Basically most Saturdays nights when the kids are with their nan I like to put music on etc.
Lasr night one of my NDN was blasting music on my bedroom wall side as well as playing playing some kind of bagpipe.
She also moved manure on the side of her driveway where I walk past with my DC.
We used to get on have a chat about out DC etc but over time she just blanks me.
If the music was bothering her surely she could have just approached me?
Of course I will be more considerate moving forward but is their behaviour passive aggressive?
They have never played music loud enough for me to hear and when I heard it I turned mine off.
Aibu