I'm a trans man and local trans activist, AMA

[Sideris]

Hi there, folks.

As the title says, I'm here to respond to questions in good nature.

For a bit of background information, I'm 30 years old, a trans activist out of necessity (being the first 'out' trans person in numerous spaces, which didn't have any rules or regulations before, but have since been commended for ease of process by some new trans members or trans members who have been referred by me), have been 'passing' for about three years, now.

I see, so this thread is like your own personal territory and you get to police it and decide who can and can't post on it is that what you're saying?

Please stop, OP - you’re making yourself sound ridiculous.

As far as I know autogynephilia is a recognised condition?

You need to learn the qualifier "many", OP. Nowhere did OldCrone say that all transwomen have that particular fetish. But absolutely some of them do. And absolutely the vast majority of transwomen retain their penis.

Trans comedy gold. If the implications weren't so serious.

I guess op is upset because they've not been validated as brave and stunning and rejecting all those stereotypes

OP, do you think that if a transsexual person doesn't reveal their biological sex to a potential partner then they are committing a crime? For example if you were to start dating a man but he didn't know you are biologically a female and still have a vagina, should it be mandatory by law that you tell him, so that he can give informed consent to any sexual acts he wishes to take part in?

I'm also a bit confused about you stating that you are attracted to men yet you don't believe in biological sex and you don't believe in gender, so what makes a man attractive to you as opposed to a woman? How do men really differ from women if both gender and sex are social constructs?

I'm not trying to attack you, I genuinely am curious as I'd like to understand.

OP, Family is right. You are being ridiculous.

😂

The transsexual woman, who writes the blog I talked about last night, describes this at length - she refers to it as "the two types" and is dismayed to see "what she has always known and observed, as a transsexual" now disparaged and denied by trans-activists. She would be what recent TRAs refer to as "truscum." Charming, aren't they, these TRAs? Calling women "terfs" and transsexuals "truscum".

This is absolutely brilliant.

I’m enjoying the OP’s “work” in the name of transpeople. Fantastic thread which I have shown to a couple of people who couldn’t understand my concerns. They can now. Thank you OP!

www.autogynephilia.life/home

What part of that is a lie though op?
The statistics are out there for anyone to find.
Very high numbers if transwomen do not have full srs and they retain their Male genitalia.
Granted I don't know those statistics for trans men because on the whole trans men are less vocal and seem to be underrepresented so for that I'm grateful for your post here it's been an interesting insight.

There are also hundreds upon hundreds of posts on a certain web forum where men claiming to be transwomen chat about how turned on they are by the thought of their female bodies. Discussions about how to ask girls for tampons in female toilets. Chatting about how they steal their female relatives clothes to masturbate while wearing.
It's not a lie it's out there for anyone to peruse at their leisure.

@MNHQ please don't delete this thread - it is extremely valuable educational material, and we all see why the OP is trying to get it pulled.

I will not apologize to someone who's spreading the lies that a) most trans women are heterosexual, b) over 90% of trans women have not had bottom surgery, and c) that trans women get off to the thought of being women.

What are the correct figures then which you have then Sideris?

I have to say seem domineering and controlling OP😕
(I apologise if that makes you feel invalidated)

I’m feeling left out because I haven’t been told to fuck off

I’m enjoying the OP’s “work” in the name of transpeople. Fantastic thread which I have shown to a couple of people who couldn’t understand my concerns. They can now. Thank you OP!

The fact that you use my behaviour as an indication for an entire group of people shows your fucking bullshittery. I am pissed because of the amount of people who use my rape and sexual assault against me, I am pissed because of the amount of people defending those who have, I am pissed because I'm called a baby for not wanting people to use my rape against me.

I am not doing anything 'in the name of trans people' and you are on the side of people who attack me with my own rape.

On the contrary Rhino, as they are stereotypically male traits I imagine the OP feels extremely validated by such a description.

@MNHQ please don't delete this thread - it is extremely valuable educational material, and we all see why the OP is trying to get it pulled.

This.

Please show that you allow a variety of voices to be heard. Personal attacks on either side should be deleted I agree, but it seems OP is now actively trying to get the thread deleted by telling everyone to fuck off.

You so frequently shut down these conversations but women on this thread have shared important personal experiences such as sexual assault and abuse.

To silence them again is not in the spirit of mumsnet. Please think hard before deciding to delete.

Ahhh I see we’re at the ‘going for the screen shots now’ point.

FamilyOfAliens I'm often left out so it feels great to have been included in "the great fuck off." I feel really special now. Op is obviously trying to fill up the thread with offensive instructions. Imagine a 1000 count thread full of not world salad or soup, but word vomit that's not done what it aimed to do but has proved very educational. Thank you OP.

The fact that you use my behaviour as an indication for an entire group of people shows your fucking bullshittery

You’re doing the same to me.

You’ve certainly got the “male” argument style down pat. Well done