As the title says, I’m a white British lady who married a Muslim man, an Asian Muslim man no less. I realise it’s not that uncommon these days but whenever the topic comes up with new people I meet, say at work, or through friends etc people always seem to have a 10001 questions, some that they are quite timid to ask.
so it’s made me think that maybe people have questions on this sort of thing, and some they maybe don’t feel comfortable asking face to face to someone they ‘know’…. Enter MN
Ama and I’ll answer honestly, the good the bad and the ugly
AMA
I’m a white woman who married a Muslim man AMA?
Vielendanke · 02/09/2022 14:57
Pootles34 · 02/09/2022 15:00
How religious is your husband, and are you very religious yourself OP? Have you converted?
How have your families reacted to it?
ItsSnowJokes · 02/09/2022 15:00
Do you feel that your husband treats you as inferior to him and other males?
shoebag · 02/09/2022 15:01
What religion were you born into?
girlmom21 · 02/09/2022 15:10
Have you both embraced each other's cultures?
Apollonia1 · 02/09/2022 15:13
How religious is he?
Do you fast during Ramadan?
Would you want your sons to be circumcised?
Would your daughters be expected to veil?
JustTheOneSwan · 02/09/2022 15:18
Did you feel pressured to revert to keep him?
Do you hope to break his cultural ties and live away from his family?
generalh · 02/09/2022 15:22
Do you have to dress more modestly? Does he expect you to do all the housework etc?
JustTheOneSwan · 02/09/2022 15:32
Can you get your head around the less equal sides of the religion? Will it be bearable forever or are you hoping he will soften his stance?
Have you got anyone outside (mum/friend etc) who's solely on your side?
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Watchthesunrise · 02/09/2022 15:36
What would you need to do to gain status or respect in his family's eyes, do you think?
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