Right, so you're a man. Not sure how I was supposed to know that, but thanks for clarifying.
And I never said the OP should pay her housekeeper three times the local rate, nor did I suggest that cleaners should earn the same as veterinarians. Those are arguments you've invented yourself. What I do question is whether someone performing a wide range of household duties including laundry, grocery assistance, companionship, and driving, should be compensated accordingly. That's not quite the same as suggesting every cleaner deserves a six-figure salary, is it?
And yes, like I said I've been heavily involved in conformation and breeding circles for almost two decades and people involved in dogs at that level tend to work closely with veterinarians and become pretty familiar with the profession, including what vets earn. I never claimed that makes me a veterinarian, but pretending I have absolutely no knowledge of the industry is ridiculous. Apparently your personal experience is perfectly valid while mine is automatically irrelevant. Funny how that works.
As for the generational wealth comment, thank you, I suppose? You're the one who brought up knowing wealthy people who employ household staff as though that somehow settled the argument. I simply pointed out that I'm familiar with wealthy households myself. You're welcome to think that's nothing to boast about, but I wasn't asking for your approval.
And no, I don't have communist notions simply because I believe people performing domestic labor deserve reasonable compensation. Cleaning may not require a university degree, but that doesn't mean it requires no skill, effort, or experience. The fact that you've somehow turned that into a debate about communism is genuinely hilarious.
Finally, I already acknowledged that I didn't initially understand the OP's circumstances and apologized to her. I've said repeatedly that yelling at an employee was inappropriate, and I still believe that. What I find remarkable is how determined you are to keep arguing with me while simultaneously insisting that I'm the one who needs to retreat.
You've written an extraordinary amount about someone you apparently consider completely clueless. At this point, I think you've made your feelings abundantly clear. HTH.
And don't worry, I'm out ... ✌️