinvent myself. I wasn’t always safe but I am now. I threw myself into working so I had a little money behind me

Id like to answer this but I can’t as I really don’t know! I couldn’t do it now

I second this. Hope you’re in a better place now OP.

Stupid sort of questions , so apologies in advance…
How do you cope if your client is very smelly?
Did you ever start with a client, then become scared of them? If so, did you make an excuse to get away? I would be so worried about personal safety.
What happens if you get sore in your nether regions? Did you postpone working to get better?

As I say, daft questions, but you did say AMA?💐

Were your clients mainly single as far as you knew ?

Yes, I consider that I consented but now I realise that there was definitely an element of coercion. I still struggle to get my head around exactly what happened. Generally, I don’t think I believe that consent can be bought. Contradictory, I know, sorry!

You're incredible OP. Has it affected your sex life now or has it put you off sex for life?

No lol it was shit

What happened to the money you were paid. Did you have to give it to your boyfriend?

also, just to add you sound like a lovely person and I’m so glad you managed to escape from all of this.

What are the sort of prices?

Not a question but to say I'm so glad you've got out of if. It clearly sounds like it was manipulated, you didn't enjoy and just did it to survive. Wanted to wish you the best of luck for the future and hope you have access to support to deal with it. What sort of person treats their partner like this, you're well rid and worth so much more my lovely. Time for you to take control of your life, small but meaningful steps. ✨️ You're strong, wise and still young so get the best out of life, as you deserve ❤️ xx

Not daft questions at all!
I didn’t encounter anyone very smelly, thankfully. I would’ve guided them into showering if I had of or potentially refused service.
I wouldn’t say scared as such but I was definitely weary/on high alert with more aggressive clients. I’d just push through it though, trying to guide the session so I felt like I was more in control etc.
I wasn’t ever sore from it but if I had of been, I probably would’ve just pushed through it.
There was a lot of just pushing through it involved! It was easier than it sounds when the sessions were one hour max fortunately

I never asked anything personal so I’m unsure

What do you think were the reasons that led to you being vulnerable to this man's coercion?

Thank you so much. I wasn’t interested in sex for a long time but I’m now with someone that makes me want to rip their clothes off on an almost hourly basis, lol, it helped

Sorry I am distracted and didn't write evethrinh I wanted to
Echoing other posters to say I am glad you are on a better place
I am just interested as I always think it's going to be much less than I think it should be if that makes sense
Sending good luck to you in the future op