I think my feminist icon has to be Germaine Greer, even though I disagree with her on some things. Her lack of fucks to give is inspirational. I am going to misquote here, but I like "I don't know what. Feminist is-all I know is that it's what people call me when I express opinions that distinguish me from a doormat". And, darker, "Men worry that women will laugh at them, women worry that men will kill them"